ShortCutie7

I’ve posted a lot on this topic so won’t beat a dead horse, but this is a point that I don’t believe I’ve hit before because it should be obvious: Generally speaking, it is a provider’s job to play with anyone willing to pay. This “anyone willing to pay” may not be truthful about having an STI, may not know if he has an STI, and may not necessarily even be asked by the provider if he has an STI. When you are playing with a provider, you are also playing with all of these men he has played with. While the provider can do everything in his power to protect himself, nothing is 100% effective.

This reminds me of a restaurant story: When I was a child, my parents and I regularly ate at a restaurant that gave 10% off on Mondays (except holidays). We ate dinner as usual on a typical Monday and when we got the bill, my parents noticed that the discount had not been applied. When they asked the waitress, she seemed surprised as well and took the check back to management. When she returned, she said “ohhh today is a holiday eve, so no discount.” We never ate at that restaurant again.

Sometimes these fantasies get triggered and it makes my day… “Greg” posted this sexy pic (cropped for privacy) today…

Wow, hope he’s real!

These points are part of why I DID like the book- I thought the lack of realism in the tone was exactly what the show needed to work.

Yep, my tipping in restaurants has changed a bit over the last few years: 20% the pre-tax amount pre-Covid. 22% the post-tax amount when we were coming out of quarantine. Currently I tip around 20-23% the post-tax amount. As @arnie indicated, I’ll tip a higher rate than that for an inexpensive meal (not the server’s fault if I order the cheapest item on the menu instead and of the most expensive).

Wow, out of curiosity, what was the tip-off? I know very little about these things.

No experience, but messaged a while ago- NYC hosting location is in Williamsburg… newer pics are incredibly hot!

1- No 2- No 3- No, BUT there’s one specific issue that if I get the sense a provider would have a strong opinion on in one direction (whether by him posting about it on X or having some key words in his profile), I would not hire him because I would feel unsafe.

I saw Smash last night and very much enjoyed it… the theatre was packed and the audience was very enthusiastic. I found the book, score, and performances to all be very strong. In another year, all three Marilyns could have been locks for nominations, but I can see why Hurder was not nominated in this year’s extremely competitive field since she was not given as much to do as the leads in other shows (this came across as more of an ensemble cast), plus the other two were so strong that her character was NOT the clear choice (which in context of the show makes sense). I agree with everything @Cooper wrote in his post including that “Boop” would likely be a better choice for the average theatregoer if one had to choose, but both shows were really fantastic IMO.

Hosts in Brooklyn, has NYC phone number- maybe just new to being a provider; not to NY?

I agree with this take- I would be surprised (and disappointed) if I were in your position, too.

He replied to me over a month ago that he is located in NJ.

Yes, look at the word within the word that the asterisks cover (“rape”). I’ve seen other sites censor the “hardon” within “Chardonnay”.

EXACTLY what I would do 🤤

@marylander1940 thanks for posting some amazingly hot guys, especially on this page… dammmmmnnnn

I just started watching “Idol” regularly for the first time since circa 2012… was VERY surprised (though not upset) that MKY was eliminated. I also agreed with the judges’ decisions tonight (though not with America’s voting).

I’m a Kinsey 6 and honestly don’t care if a guy behaves in a feminine manner; as long as he looks like a man I’m fine… so an effeminate twink would be fine as long as he presents as male.

I’ve always found there to be one major hole in this protocol: when you randomly walk into a barber shop/salon or restaurant, how often does the owner or manager introduce themselves as such? What if you theoretically have no way of knowing that the person cutting your hair or waiting your table happens to be the owner or manager? Wouldn’t it be insulting to NOT tip someone providing a service for which you would customarily tip?

I have felt sore during and after every single time I have attempted bottoming!

Here’s another one… let’s call him Chuck. I met Chuck on my first day of grad school, as we were in several of the same classes. I noticed Chuck immediately- his gleaming eyes and smile lit up the room. He wasn’t really my “type”, but I thought he was very handsome. We became fast friends and worked together on several projects. About a month into our friendship, we had lunch with a (female) classmate to brainstorm a project. That lunch led to Chuck and our classmate talking about dating. Chuck revealed that he was a “Kinsey 5” and was mostly gay but did have a serious girlfriend at one point. Chuck then turned to me and asked if I was seeing anybody. I then told them that I had never dated/been in a relationship because I was gay but not out… that was the first times I had ever told anyone that! A few months later (during finals), I got into an accident and Chuck basically saved my life. I ended up living on campus the following semester while I was recovering from my injury, and Chuck was living in another dorm down the block! I spent lots of time with Chuck that semester, and we would often go to gay bars and spaces. He is incredibly outgoing and I am pretty introverted, and he got lots of attention from men. We would also frequently go on his balcony and “guy watch.” We were basically each others’ only gay friend, so we talked about a lot of things we had not been able to with others. After that semester, I moved back off campus and Chuck graduated. Chuck comes to visit my city every so often and is serially monogamous- he has introduced me to a different boyfriend each of his visits. A few years ago, he sent me a drunken message that he regrets not making out and jerking each other off while “guy watching” on his balcony. I had no idea he would have been game for that 😭

Tone is very important in these kinds of posts, and often inherently lost in writing- I think it is always best to give people the benefit of the doubt. For example, I don’t think that pointing out that he has brown patches of skin was intended to be judgmental, but saying “what’s that about” can easily be perceived as such. However, explaining that it is vitiligo is actually incredibly helpful information that I would be grateful to see in this sort of thread if I were considering hiring the provider at hand. Additionally, posting things like “I see his only selected interests are PNP and fisting” or “I see he has no listed health status” (not this provider, just an example) provides helpful information to those who may not notice things like that while scrolling with their dicks.

That’s surprising… if they google themselves, this place will often come up!

I love this thread! Let’s call mine “Greg.” I met Greg in Junior High- we were both selected to go to represent our school at some sort of conference/ceremony. We rode in a limo together with my mom chaperoning from and back to school- my mom insisted Greg call her “mom”, which he got a kick out of. I got along great with Greg but only got to see him in passing since we weren’t in any of the same classes. A few months later, I went to a new (to me) summer camp, as the one I had previously attended had shut down. Who just happened to be in my camp group? Greg! Greg was the star of the camp, and I was his second-in-command. Greg and I had a strong bond as we were both fat kids and could probably sense we would both end up being gay. We both went back to the same camp the following year, but lost touch afterwards as we went to different high schools. My freshman year of college, I created a Facebook account and got an immediate friend request from Greg. Greg was now tall, lean, and stunningly handsome. We didn’t interact much and I didn’t really think about or keep track of him. A few months later, I went into the city near my college and went into an establishment. Who was working in that establishment? Greg! We didn’t get to spend a lot of time together since he was working but he was quite flirtatious. My fantasy: I waited for Greg’s shift to finish and asked him out. One thing led to another and we played (I had some incredibly graphic fantasies about him), dated, and for married, and he ended calling my mom “mom” for real. The reality: I left the establishment to get back to campus, and Greg ended up transferring to a college that was not near mine a few months later so I never got to see him again. The upshot: Greg is now incredibly successful and is married to a man who is fairly similar-looking to me (so even though I would typically think him to be out of my league, I do think he would have been interested). I have actually seen nude photos of Greg and his body and cock are quite impressive. I still often fantasize about Greg.