ShortCutie7

I won’t post an exact number, but I will post whether the fee quoted to me is in what I have deemed the “standard NYC median range” ($300-$400 for a 1-hour incall).

Same here! I’m thankful escorts can’t see when I buddylist them and view their profile, because if they did I would get tons of messages and waste my time and theirs! From my experience, the only time escorts contact me is if I message them first or view a previous message exchange.

Wowww, hope he’s real!

I think it’s totally fine and actually a good idea as long as it’s something the provider approves of in advance. That said, if I were a provider, I would be angry if I received payment in the form of an Amazon gift card since I don’t use Amazon… it’s like getting expensive sports memorabilia as a gift from someone who has no way of knowing whether or not I am interested in sports.

I started a thread on this topic a while ago: https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/148929-most-classically-handsome-nyc-providers/ As for guys I’ve met, Karl_Kelso fits the bill (no, he does not have face pics online): he is gorgeous and has all of the attributes outlined above. https://rent.men/Karl_Kelso

I don’t think there would necessarily be the same line for every guy- that’s where facial handsomeness would be the deciding factor! That said, it’s rare that I would find a man’s face really handsome if he’s not at least in decent physical shape… usually if a man has excess body fat he has it in the face too.

I’ve never had a provider not look like I’d expect, but I guess it would come down to whether his body looked nothing like his pics or if he was just in slightly not as great shape. I’ve encountered providers whose bodies didn’t feel as hard as they looked, but that’s not quite the same thing.

I definitely never learned anything remotely involving finance in NYC public schools (other than a stock market “game” in elementary school), all the way up through senior year economics class and AP Calculus. It’s always been baffling to me that the curriculum does not include basic “life math” like making a budget and paying taxes.

Here’s the thing: the face is VERY important to me, but I can tell 99% of the time if I’ll find a man’s face handsome without a full/clear pic. Usually seeing enough of a chin, a side profile, a blurred pic, a masked pic, etc is enough to get a good gauge.

When I first started exploring the idea/possibility of seeing a provider, I was looking at masseurs because of my presumptions about safety and legality, so I was really only looking at masseurs who would provide “extras”. I then realized that that was silly, since I had no desire to receive an actual massage.

Also a deli provider with no reviews there but excellent reviews on RentMen. Hosts in the Bronx per when I messaged him there a few months ago. https://rent.men/Theo_SS

I also have the tendency to be overly polite and my first paid encounter was hindered by my hesitance to ask for what I wanted in the moment… I learned my lesson!

Exactly- I have an acquaintance who used to be neg/on PreP, but ”partied” a bit too hard and is now poz/undetectable.

1! As @maninsomasaid above, the provider has the option and right to not disclose status at all, so if he is disclosing it, it is expected to be true. It is the client’s right to know the truth if it is in the profile and/or if he asks. If there is nothing on the profile and the client doesn’t ask, the provider has no responsibility to disclose anything to the client unless he believes there is a chance he gave the client an STI.

Yes! The factor that makes it most difficult for me to hire is a lack of free time- I might actually have some free time on Monday or Tuesday, but… not so soon after Pride 😬

Wow, that’s incredible!!

What kind of job do you have that you get so much PTO?? I get 15 days a year including sick days, holidays, vacations, etc…

I recently figured out a new solution- use rentmen.at/escortname/reviews

Seems to have been around a while, but the search isn’t showing anything, nor can I tell where he is usually based. https://rent.men/juleszee

I don’t care if they swallow but they need to be ok with getting cum in their mouth since I usually don’t know when I’m cumming while receiving oral. On the flip side, I never [intentionally] swallow.

I haven’t met him (yet), but I regularly see his content on TikTok: https://rent.men/JJinNY

This is 100% accurate- I am in that age demographic and it’s part of why I don’t think those my age and younger who claim to be on PreP are realistically consistently doing so or getting tested etc. Exactly- what I’m trying to say in this thread is that I don’t get why someone would be ANTI-condom.

I totally get that… my point is that condoms are more encompassing in what they protect against than PrEP (even when combined with DoxyPep), so the attitude against condoms by someone who is knowledgeable enough to be on PrEP in the first place is ridiculous.

People are so incredibly short-sighted… one would think someone knowledgeable enough to be on PreP would know it only protects against one STI whereas condoms protect against pretty much all of them…

I totally get that- my example of the Chinese restaurant was because it is extreme and a place I used to go quite often. As @Vegas_Millennial said above, it’s more about specific items and goods purchased than the vendor.