Ichabod

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Where in the ad does he mention nude lawn mowing? I am not seeing it. On another note, is it odd that this 26 year old twink is referring to himself as DaddyDes?

I usually interpret this that way, but I also always ask.

We all have to make our own risk assessments, but I think Typical's advice is too sweeping. I have had dozens of providers come to my house or my hotel room over the years and I have never had problems specific to hosting. Guys who don't perform well, who try to upcharge, who shortchange you on time - these situations seem unrelated to where the session is taking place. The stuff scopitone is dealing with could just as easily have happened at the provider's place. Ichabod

I got a "user not found" error message when I clicked on that link just now. Maybe they deleted their ad?

Two thoughts: First, this guy seems very unlikely to give you an experience you'll be happy with. And second, this sounds like A LOT of pre-meeting communication. If I were this provider, I would be wondering whether you were every going to get down to business and schedule a meeting. Could that be a factor in your most recent (unsatisfying) exchange with him?

"Then he strings me on...for another hour before I realized what was going on." What was going on? What would a provider get from doing this? Or did you just decide he was a flake?

If you were not planning on leaving a review before he asked for one, and you can't honestly give him a good review, and you are not planning on seeing him again, I think you should find a way to get comfortable with ignoring his request. There really is no upside (for either of you) to continuing the conversation.

He's really hot! Please report back if you meet him.

Just to clarify, do you mean could you get arrested tomorrow (for example) for having hired an escort 4 years ago?

My friend and I have talked about gay athletes before, as a topic of general interest. But he's not "interested" in the way that I might be.

My (straight) friend - a huge Crimson Tide fan - asked me whether I thought Alabama quarterback Ty Simpson was gay. I don't get any particular vibe from Simpson, so I thought I'd throw the question out to the esteemed panel of experts here. Any thoughts?

What specifically makes this one look fake?

I think reaching out is 100% fine. As others have noted, if he's not interested, he probably just won't reply, and you're fine. I would not ask for current photos, though. What if he sends them, and you are no longer interested? I would feel awkward about hitting up someone who (as far as you know) is no longer active in the business, and then rejecting him when he sends pics. Would you ghost him and not reply? Reply and tell him thanks but no thanks? Maybe I am too sensitive, but that sounds messy.

Boi.