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ThickMuscle- I wrote a more detailed account in his thread.

That’s why what happened was so surprising- he had all good reviews and seemed really nice!

Today was the first time I have ever been rejected by a provider in person due to my appearance (at least I assume that was the reason)… it was frankly quite humiliating and I would have rather been screened out in advance.

I don’t think the need to shower was the issue; I just gave it as the only possible explanation other than my not being his type. He does look like his pics (at least the face; I didn’t get to see his body)- incredibly handsome… in fact, so handsome that I would consider hiring him if he were to reach out with an explanation (and the reason were something I could control).

That’s what I assumed to be the reason. I’m used to getting dismissed immediately due to my height (even though it’s listed in my profile AND described in my username)… though it could have been anything. I was quite sweaty when I arrived, but when he asked me how I got there, I explained that I had taken a bus and a very long walk [in sweltering heat and humidity this morning] to get to him (so if hygiene was his concern, he would know that my sweatiness was situational and nothing a quick hop in the shower couldn’t take care of).

Another provider in HK turned me away on sight, so I began messaging all of the providers I knew to be located nearby who appeared to be online. Soccer_us was the first to reply that he was available at the moment, so off I was to his apartment. He lives in a beautiful high-rise, he opens the door, and his body is lean and toned, just like his pics. His face is handsome too, just like one would expect an athlete to look. I go in to kiss him, and he obliges, but does not seem really into it. We feel each other up, he removes my shirt and starts squeezing my ass. He then says he wants to top me, and I let him know that I’m not interested in doing that. He indicates that I had messaged him that, which I did not, and then I told him the very basic activities I was interested in. He let me know that it would cost $150 more than the rate he had already quoted me, so I said I wasn’t comfortable paying that, gave him $100 for his less than 5 minutes of time, put on my shirt, and left. Second guy within the span of one hour who was really hot, looked like his pics, and was pleasant enough, but didn’t work out.

This thread didn’t come up in my search earlier (even though I posted on it myself)! I had a disappointing experience meeting him today- will quote in a minute.

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I planned by entire day today (one of my only days off… ever) around seeing Thickmuscle at noon. We had easy communication, and he was game for all of the activities I messaged him that I was in. I arrived at his building about 7 minutes early and he messaged me that he would not be available until exactly noon. I buzzed him at exactly 12:01, walked up to his apartment, and he lets me in. He is strikingly handsome and looks just like his pics. He then told me he wouldn’t be able to do today since he didn’t realize he would have to work… this was obviously not true because if that were the case, he would have let me know via message instead of letting me in and turning me away on sight. That said, he was pleasant and offered to reimburse me for my commute (I declined).

I ended up meeting Harryluis last-minute today after two dud experiences with other guys (I’ll post about them elsewhere). His body is absolutely incredible- rock-hard, tight muscle (his biceps were the most impressive I’ve ever felt, and his pecs and abs were very defined).@Harryinny he is currently more trim than his pics, so now would be a great time for you to see him- he told me he would start putting on more muscle again in a couple weeks. But again, he was still very muscular and I was actually more turned on by his body in its current state than in his pics. On that note, his face was also a bit more slender which accentuated a chiseled jawline and cheekbones (handsome in a very masculine way). He is a FANTASTIC kisser and our lips were connected almost the entire session. Dick is beautiful and thick (he said it was small; it is not), and he has a nice perky bubble butt. He apologized profusely for his English, but we had no trouble communicating other than that he was surprised by a load in his mouth that I warned him would likely happen. He was very sweet and generous with his body (showering together and watching/feeling the water dripping down his body was a sight to behold). He offered to top me and said it wouldn’t hurt, but I wasn’t ready for that. I would 100% recommend and repeat.

I used to be on Grindr in HK all the time and definitely never saw him on there lol. I also may have just made tentative plans with him 😈

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Exactly! This describes my situation- I have never been in a relationship because I have not had the time/opportunity to date and pursue relationships. That doesn’t mean I would be a bad boyfriend if my situation were to change… just inexperienced.

A lot of these gay men who seem to be in monogamous relationships are actually in open relationships (and may very well be lying to their friends and family about it)- I have come across so many app profiles of men I knew to be “happily taken” over the years… and they still are, but there’s more to it than meets the eye.

Glover is one of the most consistent performers in the world- she will be giving 1000% every time!

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It has only happened to me once that I could tell a provider was not remotely attracted to me (not the same guy/situation I mentioned earlier). In my case, I was eventually able to figure out that the reason was one entirely out of my control.

Yes, wear whatever is comfortable and easy to quickly take off/put on! Whatever makes you feel sexy but is also logistically appropriate. I’m sure you already have, but make sure that the provider knows he will be with a woman so he can prepare accordingly… there’s really nothing you can do in that regard beyond making his expectations as clear as possible. Re hygiene: one thing that I now know to do if my appointment is not in the morning, is to use mouthwash or brush my teeth right before the appointment (I had a bad experience with a provider once because he “felt sick” after kissing me, and I later found out it was because I hadn’t thought of taking mouthwash with me to or brushing my teeth at work…).

Yes, advance research (including hours of operation) is key! I used to go on road trips with relatives, and my aunt was an expert at this sort of planning- she would do a lot of research and find specific restaurants en route to our destination to eat lunch and dinner, and then would plan the “travel day” around getting to these specific restaurants at an appropriate time to eat these meals.

Wooooof, this man is a walking wet dream

So handsome!

I’m frankly not hot enough to escort, and even if I were, I would be terrible at it because of my fear of STIs, lack of sexual experience/skill, and general prudence… but yes, I have absolutely thought about it in a “what if” context.

It’s funny, I’m a 100% gay millennial and am not generally a social person (and don”t date), but I do prefer to connect with hookups beyond sexually and am now friends on Facebook with both of the hookups I had the best chemistry with.

What incredible definition!

I finally got to see this- a few points: Audra’s vocals were exactly what I expected. I have always loved the richness of her chest voice/lower register, and she delivered. Transitions to head voice were not at all awkward, though I didn’t think some of the key modulations within songs were necessary. Audra’s acting was also excellent- her take on the role was similar to my memory of Bernadette’s performance. On that note, I wouldn’t say she did anything revolutionary with the role… she just gave a very layered, nuanced, thoughtful, and moving performance. Having now seen her, Nicole, and Jasmine, I’d honestly be happy with any of them winning the Tony. They all gave outstanding, deserving performances. Danny Burstein was far and away my favorite Herbie that I’ve seen- he truly made me understand how/why he fell for Rose and vice-versa. Joy Woods was also wonderful and completely believable in the transformation/arc of her character. There was a moment in the first part of “The Strip” where I could see her starting to enjoy it- this was a key moment that made the shift to the next part less abrupt. The supporting cast was uniformly phenomenal, including some understudies. It was nice to see a fully fleshed-out physical production. I actually thought the orchestra wasn’t loud enough and needed more “umph”. I don’t think I have thought that about any Broadway show ever (usually if anything, the orchestra is overpowering), but maybe I’m spoiled by the expectation of a very brassy sound for this score.