ShortCutie7

@pubic_assistancein my experience “kosher-style” means that the restaurant or catering hall follows all of the basic rules of what “kosher” means except for the way the animal is killed and the presence of a mashgiach/rabbi. A kosher-style deli would not be actually kosher but would not serve dairy, shellfish, or pork.

Yeah, I saw the title of this thread and thought “wouldn’t like 80% of clients likely be overweight? Why would it be an issue?” That said, I am very short (which can be a turnoff for many) and always make it very clear in advance to hookups so they’re not surprised if it’s an issue.

Interesting- most of the Jewish delis I have been to in NYC, Massachusetts, and Florida have been kosher or kosher-style. I can only think of one that has mac and cheese and reubens on the menu (Sarge’s, which has the best deli brisket I’ve had). I’m Ashkenazi and love spicy food and garlic but do have a strong aversion to onions (I’ve posted about it before, but they taste to me like a scientist took the scents of dog shit and rotten eggs, combined them, and turned them into a flavor).

Haha, actually both meanings of “very hot” would be accurate 😂

Walking around Chelsea this morning, in today’s warm weather, I saw dozens of guys I would describe as “very hot”- that is, a notch above the “above average” or “good-looking” guys that I regularly see around. Anyway, let this serve as a reminder that there is an endless supply of hot guys in this world, and don’t let a bad or mediocre experience with one get you down!

Then they weren’t kosher or kosher-style… can’t combine meat and dairy.

What’s surprising to me is that a Jewish deli would have Mac and Cheese at all! On topic, I’ve definitely noticed that in the last couple of years, hot and sour soups in Chinese restaurants have gotten hotter.

Agree with you on facial hair! I think 95% of men look better without it. Same goes for long hair, but I don’t see that as much. Incall location and neighborhood! Like an actually accurate map of where the session would be (and if the escort can even host in the first place) and a way to search by location other than the “near me” filter which is not remotely accurate. On a related note, I wish RM could verify when an escort listed as such received their most recent negative test results (maybe by them “opting in” to upload a screenshot) but understand that may be illegal and could easily be forged.

Exactly! I have posted before and gotten flack for it, but it is a fact that it takes me TWENTY hours of work to take home pay (after taxes and 401k etc) for ONE hour of a provider. Yes, it is worth it, and the jobs are not comparable, but that is a HUGE difference. I think a lot of you are greatly overestimating the income of the average New Yorker. According to the census (https://www.census.gov/quickfacts/fact/table/newyorkcitynewyork/HSG010222), median per capita income in 2022 in NYC was 48K. An escort charging $300 per hour would only have to work just over 3 hours per week to make that. Again, I’m not saying $300 or even $400 is too much; just putting it into perspective with what most people make.

Based on @pubic_assistance’s posts, I strongly doubt I’m his type lol

Part of the reason I’m interested in using the services of a provider is to get experience topping. As a little guy with a nice ass, I’m expected to be a bottom, but I find it quite painful and only slightly pleasurable. I thus have very limited experience with anal and would consider myself a side. I think a versatile provider would be the most helpful in teaching me to top, especially since in the last couple of years I’ve found myself becoming an ass man 😍

Exactly, that’s why I wouldn’t attempt to negotiate on my end…. it cheapens the experience and is not worth the risk of marring the time eventually spent together.

I think a question that aligns more with OP’s intent would be “what can I as a client do [non-financially] to get the best service possible?”

Love it! In my fantasy, the barber is semi naked the whole time and I feel him up while he leans over me… prior to other activities 😈

It’s an amazing business idea! As a client, it’s a lot easier to justify getting a haircut (“maintenance”) than a massage (“luxury”)!

One would think maybe an erotic haircut or (face) shave would be an option somewhere?

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Funny thing is, for me kissing is the most important part of sex. I’d define myself as homosexual/aromantic in that I don’t see myself getting married or spending the rest of my life with anyone. I don’t look at a hot guy and have the desire to do anything with him other than make out and have sex… I have friends and family to spend time with and generally prefer being alone anyway. But I also definitely don’t have a sex addiction, considering how infrequently I have sex 🤷‍♂️

I see what you mean, but for me it is because I have never felt romantic love.

For once my fixation on incall location comes in handy! I wish the location feature on RentMen was actually accurate, but the following list is based on messaging, the body of their profiles, and posts on here. Guys in the area include: HK: Sebasfit, Thickmuscle, GoodLeanFun, Santiago_Fitness Columbus Circle: AngusStevensXXX Hudson Yards: Traveling_Twunk Lower Midtown East: ViktorYork, RickyP

Yes!! He had been my number one pick until I realized “massage” wasn’t a euphemism and I didn’t actually want to be massaged lol.

I haven’t in the past but am highly considering using them in the future (and actually started a thread about them a while back). I have never allowed guys to cum in my mouth, and hook up very infrequently and only with guys I have been chatting with a while (I consider that to be a form of vetting and always make my fear of STIs clear prior to meeting). What was surprising about this particular escort was that he had written in his profile something along the lines of being orally gifted. Possibly he didn’t suck me until I inquired because when I played with his I only briefly licked his shaft.

Since my menu of options is relatively limited as I am scared of STIs and find bottoming painful, kissing is VERY important to me… and not just on the lips, but all over. I can’t imagine enjoying and paying for a hookup without at least some kissing. I was actually surprised that on my (only thusfar) encounter with a provider, he kissed passionately but did not initiate oral.

I never thought of it, but that’s absolutely true! I don’t think I know anyone around my age (mid-thirties) who has more than two kids.

Agreed- I always hated the word “queer” in this context. I also don’t particularly care for the word “gay” even though I have used it to describe myself in the past. The most accurate term for me is homosexual since it clearly defines that I am (solely) sexually attracted to other men, but doesn’t necessarily have an impact on any other aspect of my life.