You paid for an hour. It peaked in 30 mins. Now what?

[kennylong]

For clients - genuinely curious how people handle this.

You book an hour.
The main “action” wraps in ~20–30 mins.

What do you do with the rest?

– go for round 2
– slow it down / hang
– let it coast
– check out

And what actually makes you want a round 2 vs not?

I’ve noticed if I don’t want a second round… the session already feels over.

[Keenan]

1)Find ways to prevent that before it happens, don't jump right into the main action at the beginning of the session.

2)The main action isn't everything, there can be other parts such as cuddling, massage, etc... though it might be better to start the session with these things then move more into the main action.

[BeHappy]

I feel you highlighted your options quite well!

Most cases “When it’s over it’s over”

[Mark_fl]

Whatever you want it to be. Remember, we're paying for time, not sex acts.

[maninsoma]

This highlights a big difference between an escort I'd hire only once and someone whom I would hire repeatedly:  If a guy gets ready to leave as soon as "the main action" finishes, even if it's only half-way into the hour, then I would never hire him again even though I obviously enjoyed the first half.  A potential regular is going to understand that just being "company" is part of the job and will be able to converse, cuddle or whatever.  I certainly never expect a "round two" within an hour appointment and, at my age, I couldn't even have a second round in an hour, but it is nice just to touch someone with no expectation of it developing into sex.

[+ nycman]

A smart practitioner immediately goes into “cuddle, afterglow, touch” mode.

At the same time he needs to be aware if the client is sending out clear “time to leave” vibes.

An escort that overstays his welcome is as annoying as one who leaves too early.

Which is which? That’s up to the ever changing moon, chemistry, and fickle clients. 

Nobody ever said the job was easy…..

[SecretProvider]

2 hours ago, kennylong said:

What do you do with the rest?

Follow the lead of the client.  Look for body queues as to what it is they want. For eg. If they get up and get dressed, I mirror that energy. If they get up to do after sex pee, I stay as is, and encourage a cuddle, but if they then start getting dressed - so do I. I never start 'packing up' until the client does. 

6 minutes ago, nycman said:

An escort that overstays his welcome is as annoying as one who leaves too early.

Yeah sometimes the energy in the air is 'i want this guy out so I can get on with my day now'. Some guys as soon as they blow their load - it is over. they start thinking about their wives, and guilt comes in. The session was purely about sex and nothing more. Others are craving intimacy and connection, and pillow talk is a big part of that.You have to learn to be acutely aware of what they are wanting. Often client will not come out and say it, we have to read body language. 

1 hour ago, Keenan said:

don't jump right into the main action at the beginning of the session.

This is SO IMPORTANT. Sometimes I worry that clients think I am stalling or trying to stretch time out, but in truth - I am building up tension, sussing out what they are interested in REALLY, learning a bit more about them, looking to find things in common. I am not a clock watcher, the hour is over whenever it naturally ends (within reason) - but the ice breaking at the beginning always leads to a better session. 

[GymGuy]

4 hours ago, SecretProvider said:

This is SO IMPORTANT. Sometimes I worry that clients think I am stalling or trying to stretch time out, but in truth - I am building up tension, sussing out what they are interested in REALLY, learning a bit more about them, looking to find things in common. I am not a clock watcher, the hour is over whenever it naturally ends (within reason) - but the ice breaking at the beginning always leads to a better session. 

From a client's perspective, that is very good.

 

4 hours ago, SecretProvider said:

Follow the lead of the client.  Look for body queues as to what it is they want. For eg. If they get up and get dressed, I mirror that energy. If they get up to do after sex pee, I stay as is, and encourage a cuddle, but if they then start getting dressed - so do I. I never start 'packing up' until the client does. 

Yes.

[acks0104]

Have him look over your tax return

[Nightowl]

As someone else noted, it’s the time you’re paying for.  I’ve had a few occasions where we just lay there together, talking or just enjoying the warmth of each other’s bodies.

[+ Lucky]

Too often the escort shortens the session. He may charge you for the ten minutes he was late,and, of course, he wraps up ten minutes early. Or one guy I know of left after he came...15 minutes after he arrived!

Of course you can have spectacular sex in less than an hour, but, as pointed out above, you are paying for his time, usually one hour.

[soloyo215]

13 hours ago, kennylong said:

For clients - genuinely curious how people handle this.

You book an hour.
The main “action” wraps in ~20–30 mins.

What do you do with the rest?

– go for round 2
– slow it down / hang
– let it coast
– check out

And what actually makes you want a round 2 vs not?

I’ve noticed if I don’t want a second round… the session already feels over.

I go for more rounds, sometimes hang around and have conversation, sometimes just some foreplay, once we played video games.

What makes me go for another round to is liking sex and my body agreeing with it.

I think that the feeling of the session being over might have to do with chemistry, interest or interpersonal skills. I do enjoy talking to the provider; that helps me determine my interest in future sessions.

I haven't experienced providers cutting the session short. I have cut sessions short, but never the provider.

[+ Just Chuck]

I’ve had a session switch to just a therapeutic massage session at that moment.  That was a smooth way to finish out the time booked.