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“Behaving accordingly” would mean not reaching out… no preventative measure is 100% effective, even if you combine them. I once played with a guy who I knew to be undetectable… I was too scared to go anywhere near his cum, and my mind was racing for weeks after thinking that I could have caught something just from making out with him (what if we both had cuts in our mouths and he didn’t take his meds, etc). Different people have different thresholds for what amount of risks they’re willing to take… mine has essentially made me celibate for the last few years. ETA: I know this fear was completely illogical, but I can’t deny that I had it.

Yes!!! Though I do recall seeing a thread on him that indicates that these pics are outdated, and there’s some information missing from his profile that would me (personally) from reaching out to him. Completely agree with this- I think handsomeness requires a combination of effort and genetics/natural looks. I don’t think surgery is a deterrent unless it looks fake.

Totally agree; both Page and Hemsworth are classically handsome by my standards- that is why I was initially confused by so many posters bringing race/ethnicity into the equation.

To be honest, I would never meet a provider who did not have his status explicitly written on his profile. I can understand having a day job and not wanting to be found out, but providing is a job as well, and IMO it’s my right as a potential client to know that very important piece of information before I contact someone. It’s like a restaurant having a menu without any prices- the prices are a crucial determinant as to whether the vast majority of customers can afford to eat there.

Interesting that a lot of us are associating whiteness with “classically handsome”. I (being white myself) personally have found cubanbd and “Gustavo” (whom I assume are both Latino) to be the most classically handsome men in this thread. I am glad you posted Eric and agree that he is very handsome, albeit not in a classical way! Exactly! That is why I started this thread; to have a respectful dialogue of what makes a guy classically handsome and a list of handsome (classically or not) guys in NYC as examples and add them to my docket of guys to consider contacting when I just want to stare into some gorgeous eyes.

Agreed! Too bad that the thread on him indicates that the man in the photos is not the man who you’re hiring.

He does look very handsome to me, but yes, a bit plastic. Yes, he does it for me!

Yes, I have used the terms synonymously!

I guess those are important attributes, but as I wrote before, to me it’s an undefinable quality.

Very very handsome but just misses the mark… maybe he’s a couple years too young? Wish I could see what Victor’s face looks like lol… the rest of him is incredibly hot!!!

Reason number billion I’m glad this forum exists: I would have never even considered that I might be expected to tip someone I’m paying directly for a service.

But I am interested in other peoples’ perspective on this! I’m not explicitly asking for recommendations for myself. I’ve always found it fascinating how two people can look at the same thing (in this case, a picture) and get entirely different impressions. That’s the issue- I can’t identify what makes me find someone classically handsome; it’s just a quality/“wow” factor guys either have or do not. I do generally think men look better without a lot of facial hair. Of the guys you mentioned, all are very handsome but none wow me… Volkov is the closest but inexplicably misses the mark. I have found men of all races/colors classically handsome. I can’t see any of their faces well enough to make a proper determination, but I have absolutely found blonds classically handsome and Cooper looks stunning from what I can see.

That’s what I’m getting at… the guys who come the closest to what I consider to be classically handsome (and whose faces I can see) are MONSIEUR_HUNG and RAINER, but none are based in NYC or fit the bill 100% (I guess the rule of thumb is a guy so handsome that you get a hardon just from a face pic… these guys absolutely exist in real life but for whatever reason not in this space).

If JusBloom’s face matches his body, he’s stunning! Mmm looks like he must be the epitome of tall, dark, and handsome.

All very handsome! I wonder if Tyler and Spaniard would look even better with less facial hair.

That’s exactly why I’m asking for recommendations! Almost all of the guys are hot/handsome in their own right, but very very few fit the description of classically handsome/gorgeous/movie star hot/etc. The only one who immediately comes to mind is frequent visitor Rainer: Rainer - Male Escort, Gay massage - West Hollywood | Rent.Men RENT.MEN Rainer Gay Escort in West Hollywood, California, available for Gay Escorting,Erotic Massage,Bodywork. |...

Ohhhhhh, gotcha

I got into watching YouTube cooking videos when I tried keto a while ago and still watch these two channels despite neither cooking nor being on keto: https://www.youtube.com/@LowCarbLove She is clearly loves what she does and her food usually looks really good! https://www.youtube.com/@RahulKamat His cooking is not explicitly keto or even low carb, but it’s low calorie/high protein and also usually looks tasty. Also doesn’t hurt that he’s hot.

The thread about the stunningly handsome MONSIEUR_HUNG inspired me to wonder… who do you guys think are the most classically [facially] handsome providers who are based in or very frequently visit NYC?

No, I’m saying that his inability to connect with you is surprising because he seems to be OVERLY communicative.

I was just using the not-fully-out as an example, but I personally do not consider myself to be sexually active and do not want my doctors thinking I am or asking questions about my (barely existent) sex life. In America, once it’s in your medical records any medical professionals you see (at least in the same network of hospitals etc) would have access to a list of every prescription you have ever taken. Even though I have never actively pretended to be straight, people assume I am (or asexual lol) and I’m not comfortable with every doctor I see knowing otherwise, especially when it’s not their concern and has nothing to do with the reason I’m seeing them.

That’s so strange since I sent him one message (which he responded to immediately) and then he followed up the next day unprompted!

I’m a millennial and I knew EXACTLY what I wanted to do by the time I was 12 or so. My issue was that I chose the wrong college for what I wanted to do (I was considering transferring out my freshman year but thought it would get better after I got required courses and prerequisites out of the way… it did not). It wasn’t until I went to grad school (which I loved) that I truly realized how poor of an experience college was. I think more emphasis should be placed on finding the RIGHT college/program… I only chose the one I did because it was known to be a good school and I was ensured as such by administration at my high school (and was offered some financial aide). And it was and is a good school… just not for me or what I wanted to do.

Anyone have experience with SebasFit (in either deli or masseur capacity)? He seems nice via email.