ShortCutie7

Mmmmmm 😍

Wow, didn’t realize so many other people liked licking faces like that… the cheekbones and jawlines drive me insane

I mean, this person just seems downright crazy (it’s one thing to have a strong opinion, it’s another thing to expect an organization that has absolutely nothing to do with said opinion to take a stance on it), but THIS is why you have to take responsibility for your own sexual health. The Playwright on HIV Med Strike WWW.VULTURE.COM Three months ago, Victor I. Cazares decided to stop taking their pills — until the New York Theatre Workshop calls for...

Never thought to include my age when inquiring about a rate… maybe I will going forward if being under 40 gets me quoted a lower amount lol. And yeah, when I was a college student I was in the WORST shape of my life. I look much better now in my 30s than I did at 18/19.

I was an innocent as well, I didn’t even truly know what masturbation was until I was 18! I had wet dreams and such before then but didn’t connect the dots.

I had my first (and only thusfar) hire from a profile with locked face pictures… his body, location, and text/general vibe were exactly what I was looking for, and when he unlocked his (extremely handsome) face pics, that sealed the deal of him being the choice for my first hire.

That’s not even a gay community thing, that’s people in general miscommunicating and hearing what they want to.

I’d say that “The Hours” at the Met with Renee Fleming, Joyce DiDonato, and Kelli O’Hara will be regarded as historic (I haven’t seen it so can’t give an opinion as to whether it is worthy).

This was most breaks for me, and I AM young enough to have participated in Spring Break! I just never got to because I was doing schoolwork 100% of the time.

I have only engaged in anal at all a handful of times, and bottomed all of those times except once… being a little guy means that the vast majority of suitors want to top me. Bottoming was painful every time I tried it, despite being very turned on by it. Part of the reason I’m interested in providers is to do a few “test runs” of topping before I have to worry about the bottom enjoying it. I chickened out on my one and only session with a provider (last week) but will try to go for it next time.

It’s the hardness that really sells him to me… the last/only provider I was with was extremely handsome to look at but a bit soft to the touch.

Here’s another thread on him with mixed-positive reviews… he’s on my shortlist of guys to see.

Also, a used car isn’t, y’know, a human being’s body… I wouldn’t tell a provider that his rate is too high for me in the first place.

That sounds insanely scary and is a reason I’m so glad this site exists, if only as a way of vetting providers. One aspect of this sort of situation that I find baffling is the assumption that the client would even HAVE more money on them than what they would plan on paying the provider.

I have had Grindr hookups pop up under suggested friends on Facebook several times, though in some cases we had multiple mutual friends.

Came back to this thread to let you all know that I had my first ever meeting with a provider this morning and it was absolutely worth the $360 I spent! I won’t (financially or time-wise) be able to do this regularly, but I had no reason to worry and left very happy. That said, we didn’t get to do everything I had intended- the guy really followed my lead.

Between the soy and scallions, you must have a tough time with Chinese food!

Beauty and the Beast in 1996 or so. I was enthralled the entire show. I saw my first Yankee game a few weeks later… sportsball didn’t stand a chance!

Shocked nobody has said Matt Bomer

Ohhh, that explains it… I think I last tried to go in maybe fall 2020 and assumed it was closed for Covid, not for good.

The Plaza also has an incredible/upscale food court in the basement (though I haven’t been since 2019 or so, so that could have changed). If you walk down to 46th street, turn west and you’ll find the block Little Brazil between 5th and 6th. Keep walking west, pass through Times Square, and you’ll get to Restaurant Row between 8th and 9th. Lots of great places- I’ve never had a bad meal in any restaurant on those blocks.

My kind of guy! I now have an appointment to see my first provider next Friday 😍

Exactly, I have neither made an effort to negotiate nor engaged in any back-and-forth beyond “thanks, I’ll be in touch when I have a better idea of when I can see you”. Thanks, that is very helpful advice and something I would have never thought of. And as @Jarrod_Uncut mentioned, it didn’t occur to me that the rate could change, or for that matter that the provider could move, etc.

Given the rhetoric about unresponsiveness on these boards, I was VERY pleasantly surprised by how many guys responded via RM message (I as a general rule do not give my cell number to people I haven’t met in person).

Exactly! That’s why I am confused as to the issue with reaching out to guys to find out basic info that is not listed on their profile but is important to whether or not I can hire them. .. I respond to potential client info requests as part of my job all the time and only end up seeing a tiny fraction of those who reach out, often months later. ETA: and my responses to work inquiries take a HELLUVA lot more time to write than “$300 for an hour, I host near Columbus Circle”.