DrownedBoy

Oh I've had young providers say they're ready for an Uber. Then once it arrives they say they still need 10 minutes. The last time someone did thay, I told him if he didn't catch the Uber, the session was cancelled. He got in, then he gave me a shitty attitude because he had a massive ego. I need more filters on who I hire.

If you're willing to wait 15 minutes, you can always take or administer a swab HIV test at a session. However, if you're newly infected, you might not test positive for several weeks. That won't help either. Just be safe.

There are still 13 states that require people to reveal their STD status before sex. Even if it was a federal law, though, I wouldn't trust it.

If by "client attitude " you mean hiring consistency, then yes, that's the major way to make "discounts." Regulars I have a good relationship with locked me in at pre pandemic prices. I make it up through continual hiring and gifts.

I'm wondering if anyone has found something like this. I tried candy.io, but it seems very limiting. Obviously, ChatGPT has blocked my requests.

I'm significantly younger and skinnier than most clients (or at least the clients who hire my regulars). Nobody has ever offered me a discount for that reason alone.

My RM premium account already has my stats on it, as well as what I'm into, etc. You'd be surprised how few new providers bother reading a client's profile.

Well here's one guy who's definitely not Jewish.

Man, when I was a kid, they made such a big deal about that in my neighborhood. There was only one socially acceptable way to wear an earring. I remember hearing this often enough: "You got got the wrong ear pierced! It looks like you got mugged by a bunch of f@ggots!"

Many providers chose partners/spouses based on financial reasons, so that doesn't surprise me much. Then there's providers who end up with other providers. I don't have data on how long those relationships last after their escorting careers are over, but they definitely look good together.

There's no substitute for taking escorts out for a test spin, and if you make this your hobby, expect to waste some money and time doing that. Unfortunate reality of the marketplace. Like @APPLE1 said, I've seen escorts that I couldn't wait to try out, only to find out their personalities didn't match their looks. On the other hand, when I started hiring, there was this really hot, muscular guy I waited a year or 2 before hiring, because I was intimidated by him. I first hired him 7 years ago; he's my longest-term regular.

The biggest problem I have is finding providers who I'd want as a new regular. Younger escorts don't seem to realize how valuable regulars are, and I've had potential regulars blow me off, even after several meetings. Idiots.

As long as the nail polish goes with the rest of the guy. Red nails on an otherwise masculine- dressed guy would be incongruous. However, a goth guy with black nail polish (and, even better, long black hair) would look excellent in it. Accessories are the key

Oh...you meant the food....

Some people (ahem) like to roleplay that.

You can rent your own dungeon in Logan Square, Chicago. And they do have a sling!

Benjamin Franklin, Advice to a Young Man on the Choice of a Mistress (1745)

And that's practically the only age at which you might sleep with a provider for free. But I'm talking pre-apps here.

It takes practice, to figure out the right words, timing, and tone to take when contacting people. Keep working at it and you'll get there. Several times, I had new providers tell me that the moment they read my initial text, they knew I was both serious and a good client. To write those texts: Always politely ask if they're taking customers, make sure you read their ad in full, give them a name to call you by, use full sentences (with correct grammar and spelling), and call them by their assumed name.

Don't forget Andrew Cunanan, that really well-educated prep school boy. Whenever I hear people talk about the power of Chicago street gangs like Kings and Disciples, I realize they haven't paid attention to Chicago since 2000. Those days are over.

Ah. The same as Chicago. Gotcha.

Yeah, and some of us literally went from boy to man during his 15 year career 😜

I figured cops in NYC wouldn't dare enforce that laws on large amount of gays. I'd imagine you'd get accused if homophobia if you tried enforcing the same law that triggered Stonewall.

He's changed in the near-decade since I met him.

The only time an escort got violent with me was at a hotel restaurant, and the manager's response was exactly how you described. Guards escorted him away while keeping him from yelling out threats and screaming to the room that he was a male prostitute. Drug use doesn't always make for good sessionss. And, yes. I find it useful to have the number of the local police switchboard (not the direct 911 line) on my phone. The moment you start saying, "There's a man here who's yelling and refuses to leave....," watch the fake escort run. Then you apologize to the cop and go to bed.