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I'm fine with starting with the RM chat. I have had a few outcalls using only RM chat and it's worked out fine. But, after a bad experience getting into a provider's building, I will not do an incall without a number to text.

I saw Josh yesterday and agree with all of the positive comments above. I will be seeing him again. Only downside, for me, is that he is on Capitol Hill so driving and parking can be challenging. Also at: SweetJosh - Male Masseur, Gay massage in Seattle, WA | RentMasseur

I saw Daniel in Seattle and recommend. Looks like his pics, sweet guy, easy to talk with and schedule and a good massage. In the end I left happy. He does offer add-ons to the basic sensual massage and those were communicated in his first message.

The running club of which I am treasurer received a check for $31 from the swipe fee settlement with a note that more was coming. We are very low volume processor mostly processing the annual membership dues. The checks for the big processors must've been ginormous.

Steve used to be based in Palm Springs, now he visits a couple of times per year. SacralSteve - Male Masseur, Gay massage in Denver, CO | RentMasseur

Bumping Coming to Seattle. Thanks,

I saw Jason again and he is now working out of the spa in a downtown hotel. The setting is much more upscale than his previous location with a proper room, i.e. no lattice-top, for each client. The sensual elements of the massage did not change.

I'm not an attorney... but I believe that only applies to community property and assets brought into a marriage are not community property. It is likely that all of Geffen's investments are his separate property. In community property states wages are considered community property and while there is not likely W-2 income, there could be consulting income, board compensation, etc. I agree with the comment that Geffen's advisors knew what they were doing.

I recommend Leo. He is based in Palm Springs although currently visiting Boston. Super nice guy, fun, sensual and versatile. LEOFUNXL - Pornstar Performer, Rentboy, Gay Massage in Boston, MA | RentMen

One of the things I like about sensual massage is that it's about me. With an escort I feel sort of an obligation to help them finish (and it's rare they haven't wanted to). Not so with a masseur. If I'm sucking dick or stroking a cock when I come, that ends it for me and I bask in the afterglow. I've never had a masseur indicate they had wanted me to keep going. And, I had one stop me once as he said he was getting close.

My 10th grade PE teacher gave us instructions on how to shower (and showers were mandatory after PE in those days) - make sure to get the neck, pits and crotch. He occasionally showered with us and it was no big deal. FWIW, 50 years later, when someone from the community FB group asks about best/favorite teachers, he is always on the list. I was extremely unathletic in my youth (much to my mother's chagrin) and I only took PE because it was a required class. The showers were the only part of PE that I liked.

Several years ago I had a Grindr hookup in southern BC. I was smart enough to know you don't lie to border guards. Our conversation: Where are you going? to see a friend How long have you known this person? 5 days How did you meet? Grindr What's Grindr? a social app for gay men. They wanted to question me further so I had to go inside and repeat the story (which I've always suspected was to provide some amusement for the office). After the two rounds of questioning, they let me in. I was thankful they didn't ask the age of the hookup as he was 18 (which is above the age of consent, but still...) and I am "older". We had a lovely night in a hotel and then I had to explain to US border guards why I had spent 16 hours in Canada.

Seconding Topform's recommendation of Jason.

Very nice guy, very good at sensual massage. I've seen him three times. Obviously very expensive. You will need to decide whether or not it's worth it to you.

The only person I've ever allowed to receive a read receipt from me was my boss (the owner of the company). And I'm retired now so no one gets them. None of their business.

Two different masseurs above. Michael's Signature Massage is MichaelBruce on RentMasseur. There is a separate thread about him. I have met him and recommend him.

I've met with trainedmassage (the second link) several times and the massage is very good. He does look like his profile pic. Some of his other pics are maybe older or enhanced and they are a newer addition to his profile. Not sure what's going on there. Happy to answer questions re trainedmasssage (Benjamin), but have never met tyhandsforyou.

I've had good luck with the Gillette Body Razor. I use it in the shower with everything soaped up and slick. If it's been a while it will take a few passes to get to smooth. Never had a nick.

Let's get a Palm Springs group together! If you're in Palm Springs (or near) and you're reading this, you're invited. Wednesday the 21st at 12:30 at Billy Reeds (1800 North Palm Canyon Drive, just north of Vista Chino). If you can RSVP that's great, but not necessary; just be at Billy Reeds by 12:30. Questions? here or via DM. Cheers.

Bumping. Coming to Palm Springs.

Ad is gone. he sent me an unsolicited "hi" on Thursday via RM messenger. I responded with a "hey, what's up" and he came back with "nothing hby". At which point it felt like a stupid Grindr conversation and I lost interest. If the rate was reasonable I would've been interested in meeting.

When I'm meeting someone for the first time I carry the absolute minimum. Cash for fee & tip, car key, phone only if I need to communicate with them, maybe glasses (sun & reading - both cheap). If I'm hosting somebody new everything important is hidden.

I think the key is to just be upfront in your ad "I cannot host". FWIW Back in the days before I could host (which I prefer now) and neither could the provider, I would never assume it was the provider's responsibility to secure a room - I took care of it - and this was way before Dayuse.

It's the pig butchering scam. Lots of discussion in the finance section.