DaddyCares Posted March 4 Posted March 4 I'm seeing there is a lot of variation in what escorts charge. I'm curious what factors you consider when deciding if an escort is worth the price or not. Location Preferences Experience Body Cock (size and shape) I'm curious if anyone has a range that theyre willing to pay based on how many of their own checkmarks are clicked off by a provider + SidewaysDM 1
Mark_fl Posted March 4 Posted March 4 My interest in guys is pretty narrow, so it's got to be a 'yes' for me before I reach out. If the response and price is satisfactory, then I can book. If a guy wasn't my 'type', not only would I not know the price, but wouldn't be interested if free. + SidewaysDM, + Pensant, + SirBillybob and 5 others 5 3
+ purplekow Posted March 5 Posted March 5 Well I am always interested in free. Not to say that it is always a yes, but depending on the star alignment and hormomal levels, free always seems to be an option I will consider. I started out with a very narrow range of type of men to whom I was attracted. As my experience has increases, I find I have a greater range. That being the case, if I am interested enough to call, I am interested enough in paying the price within reason. Convenience to location or having them willing to visit me will play a role and I will pay a bit more for that convenience. When I lived in NJ that was definitely the case with NY escorts coming out to visit me. Ultimately once the little head is involved, price definitely is less of an issue as the big head usually is the one taking that into consideration. + Pensant, + SidewaysDM and DaddyCares 2 1
Becket Posted March 5 Posted March 5 Good reviews and a pretty face. Within reason I do not care about package size. Gimme a nice smile on a handsome face, please. + SidewaysDM, BenjaminNYC, DaddyCares and 2 others 2 3
Wolfer Posted March 5 Posted March 5 One big thing I filter on these days is lucidity in their replies. If they text like they can barely comprehend or process basic communication, I will stop the conversation quite fast. The main reasons I pay for escorts is ease of scheduling and convenience. Tajoki, Rayphactor, jackcali and 3 others 2 4
jackcali Posted March 5 Posted March 5 While there's variation in what escorts charge, that variation is not THAT wide. In NYC, where I usually hire, hourly rates are between $300 and $500, with $400 being the most common figure quoted. (Second hours or longer sessions are usually less per hour, etc.) Of course, there are the $1,000 an hour guys, who I don't even consider. But within the "normal" range, I'm insensitive to price and make a hiring decision based on looks, convenience (whether and where they can host), reviews, and vibe from the initial communications. In my experience, I never had a good session with a $300 guy that wouldn't have been just as good if he cost $500 and I've never had a bad session with a $500 guy that would have been any better if I'd only paid $300. Whoisyourdaddy, + SidewaysDM and Wings246 2 1
BuffaloKyle Posted March 5 Posted March 5 (edited) There's a checklist of things I look for in a provider which include physical traits and things they'll do or get into. So if someone for instance checks off every, or almost every, box I'm more than willing to pay the very top of my comfort zone what they charge. Edited March 5 by BuffaloKyle + SidewaysDM, Wings246 and GymGuy 2 1
+ SirBillybob Posted March 5 Posted March 5 (edited) It’s a curated setting, he is a ‘must have’, and my FOMO impels me to pursue first dibs in order to push other punters out of the way. I’m neither Swiss nor a musketeer. Edited March 5 by SirBillybob
savantsav Posted March 5 Posted March 5 (edited) I've paid 500/hr with a min of 2 hours before to someone who IS Top quality. He was a total professional for the most part, great body, dick and personality. Talking 4k overnights, 8k weekends where I would fly him around and put him up in 5 star hotels. Unfortunately they started slacking and after a while they performed less and less... so I booked less and less and nowadays I don't book him at all. His loss. Edited March 5 by savantsav Tajoki 1
Wings246 Posted March 6 Posted March 6 10 hours ago, jackcali said: While there's variation in what escorts charge, that variation is not THAT wide. Not necessarily pay more, but more likely to hire: just like @jackcali mentioned above, my local average rate is quite similar to that of NYC. So I stay within that reasonable, average market range. I won’t even bother with those who price themselves higher than the deities because they are marketed for the celebrities, filthy rich, and royalties — definitely NOT me. I’m neither a compulsive nor impulsive buyer. Whenever I see a tantalizing profile, I’ll add it to my buddy list. If I find myself revisiting the same profile again and again over a good/long period of time, it signals to me that there are certain qualities about this person that arouse me. That’s when I begin to make my move. jackcali 1
viewing ownly Posted March 6 Posted March 6 I would donate more to an escort if I liked my first experience, and noticed an uptick in their rate. Otherwise, it's a search for someone else who would be within my budget who I can sense would be a good match for me.
Wings246 Posted March 6 Posted March 6 Just now, viewing ownly said: I would donate more to an escort if I liked my first experience, and noticed an uptick in their rate. But isn't it usually true that regulars will keep the same rate as the 1st visit?
viewing ownly Posted March 6 Posted March 6 4 minutes ago, Wings246 said: But isn't it usually true that regulars will keep the same rate as the 1st visit? Not always. I suppose it depends on what is perceived as "regular". I consider seeing someone who visits my town annually to be a "regular", since I see him every time. But, on his end, once a year isn't really regular, and I shouldn't be immune to a rate increase, should he have one. Seeing someone every month or week - that should be under the guise of being a regular. Wings246 1
Decatur Guy Posted Monday at 06:31 AM Posted Monday at 06:31 AM I definitely have to think twice once someone is quoting more than $300 an hour. Factors that could make me go up: Great chemistry on a get-to-know-you-call. He advertises a fetish I really like (such as a top who enjoys being rimmed). I don't really have physical types, but sometimes someone has a certain look where my interest goes up. And sometimes, my drive is higher and therefore my price tolerance is too.
+ Just Chuck Posted Tuesday at 11:50 AM Posted Tuesday at 11:50 AM I saw an ad for an escort who had attended culinary school. For an extra fee, he’d include a dinner and drinks in his sessions. I can’t remember where I saw that though. It’s been a few years. Wings246 and jackcali 1 1
jackcali Posted Tuesday at 11:58 AM Posted Tuesday at 11:58 AM 4 minutes ago, Just Chuck said: I saw an ad for an escort who had attended culinary school. For an extra fee, he’d include a dinner and drinks in his sessions. I can’t remember where I saw that though. It’s been a few years. I usually hire for an hour or two, which is enough activity for me, and I'm not an interesting enough conversationalist to fill the time of a longer session. I do love to cook though, and the idea of cooking and enjoying a nice dinner with an escort (with other activities before and after) sounds like my perfect multi-hour session. I'll have to keep an eye out for the opportunity.
ShortCutie7 Posted Tuesday at 12:35 PM Posted Tuesday at 12:35 PM Location/ability to host is #1! If I can just drop by his place on my way to or from work (or wherever I have plans that day), that just makes scheduling infinitely easier. jackcali 1
+ BOZO T CLOWN Posted Tuesday at 12:59 PM Posted Tuesday at 12:59 PM What would make you pay more for an escort? Nothing. BTC 🤡 thomas, liubit, + Alabastrine and 1 other 4
soloyo215 Posted Tuesday at 01:37 PM Posted Tuesday at 01:37 PM On 3/4/2026 at 5:39 PM, DaddyCares said: I'm seeing there is a lot of variation in what escorts charge. I'm curious what factors you consider when deciding if an escort is worth the price or not. Location Preferences Experience Body Cock (size and shape) I'm curious if anyone has a range that theyre willing to pay based on how many of their own checkmarks are clicked off by a provider Location: has made me pay less, not more the farther he is, the more to pay in transportation Preferences: Not sure what this means Experience: No Body: No Cock: I'm already paying for the fact that he has one, and I'm not a size queen No "range" for me, I guess. They quote a rate and if I think it's too high I pass. Some of these questions seem based on the premise that certain type is better and in higher demand than others, which I completely disagree with.
+ JEC Posted Tuesday at 07:57 PM Posted Tuesday at 07:57 PM (edited) There is a category of escorts I refer to "premium", meaning they have exceptional looks, and an exceptional reputation. For them I am willing to pay a premium price (within reason). I was recently quoted a $1000 minimum for an escort (CJ Delco) , and took a pass - even tho he is hot AF, and I know we would set the bed on fire. I'm especially willing to pay a little more if, during chatting with the provider, I get the vibe that we are going to have good energy (sexually). I'm a dom top and love submissive bottoms. If I can ravage your hole, and you beg for more, I'm willing to pay a little more 😜 Edited Tuesday at 07:58 PM by JEC
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