ShortCutie7

Yep, I am currently friends on Facebook with the two hookups I had the best chemistry with… they both came up under suggested friends. I don’t think this is a coincidence, and it’s also why I use my real first name (so I don’t come across as a liar).

For me this was not remotely surprising- there was so much buzz surrounding Nicole’s performance since before Sunset even opened that she had the award in the bag. The red hat incident was not serious enough to sway that many voters (and I frankly don’t believe she’s MAGA, but that’s not a conversation for this board). Having personally seen her, Audra, and Jasmine, any of them would have been completely deserving of the award… they were all phenomenal in very different roles/productions.

Which is why you were not an escort lol. If his profile clearly indicated straight/top I would not have messaged him in the first place.

Nope, but per his response above, it does truly sound like it was a last-minute time crunch thing.

I reached out to ThickMuscle per the recommendation of another poster, and he sent this response (I blanked a potentially identifying detail for his privacy) : You did nothing wrong. I was in a rush with work and only had a break. I had an ____ after your appointment so I was in my head and anxious I believe him and thus will try to hire him in the future!

And see, for me “Ask Me” in those categories does not remotely indicate “straight” or “top only”, nor does the “open-minded” or anything else on his profile. And on that note, I would expect even a “straight”/top escort for gay men to perform oral… it’s not the same as an expectation to bottom. All that said, the context (which I did or at least intended to give) was that he was a last-second hire and we had not communicated about which activities we would do, and in fact he said we had discussed him topping me when in reality our only prior communication was inquiring his location/availability and rate. So there was really nothing for him to review/remember. ETA: If I were in his position, I would outline these limits when sending the rate (and perhaps even explicitly state that __ costs extra)… what if I did want him to top me, so went through with the session, and then got asked for additional money mid-f*ck for what I thought to be a very basic expectation? That would have been much much worse.

Absolutely no surprises this year… all of the juggernauts won exactly which awards they were expected to. I only caught the second half of the broadcast, but I didn’t find that any of the performances made me want to see the respective shows- for me, the highlight was the Bareilles/Erivo duet during the In Memoriam section. I wish “Boop” and “Smash” had been given the chance to perform… I think “Boop” in particular would have really benefited from a minute or so of Jasmine Amy Rogers singing- the “Real Women Have Curves” performance could have been combined with other non-nominated shows. And @ApexNomad I agree, the acceptance speeches seemed to be shorter than usual this year.

I was baffled lol… he seemed excited to top me and when I said I wasn’t interested in that but wanted mutual oral, his entire demeanor changed and he said I could suck him, but for him to suck would be $150 extra (he didn’t use that language; he gave a rate that was $150 more than what he had quoted). He seems like he would be a great top who really gets into it! That just was not remotely what I was looking for. I honestly can’t fathom a male escort who caters to men not including providing oral as a standard part of service.

The guy on the right is gorgeous- anyone know who he is?

Exactly, there’s a reason that (at least in my experience/knowledge of others’ experiences) Chinese is never offered as an option for foreign language coursework in public high schools… I vaguely remember my options being Spanish, French, Italian, and Japanese (the latter of which was surprising at the time).

ThickMuscle- I wrote a more detailed account in his thread.

That’s why what happened was so surprising- he had all good reviews and seemed really nice!

Today was the first time I have ever been rejected by a provider in person due to my appearance (at least I assume that was the reason)… it was frankly quite humiliating and I would have rather been screened out in advance.

I don’t think the need to shower was the issue; I just gave it as the only possible explanation other than my not being his type. He does look like his pics (at least the face; I didn’t get to see his body)- incredibly handsome… in fact, so handsome that I would consider hiring him if he were to reach out with an explanation (and the reason were something I could control).

That’s what I assumed to be the reason. I’m used to getting dismissed immediately due to my height (even though it’s listed in my profile AND described in my username)… though it could have been anything. I was quite sweaty when I arrived, but when he asked me how I got there, I explained that I had taken a bus and a very long walk [in sweltering heat and humidity this morning] to get to him (so if hygiene was his concern, he would know that my sweatiness was situational and nothing a quick hop in the shower couldn’t take care of).

Another provider in HK turned me away on sight, so I began messaging all of the providers I knew to be located nearby who appeared to be online. Soccer_us was the first to reply that he was available at the moment, so off I was to his apartment. He lives in a beautiful high-rise, he opens the door, and his body is lean and toned, just like his pics. His face is handsome too, just like one would expect an athlete to look. I go in to kiss him, and he obliges, but does not seem really into it. We feel each other up, he removes my shirt and starts squeezing my ass. He then says he wants to top me, and I let him know that I’m not interested in doing that. He indicates that I had messaged him that, which I did not, and then I told him the very basic activities I was interested in. He let me know that it would cost $150 more than the rate he had already quoted me, so I said I wasn’t comfortable paying that, gave him $100 for his less than 5 minutes of time, put on my shirt, and left. Second guy within the span of one hour who was really hot, looked like his pics, and was pleasant enough, but didn’t work out.

This thread didn’t come up in my search earlier (even though I posted on it myself)! I had a disappointing experience meeting him today- will quote in a minute.

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I planned by entire day today (one of my only days off… ever) around seeing Thickmuscle at noon. We had easy communication, and he was game for all of the activities I messaged him that I was in. I arrived at his building about 7 minutes early and he messaged me that he would not be available until exactly noon. I buzzed him at exactly 12:01, walked up to his apartment, and he lets me in. He is strikingly handsome and looks just like his pics. He then told me he wouldn’t be able to do today since he didn’t realize he would have to work… this was obviously not true because if that were the case, he would have let me know via message instead of letting me in and turning me away on sight. That said, he was pleasant and offered to reimburse me for my commute (I declined).

I ended up meeting Harryluis last-minute today after two dud experiences with other guys (I’ll post about them elsewhere). His body is absolutely incredible- rock-hard, tight muscle (his biceps were the most impressive I’ve ever felt, and his pecs and abs were very defined).@Harryinny he is currently more trim than his pics, so now would be a great time for you to see him- he told me he would start putting on more muscle again in a couple weeks. But again, he was still very muscular and I was actually more turned on by his body in its current state than in his pics. On that note, his face was also a bit more slender which accentuated a chiseled jawline and cheekbones (handsome in a very masculine way). He is a FANTASTIC kisser and our lips were connected almost the entire session. Dick is beautiful and thick (he said it was small; it is not), and he has a nice perky bubble butt. He apologized profusely for his English, but we had no trouble communicating other than that he was surprised by a load in his mouth that I warned him would likely happen. He was very sweet and generous with his body (showering together and watching/feeling the water dripping down his body was a sight to behold). He offered to top me and said it wouldn’t hurt, but I wasn’t ready for that. I would 100% recommend and repeat.

I used to be on Grindr in HK all the time and definitely never saw him on there lol. I also may have just made tentative plans with him 😈

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Exactly! This describes my situation- I have never been in a relationship because I have not had the time/opportunity to date and pursue relationships. That doesn’t mean I would be a bad boyfriend if my situation were to change… just inexperienced.

A lot of these gay men who seem to be in monogamous relationships are actually in open relationships (and may very well be lying to their friends and family about it)- I have come across so many app profiles of men I knew to be “happily taken” over the years… and they still are, but there’s more to it than meets the eye.

Glover is one of the most consistent performers in the world- she will be giving 1000% every time!