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I am brand new to this and have never hired anyone. I intend on hiring the four I noted being “most likely to meet” in the next few months, and then eventually hiring most of the others further down the line. I have a very rigid schedule and their precise location plays a huge factor in if/when I’d be able to see them, which I had to ask them in order to find out… are there unspoken rules I don’t know about regarding timing of reaching out to providers? I now have the information I need to schedule something when I have the opportunity to do so.

Both guys are very very hot, but I agree that Lucas is definitely closer to “classically handsome”.

All I did was ask for their incall rate and location, which would determine whether I would continue the conversation. I reached out to so many because I did not expect the number of responses I received (and received the majority of responses after I had already sent most of the messages). I could not have wasted more than 30 seconds of anyone’s time.

Exactly! The issue with my aversion to onions is that people put them in everything. I actually don’t mind that onion bomb because I would smell it from a mile away and know to avoid it… no sneaky little chunks of onion there!

I find it very interesting that a lot of you are saying that you wouldn’t pay $300 or more for an hour-long session. I reached out to 16 escorts in the last few days and $300 was the LOWEST amount I was quoted (albeit the most common rate). Note that these are all in calls in NYC. Since I’m a bit of a numbers geek, here is my analysis of the numbers: Minimum: 300 Maximum: 500 Mode: 300 Median: 345 Mean: 362 There really does not seem to be a rhyme or reason as to which escort charges which rate (I couldn’t find any relationship with body type, age, ethnicity, etc). Out of the 16, there are 4 that I am most likely to meet, mostly based on their location and communicativeness (they’re obviously all hot as hell). Their rates in ascending order are 300, 350, 350, and 400.

Ah yes, the classic moment when the item is on your plate despite not *technically* being in your food 😔

I buy that! I know someone who hates most peppers but tolerates roasted red peppers.

Wow, BOTH gluten and lactose intolerant… must be a tough Venn diagram to navigate!

I also suspect that some men are lying about being from these countries… I was recently researching a masseur (who claims to be Latino), and found that many clients said that he was hot but didn’t really look like his pics. I then looked up his phone number and was brought to the Instagram of a(n albeit sexy and somewhat similar-looking) man of middle eastern descent.

Yes, I can’t imagine having to spend money on a hotel room in your own city… part of the reason I’m looking at hiring a provider in the first place is to take my inability to host out of the equation. I have twice in my life split hourly hotel rooms with particularly hot hookups when neither of us could host, but it kind of defeats the purpose of paying a provider.

I do think I might be mildly allergic to onions since I have gastric issues whenever I eat them (in contexts where I can’t taste them). Funny thing is, I love garlic! And ginger, for that matter. Though I don’t like anything pungent in breath.

I really hate onions. In any form. You know how some people have a gene that makes cilantro taste different to them? I must have that with onions because there’s no way in HELL they taste the same to me as they do to people who like or even tolerate them. But my point is, it’s an incredibly inconvenient food aversion to have since onions seem to sneak their way into the majority of dishes. And if I have this issue with onions, I can’t even imagine what it must be like to be deathly allergic to peanuts, or highly intolerant to gluten, or have an any medical reaction to a very ubiquitous and often hidden food. Who of you who have these allergies/intolerances/aversions? Any stories of a time it was particularly inconvenient or worse?

Thanks @MikeH10! Neither of those threads came up when I searched. I’m curious as to if he actually lives in NYC, and if he lives in Canada that would explain why so few New Yorkers have seen him lol.

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“Behaving accordingly” would mean not reaching out… no preventative measure is 100% effective, even if you combine them. I once played with a guy who I knew to be undetectable… I was too scared to go anywhere near his cum, and my mind was racing for weeks after thinking that I could have caught something just from making out with him (what if we both had cuts in our mouths and he didn’t take his meds, etc). Different people have different thresholds for what amount of risks they’re willing to take… mine has essentially made me celibate for the last few years. ETA: I know this fear was completely illogical, but I can’t deny that I had it.

Yes!!! Though I do recall seeing a thread on him that indicates that these pics are outdated, and there’s some information missing from his profile that would me (personally) from reaching out to him. Completely agree with this- I think handsomeness requires a combination of effort and genetics/natural looks. I don’t think surgery is a deterrent unless it looks fake.

Totally agree; both Page and Hemsworth are classically handsome by my standards- that is why I was initially confused by so many posters bringing race/ethnicity into the equation.

To be honest, I would never meet a provider who did not have his status explicitly written on his profile. I can understand having a day job and not wanting to be found out, but providing is a job as well, and IMO it’s my right as a potential client to know that very important piece of information before I contact someone. It’s like a restaurant having a menu without any prices- the prices are a crucial determinant as to whether the vast majority of customers can afford to eat there.

Interesting that a lot of us are associating whiteness with “classically handsome”. I (being white myself) personally have found cubanbd and “Gustavo” (whom I assume are both Latino) to be the most classically handsome men in this thread. I am glad you posted Eric and agree that he is very handsome, albeit not in a classical way! Exactly! That is why I started this thread; to have a respectful dialogue of what makes a guy classically handsome and a list of handsome (classically or not) guys in NYC as examples and add them to my docket of guys to consider contacting when I just want to stare into some gorgeous eyes.

Agreed! Too bad that the thread on him indicates that the man in the photos is not the man who you’re hiring.

He does look very handsome to me, but yes, a bit plastic. Yes, he does it for me!

Yes, I have used the terms synonymously!

I guess those are important attributes, but as I wrote before, to me it’s an undefinable quality.