ShortCutie7

I’m far from wealthy and lost the part-time job that gave me any semblance of disposable income a few months ago, but the primary thing preventing me from hiring as often as I’d like is my lack of free time/availability… even the one random weekday in June I had off from work last year and the year before so was able to hire, I don’t have this year. But if I had the time, I would find the money.

Exactly! As a very short guy, if I came across a provider with a profile that says “tall guys only”, I would be completely turned off from hiring him because I would know for sure that my defining physical characteristic makes me the exact opposite of someone he would be attracted to. Even if he is amazing at his job and 100% capable of performing and faking attraction to me, I would feel “yucky” deep down because I would know there’s not a chance he’s genuinely enjoying my company.

FWIW this is 100% for sure not related to anything gay or sexual… I haven’t had any sort of intimate contact since June. But I gave whatever I have to my mother (who is older) so thanks for the warning that it could get serious!

I’ve had it for over a week now… I initially thought it was just allergies since my only symptom for the first few days was mild congestion but it’s turned into deep congestion with a cough. A ton of people around are coughing and sneezing, so there’s definitely something going around. Be careful out there, New Yorkers!

I saw this tonight (for the first time) and very much enjoyed it! I have been a fan of Simard, Seiber, and Wolfe for quite a long time and none of them disappointed. The show was fun/funny and the physical production was excellent. All that said, I didn’t find any of the music particularly memorable (though the lyrics were incredibly well written), and the sound (at least from my seat) was kind of dulled- as much as everyone was singing their faces off, it lacked a certain “umph” because I think they just needed to turn the mics very slightly up and use a bit of reverb.

Jose’s dick is HUGE regardless of what it measures. Outstanding kisser and oralist.

To be totally honest, I read this thread and then looked at the pics… and I don’t think he looks all that much younger than he is. I was quite young-looking in my early 20s and looked younger than he does... when I was 23 a guy once stopped himself about 5 minutes into the hookup and said “I’m so sorry, I have to stop, you look like a child and this feels wrong”. But that only happened once!

Right now, I’m sitting on my couch drinking iced coffee spiked with chocolate liqueur, while watching a Rodgers and Hammerstein special on PBS… and I’m content for the first time in ages. What are some of your simple joys of gay/bi/whatever life?

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Yeah, your best bet is to look on RM and find a few guys you are interested in, THEN search for them on here.

As others have said, I like the provider to seem like he is genuinely attracted to me… however that expresses itself- kissing me, feeling me up, gazing into my eyes. One of my favorite experiences was when a provider started a session by asking me to join him in the shower and then immediately grabbed my cock, washing it and watching it grow in his hands.

I’m more of a musical fan (as an audience member), but some of my favorite plays have been: August, Osage County (most of the original Broadway/Steppenwolf cast) Master Class (starring Tyne Daly) War Horse (at Lincoln Center- the play itself wasn’t great but the production/stagecraft was outstanding) Indecent (original Broadway cast)

No, but I’ve considered it! I came across an acquaintance I’ve actually sexted with previously (albeit along time ago) on RM but decided against it because I don’t want him to know that I hire.

I’d say 140 is probably more accurate, or at least was a year ago. He was very lean but did have some muscle. Rock hard stomach 🤤

He looked exactly like the pics a year ago… body was a bit leaner/tighter than the RentMen pics; he looked more like the RentMasseur pics.

Tonight was the first full episode I’ve seen in a while… I was totally fine with the eliminations in the beginning (aka “last week’s), but incredibly disappointed with the bottom two at the end… my two favorites were the bottom two and my favorite was eliminated. At least the judges started to acknowledge pitch issues tonight, although my least favorite contestant still seems to go unchecked…

Saw him about a year ago for an escort session… he is incredibly skilled orally!

I haven’t met them, but these two came up in a search and might fit the bill: https://rent.men/Scanditouch https://rent.men/CadenDior

I am HORRENDOUS at recognizing people out of context- I have had full conversations with people while having no idea who they were… usually I can at least figure out how/where I know someone from after a few minutes, but I usually never figure out their name. And they ALWAYS look familiar but I can’t place them. In Gareth’s situation, just think of how many men this escort must have been with in the last 20 years. I haven’t been with even a fraction of the amount of guys he has but don’t think I’d be able to pick every guy I’ve hooked up with out of a lineup.

A “side” is a person who prefers oral only to anal activities (it’s a position like top, bottom, or vers).

The vast majority of my escort encounters (in only about 2 years of hiring) and hookups in general (in about 14 years of hooking up albeit rarely) have been oral only. In fact, the best oral service I ever got was from an escort who designates himself as a total top.

Exactly! Too many fish in the sea to have to jeopardize my privacy (at least in NYC).

Omfg I HATE that whispering thing!! It’s my #1 actor pet peeve and makes me immediately change the channel (and a lot of actors do it).

Yes, but in all cases the remorse had nothing to do with my ability to pick, and I felt that the result was “meant to be”, eg in case 1 I was not meant to have sex that night and in case 2 I was meant to end up having a lot of fun with a guy who wasn’t on top of my “list” because the first choice didn’t work out.

This was a response to someone’s response to my on-topic comment. ETA: on that note, all of my comments and the responses to my comments have veered way off topic, so I’ll stop responding to this thread.