+ KensingtonHomo Posted March 7 Share Posted March 7 3 hours ago, Thelatin said: But yeah - it honestly was more of a chore banging a fat drunk, compared to a sober, tan, toned person. It’s just facts. I've been sober for 25 years, so a drunk person of any kind would be off putting. But I don't find having sex with overweight people to be a chore. MikeBiDude and + Vegas_Millennial 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Vegas_Millennial Posted March 7 Share Posted March 7 4 hours ago, marylander1940 said: are you implying not all students deserve a discount? The subject of this thread is discounts for in shape, good looking, and young clients. I am bringing attention that offering student discounts is not targeting in shape, good looking, and young. Active military discounts is more likely to target in shape and young (under 40). As for the question if all students deserve a discount...I don't like using the word "deserve". Most students "deserve" a good kick in their ass to start working part time and during summers to pay for their tuition without student loans. Most students "deserve" to share bedrooms and bathrooms in dormitories rather than private rooms financed by the taxpayer, living a lifestyle they couldn't afford their first 5 years out of university. If a student is good looking, fit, and young, he should consider working as a dancer/stripper/escort to pay his way through school without debt rather than going into debt to hire escorts. marylander1940, + DrownedBoy, Johnrom and 1 other 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ KensingtonHomo Posted March 7 Share Posted March 7 1 minute ago, Vegas_Millennial said: Most students "deserve" a good kick in their ass to start working part time and during summers to pay for their tuition without student loans. Most students "deserve" to share bedrooms and bathrooms in dormitories rather than private rooms financed by the taxpayer, living a lifestyle they couldn't afford their first 5 years out of university. Okay, I went to school a while ago when it cost about 20 percent of what it does now. I worked the entire time, and at no point was I offered a lifestyle funded by the taxpayers, though I did receive grants because we were poor. I don't think anyone is actually living this way on the tax payer's dime. I know affluent and wealthy people who went to college this way, including my husband. I would also note that I was offered a job as an escort and also as a dancer but was too prudish at 19 to pursue them. + Pensant 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ nycman Posted March 7 Share Posted March 7 (edited) 3 hours ago, BenjaminNicholas said: Can this thread please be retitled 'Dare To Dream... The Ever-Elusive Escort Operational Upgrade.' As with airlines, it’s always better to just fucking buy the first class seat. Problem solved. Edited March 7 by nycman marylander1940, Hen, + BenjaminNicholas and 3 others 2 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ DrownedBoy Posted March 7 Share Posted March 7 11 hours ago, BaronArtz said: I had an escort tell me he dislikes working with younger, attractive clients. They expect more and therefore are more work for him. In his opinion, older clients are easier, expect less and tip better. There are two (or more) sides to everything, Benjamin Franklin, Advice to a Young Man on the Choice of a Mistress (1745) pubic_assistance, Simon Suraci, + Vegas_Millennial and 1 other 2 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monarchy79 Posted March 12 Share Posted March 12 Most men who pay for these services, do so out of convenience, not out of need. So a “hot” guy who hires, isn’t looking for a discount. He’s looking for a good experience with specific standards & requirements. it’s important that people understand that most people aren’t hiring out of desperation. So when a “hot” guy entertains the idea of hiring a professional, he’s not even thinking about a “discount”. caramelsub, Spiritualadvisor, Rudynate and 2 others 3 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DWnyc Posted March 12 Share Posted March 12 On 3/4/2024 at 2:44 PM, DynamicUno said: It's deja vu all over again... Come now would we have anything to discuss on here if we censored topics covered before? 😉 + Drew Collins, pubic_assistance and za812 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Vegas_Millennial Posted March 12 Share Posted March 12 I used to see a provider who was really into overweight clients. The more weight I gained during the coronavirus pandemic, the more he would offer me discounts until he just wanted to sleep with me for free. It happens, even to the obese. pubic_assistance and liubit 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Decatur Guy Posted March 13 Share Posted March 13 I'm not young nor hot. And as far as I know, I haven't received up-front discounts. But I have had longer-term, regular providers who charge me less than they did other new clients. Usually it's been a situation of me hiring them when they first started out or either I've been hiring him for years and he hasn't raised his rates. I've had a couple of them flat-out tell me I'm easy to get along with and honest. So I might get charged $250 an hour vs. $300 or something like that. + Vegas_Millennial, thomas and + DrownedBoy 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DWnyc Posted March 14 Share Posted March 14 I’ve heard providers describe how they charge certain clients more or less based on the Robin Hood principle. Or because someone was rude or particularly nice in booking. I’ve not heard it expressed as tied to the client’s perceived looks. I did have a provider once say when i assumed we were both in the heat of the moment “you’re so hot, I should be paying * you * …” and of course I didn’t take him literally and thought it odd that would even be referenced as it’s almost taboo to do so at any time during a session - and I replied “oh, really …?” - and he broke character and reminded me (though I didn’t need it) “we’re just acting, honey, remember?” - did kill the mood a little but not the fee 😉 marylander1940, + Vegas_Millennial, Bokomaru and 1 other 2 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TT3690 Posted March 14 Share Posted March 14 One guy took off $50 a session because he thought I was good looking and we were the same age. But this was an exception. marylander1940 and pubic_assistance 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marylander1940 Posted March 14 Author Share Posted March 14 4 hours ago, TT3690 said: One guy took off $50 a session because he thought I was good looking and we were the same age. But this was an exception. Did you ask for the discount or he offered it to you on his own? pubic_assistance 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TT3690 Posted March 14 Share Posted March 14 3 minutes ago, marylander1940 said: Did you ask for the discount or he offered it to you on his own? He just offered it. To be fair I don't know his regular rate so he could just be blowing smoke up my ass haha. pubic_assistance, Luv2play and marylander1940 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marylander1940 Posted March 14 Author Share Posted March 14 On 3/12/2024 at 12:56 PM, Vegas_Millennial said: I used to see a provider who was really into overweight clients. The more weight I gained during the coronavirus pandemic, the more he would offer me discounts until he just wanted to sleep with me for free. It happens, even to the obese. No doubt but the percentage of escorts and gay men who are "chubby chasers" is low. + DrownedBoy, pubic_assistance and + Pensant 1 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DWnyc Posted March 14 Share Posted March 14 14 minutes ago, marylander1940 said: No doubt but the percentage of escorts and gay men who are "chubby chasers" is low. As an aside - when I’ve seen pics of spouses of providers - or in some cases even met them - while many are indeed magazine cover gorgeous like their partner … they’ve often been surprisingly “normal” and sometimes do fall into “not good looking” / “less good looking” buckets some of us obsess over. Including obese. The kind you wouldn’t expect to say typically”I’m dating a porn star …” + Vegas_Millennial 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Vegas_Millennial Posted March 14 Share Posted March 14 24 minutes ago, marylander1940 said: On 3/12/2024 at 9:56 AM, Vegas_Millennial said: I used to see a provider who was really into overweight clients. The more weight I gained during the coronavirus pandemic, the more he would offer me discounts until he just wanted to sleep with me for free. It happens, even to the obese. Expand No doubt but the percentage of escorts and gay men who are "chubby chasers" is low. That may be. But I'm not looking to sleep with everyone in the whole world. The few thousand I've attracted so far has been plenty. Similarly, I don't need to find the few escorts that are out of my price range and try to get them to discount their rate for me based on my handsome good looks. There are plenty of escorts out there. And while I've hired fewer of them in the U.S. since RentMen prices were taken down, the ones I do hire I see more often if only because I know what price to expect and what service to expect. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
56harrisond Posted March 14 Share Posted March 14 1 hour ago, TT3690 said: ... so he could just be blowing smoke up my ass haha. Don't threaten me with a good time, that's worth $50 on its own + nycman, Simon Suraci, marylander1940 and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ DrownedBoy Posted March 14 Share Posted March 14 4 hours ago, DWnyc said: As an aside - when I’ve seen pics of spouses of providers … they’ve often been surprisingly “normal” . Including obese. Many providers chose partners/spouses based on financial reasons, so that doesn't surprise me much. Then there's providers who end up with other providers. I don't have data on how long those relationships last after their escorting careers are over, but they definitely look good together. DWnyc and pubic_assistance 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
arnie Posted March 15 Share Posted March 15 A good escort will act so as to let you believe that you are the center of his earth. As a client, when I see such an ad, I run the other way. As I am neither, I would fear that this guy would not be able to be let me delude myself that his is as into me as I want to believe he is. + nycman, pubic_assistance and + Pensant 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pubic_assistance Posted March 15 Share Posted March 15 On 3/12/2024 at 12:56 PM, Vegas_Millennial said: I used to see a provider who was really into overweight clients. The more weight I gained during the coronavirus pandemic, the more he would offer me discounts until he just wanted to sleep with me for free. It happens, even to the obese. That's so fascinating. Most of the escorts I've hired over the years have commented how refreshing it was to hang with me because I WASN'T a "fat pig". That seems to be the one thing that puts people off much more than advanced age or even the loss of a leg or arm. Never in all my years has anyone said I wish you were fatter. Johnrom, + Pensant and marylander1940 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marylander1940 Posted March 15 Author Share Posted March 15 14 hours ago, DrownedBoy said: Many providers chose partners/spouses based on financial reasons, so that doesn't surprise me much. Then there's providers who end up with other providers. I don't have data on how long those relationships last after their escorting careers are over, but they definitely look good together. I understand that in some cases but generally providers choose clients based on financial reasons and fuck for free/date others for looks, chemistry, compatibility, etc. pubic_assistance 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marylander1940 Posted March 15 Author Share Posted March 15 10 hours ago, arnie said: A good escort will act so as to let you believe that you are the center of his earth. As a client, when I see such an ad, I run the other way. As I am neither, I would fear that this guy would not be able to be let me delude myself that his is as into me as I want to believe he is. Exactly! Most of the time they act! 24 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said: That's so fascinating. Most of the escorts I've hired over the years have commented how refreshing it was to hang with me because I WASN'T a "fat pig". That seems to be the one thing that puts people off much more than advanced age or even the loss of a leg or arm. Never in all my years has anyone said I wish you were fatter. The same happened to me many times! pubic_assistance 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SirBillybob Posted March 15 Share Posted March 15 (edited) Surely there are things that don’t require validation via monetization. An escort or physician might express approval or simple commentary that you keep healthy and fit, or some other valued aspect, without a reference point that demeans anybody outside the exchange. The merit of positive reinforcement should be enough so that you aren’t yourself submitting an invoice in kind for the characteristic just affirmed. Edited March 15 by SirBillybob Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ KensingtonHomo Posted March 16 Share Posted March 16 On 3/15/2024 at 9:39 AM, pubic_assistance said: That's so fascinating. Most of the escorts I've hired over the years have commented how refreshing it was to hang with me because I WASN'T a "fat pig". That seems to be the one thing that puts people off much more than advanced age or even the loss of a leg or arm. Never in all my years has anyone said I wish you were fatter. Must you be fatphobic? By your admission, you only have sex with extremely fit, much younger men. Perhaps you have a biased sample on which you observe sociological phenomena? I know plenty of fit guys who are chasers, butch guys who love femmes, 20-somethings who love guys 20-30 years older than them, and everything in between. If those guys exist outside the escort scene, some are working as providers. I've gotten a lot of compliments from providers over the years. And I can smell bullshit a mile away, so I know who's gassing me up. That said, if a provider besmirched his other clients in front of me, I would not hire him again. + APPLE1, Hot4latin, Your Man in Arlington and 2 others 2 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ APPLE1 Posted March 17 Share Posted March 17 (edited) 9 hours ago, KensingtonHomo said: Must you be fatphobic? By your admission, you only have sex with extremely fit, much younger men. Perhaps you have a biased sample on which you observe sociological phenomena? I know plenty of fit guys who are chasers, butch guys who love femmes, 20-somethings who love guys 20-30 years older than them, and everything in between. If those guys exist outside the escort scene, some are working as providers. I've gotten a lot of compliments from providers over the years. And I can smell bullshit a mile away, so I know who's gassing me up. That said, if a provider besmirched his other clients in front of me, I would not hire him again. That's blasphemy! People attracted to a variety of physical forms???? Good god, the next thing you know, you will want me to believe there are men out there who are attracted to other men!!!! 😉 Edited March 17 by APPLE1 Punctuation marylander1940 and Your Man in Arlington 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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