Words in Escort Ads That make him an instant "Pass"

[+ purplekow]

I have been spending more time than I really should perusing Rentmen ads.  When I see the work "pig" either as part of the escorts name or if it is in the text, I am immediately moving on.  

Pictures with the Escort throwing the finger are also a reason I move on.  

Anyone else have triggers that make them turn the page?

[+ Just Chuck]

Words like destroy or pound.  If the ad reads: “I will destroy your hole and pound you into submission” I doubt that I’ll have a good time.

[mtaabq]

Like @purplekow if they are flipping the bird in photos I move on. Also, if the posting suggests that the provider wishes to be “worshipped”, I know that I will be expected to do all the work and I go to the next. (Nothing wrong if you wish to worship or be worshipped; just not my thing.) More than words if I see neck or face tattoos and/or gauged ears that’s another “pass”. You know what I would like to see? A smile. Smiles are so sexy! Plus  underwear and/or swimsuits; sometimes (for me) it’s more erotic what you can’t see versus what you can. That’s enough for now. 

[maninsoma]

One of my "not for me" triggers is "exclusive" or any other descriptor that hints the guy's rates are going to be well beyond my budget.  If a guy is marketing himself like that, I take him at his word that only the top 10% of income earners should consider his services.

[soloyo215]

2 hours ago, purplekow said:

I have been spending more time than I really should perusing Rentmen ads.  When I see the work "pig" either as part of the escorts name or if it is in the text, I am immediately moving on.  

Pictures with the Escort throwing the finger are also a reason I move on.  

Anyone else have triggers that make them turn the page?

There are certain words, but to me is mostly about the overall tone of the ad. I find some ads written in a way that I find off-putting.  As for specific words:

I'm a top

Repeating that they are a top millions of times in a paragraph (looks like they are trying to convince themselves of it)

straight

Worship

Don't waste my time

 

 

[Nightowl]

A picture of the guy in lingerie or making “pouty” lip faces.

[+ Just Chuck]

@soloyo215 I'm with you on the straight guys.  I have no interest in being with someone who isn’t at least somewhat interested in being with me.

[+ poolboy48220]

"Findom" does it for me - there was a long discussion about a year ago about why that triggered me (and others).

"Shaved" is another. I prefer my guys furry, and while I've hired smooth guys, I really hate stubble.

[+ Act25]

Many of the above and also their love of fine dining or shopping in expensive stores.  Like you'll be taking them to Le Bernadin after your shopping excursion at Gucci or the Rolex Gallery. 

[BSR]

1 hour ago, Act25 said:

Many of the above and also their love of fine dining or shopping in expensive stores.  Like you'll be taking them to Le Bernadin after your shopping excursion at Gucci or the Rolex Gallery. 

“Generous clients only”

[caramelsub]

Twink. 

[wsc]

6 hours ago, Just Chuck said:

@soloyo215 I'm with you on the straight guys.  I have no interest in being with someone who isn’t at least somewhat interested in being with me.

I have no illusions about a young, handsome, muscular man wanting to be with me, so long as he's "willing for the shilling." We both know why the other is there.

[Ichabod]

Boi. 

 

[+ nycman]

"High End", "Exclusive", "Limited", "Expensive".

What the fuck am I buying, a goddamn Hermès bag?

More words that dissuade me:

”Top", "Dom", "Findom", "Worship", "Dirty", "FFanything", "PnP", "ParTy", "Shopping", ”Uber". 

And anyone with a picture taken in Dubai.

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

Safe Only

[Lotus-eater]

14 hours ago, purplekow said:

I have been spending more time than I really should perusing Rentmen ads.  When I see the work "pig" either as part of the escorts name or if it is in the text, I am immediately moving on.  

Purplekow doesn't like pigs, but does he like bulls?

[viewing ownly]

"PNP Friendly", "Unforgettable Experience", "Deposit Required", "no Jews, sorry" - for that one, I mean why fucking be apologetic if you're content with being anti-semitic? (granted I've seen that one just once).

Some more - "Same day appointments only", "must be uncut", "here's an OnlyFans of a friend I was on with once - check us out", "gratuity greatly appreciated", and one of the worst of all "base rate only is listed". I got scammed by that one once, but it was a carpet cleaner, not an escort. 

[Danny-Darko]

Things like:

"drain your wallet, no time wasters, deposit required, OnlyFans,"

pictures in Dubai, on yachts and in out or on high end cars that clearly aren't his, glossy professional modeling pictures.... 

and most things in his stats saying "ask me"! 

[+ purplekow]

1 hour ago, Lotus-eater said:

Purplekow doesn't like pigs, but does he like bulls?

yes

[jeezifonly]

Boy

Boi

Frat

Son

[caramelsub]

There are exceptions, but when I see “All American” or “Southern” or “Frat boy” I tend to skip over them. As I generally prefer exotic looking men with dark features. 

[soloyo215]

2 hours ago, viewing ownly said:

"no Jews, sorry"

For real? There are ads stating that?

[Danny-Darko]

2 hours ago, viewing ownly said:

"PNP Friendly", "Unforgettable Experience", "Deposit Required", "no Jews, sorry" - for that one, I mean why fucking be apologetic if you're content with being anti-semitic? (granted I've seen that one just once).

Some more - "Same day appointments only", "must be uncut", "here's an OnlyFans of a friend I was on with once - check us out", "gratuity greatly appreciated", and one of the worst of all "base rate only is listed". I got scammed by that one once, but it was a carpet cleaner, not an escort. 

WOW, I've never ever seen any ad that stated "no Jews"! I do remember years or decades ago I came across a rare few that had no interest in meeting other races like blacks or Asians but never seem one that said "no Jews"! Is there a particular provider you can point me to who has that on is profile? Really curious! 

[viewing ownly]

3 minutes ago, Danny-Darko said:

WOW, I've never ever seen any ad that stated "no Jews"! I do remember years or decades ago I came across a rare few that had no interest in meeting other races like blacks or Asians but never seem one that said "no Jews"! Is there a particular provider you can point me to who has that on is profile? Really curious! 

I was horrified when I saw that, so I didn't make an effort to remember the guy. It was around over a year and a half ago when I saw this, when the political climate was (and frankly still is) extra volatile. He by now may have removed that comment, was told he needed to remove it, or stopped advertising. 

[+ Pensant]

Any mention of royalty: king, prince, etc. Also can’t stand “ask me” on sexual orientation.

Ditto with the Dubai pics or wearing Gucci or LV.

Edited 1 hour ago by Pensant