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So I typically hire for one hour, but hiring someone for the first time with a two-hour minimum.  I know how to use up one hour of time, but what are some ideas for filling up the extra hour (beyond do it again, which doesn't work for everyone).  

 

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I like two hours when I can afford it. First, you can spend five or so minutes just talking instead of feeling like you've wasted precious minutes. You could spend five more minutes kissing or massaging. You can just take every step and go more slowly with it. If you plan on anal, let's say, I'd make sure you've had at least 45 minutes or an hour of foreplay. And of course, two hours can leave time for some cuddling, etc. 

I did two hours recently and the time flew by. 

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I have always been perfectly fine when the appointment ends earlier than the scheduled time period due to my "finishing up." Don't feel any need to make the provider hang around when both of us are done. It's fine for me, in fact usually I'd rather just leave when we're done.

If it's an overnight of course, that's different. I would have scheduled an overnight with one of the goals being to get to know the provider, and I appreciate the extra time cuddling, or having breakfast in bed, or taking a shower together. That stuff is fun for me. 

But, to each his own. 

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For 2 hours, other than doing it again... If we "finish" early, we just hang out and chat. Or we just call it and leave early and i just consider the "lost time" the fee for not having to worry about feeling rushed in a 1 hour slot, i'm not bothered by that if i'm the one choosing to head out early. Sitting in forced small talk too long is painfully awkward to me, and a scenario i'd pay to get out of. So it balances out lol.

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Like @BuffaloKyle I’m a huge fan of 90-min blocks. That is the sweet spot for me. I often book 2 hours as I do not like to be rushed. How to fill the time? Relax. Enjoy a beverage and a chat. Make a shower part of the scene. Get undressed slowly. Feeling like you’ll “finish” too fast? Take a break; have a drInk. Afterwards, enjoy some pillow talk. Give your provider a chance to shower and clean up before sending him on his way. Meeting at a hotel? Meet in the lobby or out on the patio. Get naughty; I made out with my provider on the patio of my hotel whilst it was raining - that was so sexy! I had a provider feel me up in a Starbucks before we went to my room. A really upscale hotel? Order room service and make out for the 30 mins it takes for food and drink to be delivered. A good word is foreplay; with 2 hours there’s no rush to “bang one out”. Take photos if allowed. You’re paying for the provider’s time; your time together needn’t be all sex. A provider in years past took me for a ride in his classic Camaro as part of our scene. Oh! And he was naked! @Colton you’re limited only by your imagination, your comfort level, and the boundaries set by you and your provider. 

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Over a number of years I’ve never booked under two hours. Generally, we sit and get to know each other (if a new provider), or catch up with a regular. Invariably, we open a bottle of wine. We then flip to show time on the sofa, and then head to the main event in the bed. I love foreplay and some kink, as do my providers. Afterwards we finish off the wine. 90% of the time they’re in no great rush to leave. Of my regular twink/twunk rotation, none still have an active ad. They’ve become my private stock. 

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If the man's rates are reasonable and offers massage, my desired session length is 2 hours to include massage then play.

For strictly sex sessions, I typically just hire for 1 hour but recently hired a man for 90 minutes and it started with talking/drinking/making out, then fucking, then a cuddle/kiss/talk, then a "now time for Round 2" of fucking.

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54 minutes ago, Vegas_Millennial said:

If the man's rates are reasonable and offers massage, my desired session length is 2 hours to include massage then play.

For strictly sex sessions, I typically just hire for 1 hour but recently hired a man for 90 minutes and it started with talking/drinking/making out, then fucking, then a cuddle/kiss/talk, then a "now time for Round 2" of fucking.

I echo opening up with a massage. In my experience, it’s a great way to relax and ease into the session while still working toward the main event.

I also like to massage the provider a bit before diving into things. Doing so allows me to surreptitiously inspect the provider’s body for any suspicious bumps or odors in the groin area that might raise concern (especially during my first time with a provider). It can also help me to build rapport with him, particularly if I work out some of his knots. 🙂 

A glass or two of wine — or sometimes a shot of liquor — can fill up time while adding to the ambiance. Just be sure to check that the bottle is unopened and the glasses are clean (again, especially during the first time with a provider).

 

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