ShortCutie7

There’s confusion because at least in NYC, that’s the average rate for ONE hour. And I’d imagine the median single person’s income in NYC is lower than that. The vast majority of New Yorkers I know make less than that.

You’re right, it’s an easy assumption to make, because as OP himself said, he did not notice. My intent was not to yuk on his (or anyone’s) yum nor to shit on this extremely handsome escort, but to point out information that might be pertinent. I myself have messaged a poster who had met with an escort I was planning to meet, got some negative feedback, but since the negative information was things I didn’t really care about, I chose to meet the escort anyway. And guess what? I was glad to have that information going in, it was accurate, and I still had a great time with the escort. ETA: to be clear, I totally see where you’re coming from and don’t wish to further hijack this conversation away from those who have met this escort.

Is there not value to pointing out easy-to-miss red flags (for some) that those looking at his profile may not notice (as OP posted, he did not)? Both in what he selected and did not select? Beyond whatever I or anyone else might think (some could find his selections a turn-on), this is an analysis of his profile and is relevant information to someone looking to meet him.

While I agree with the consensus to not respond, there are ways to respond with white lies that wouldn’t his feelings… ”I don’t usually hire guys more than once; I like to enjoy as many hot guys as possible.” ”I can’t afford to hire more than once in a blue moon.” (In my case, this would not be a white lie lol) ”I had an amazing time with you, but lately I’ve been really into guys who are [insert something he is definitively not].”

I would avoid based on the handful of “intos” he selected (though he is incredibly hot).

I wouldn’t even click on his profile just by virtue of his use of “youngboy” in his username.

Ugh, this shit is why I’m so afraid to do anal at all. I’ve only ever done so with condoms AND partners who claimed to rarely hook up and always use condoms when they do. But there’s no way to know how truthful guys are being. Yet another reason a provider who we know to be highly sexually active but also more likely to be diligent about sexual health is likely safer than a stranger on Grindr. (And for reference, the last time I bottomed was around 2016, before PreP became widespread)

FWIW, I posted that as someone who has only ever hired one guy for one hour 😂 When I was initially looking at guys to hire, I was looking at masseurs, but quickly realized that I didn’t actually want a massage, so what’s the point? Anyway, I don’t logistically/financially see myself hiring anyone for more than an hour, but if I had enough money and time set aside for two full days, I would probably do the 2 hour/1 overnight/2 hour model for the best balance of variety and safety.

Exactly, as hot as many of these guys are, 48 hours with the same unfamiliar guy might not be the best use of your time/money. If I were in your position, I would probably hire three guys- one for day 1 (2 hours), one overnight (I assume that would be 12 hours… and the guy you would choose if you were to choose just one, and one for day 2 (2 hours).

I haven’t seen them in person, but these guys’ asses stand out as particularly juicy in my memory of the sea of ads I’ve seen: LatinoMuse JimmyTroy SebasFit MuscleDean ViktorYork ETA (just came across him in another thread): CakesKing

I just came across a photo of a guy I’ve had a crush on a while wearing a mesh shirt, and… let’s just say it unlocked a mesh shirt fetish that I didn’t know I had 😈 What are some moments you’ve had that unlocked fetishes you didn’t know you had?

Mmmmmm 😍

Wow, didn’t realize so many other people liked licking faces like that… the cheekbones and jawlines drive me insane

I mean, this person just seems downright crazy (it’s one thing to have a strong opinion, it’s another thing to expect an organization that has absolutely nothing to do with said opinion to take a stance on it), but THIS is why you have to take responsibility for your own sexual health. The Playwright on HIV Med Strike WWW.VULTURE.COM Three months ago, Victor I. Cazares decided to stop taking their pills — until the New York Theatre Workshop calls for...

Never thought to include my age when inquiring about a rate… maybe I will going forward if being under 40 gets me quoted a lower amount lol. And yeah, when I was a college student I was in the WORST shape of my life. I look much better now in my 30s than I did at 18/19.

I was an innocent as well, I didn’t even truly know what masturbation was until I was 18! I had wet dreams and such before then but didn’t connect the dots.

I had my first (and only thusfar) hire from a profile with locked face pictures… his body, location, and text/general vibe were exactly what I was looking for, and when he unlocked his (extremely handsome) face pics, that sealed the deal of him being the choice for my first hire.

That’s not even a gay community thing, that’s people in general miscommunicating and hearing what they want to.

I’d say that “The Hours” at the Met with Renee Fleming, Joyce DiDonato, and Kelli O’Hara will be regarded as historic (I haven’t seen it so can’t give an opinion as to whether it is worthy).

This was most breaks for me, and I AM young enough to have participated in Spring Break! I just never got to because I was doing schoolwork 100% of the time.

I have only engaged in anal at all a handful of times, and bottomed all of those times except once… being a little guy means that the vast majority of suitors want to top me. Bottoming was painful every time I tried it, despite being very turned on by it. Part of the reason I’m interested in providers is to do a few “test runs” of topping before I have to worry about the bottom enjoying it. I chickened out on my one and only session with a provider (last week) but will try to go for it next time.

It’s the hardness that really sells him to me… the last/only provider I was with was extremely handsome to look at but a bit soft to the touch.

Here’s another thread on him with mixed-positive reviews… he’s on my shortlist of guys to see.

Also, a used car isn’t, y’know, a human being’s body… I wouldn’t tell a provider that his rate is too high for me in the first place.

That sounds insanely scary and is a reason I’m so glad this site exists, if only as a way of vetting providers. One aspect of this sort of situation that I find baffling is the assumption that the client would even HAVE more money on them than what they would plan on paying the provider.