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Monarchy79

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  1. I should clarify that I’m referring to “free pussy”. it’s value is in the fact that a man will get access to stick his dick in it.
  2. When a straight man gets the opportunity to get some pussy, he’s not going to flake. And if he does, it’s because he has the option of better pussy to get.
  3. I think with setting times for various purposes, people have relied more on over communicating useless information. Instead of texting back & forth on an ETA, like it’s a moving target, Just set a firm time, state that you’ll text them when you either park, or when your Uber drops you off, and you’re done. Easy sensible example: ”Hey let’s hook up.” ” Cool, your place or mine?” “Mine? What time is good?” “10pm” ”ok. Cool. I’ll text you when I park.” 9:50pm…. ”Hey, I just parked” “Cool. Come up around 9:55 and I’ll buzz you in.” Done. Simple & efficient.
  4. You play a significant role in the lack of clarity in confirming an ETA in this scenario. Why not just set an actual time? How was this guy supposed to determine what “whatever it takes me to get dressed and walk 7 blocks”, means in terms of time?
  5. Hello, Bumping this up to see if anyone else has tried this guy out. I’m looking to test the waters this week.
  6. Hard lesson: Never get involved in domestic violence issues. Women need to stop calling their male family members and call the cops.
  7. I’m glad you made this point. My first sexual experience with a man was about 17 as well… and the man was 30. We both knew he could get in trouble and (from looking back at the entire scenario of how he even met me) one could say he was a bit “predatory”. However, I was a willing participant and really wanted that experience, and it was one of the best sexual experiences I ever had.
  8. I’m in full agreement with you. And with the clips you posted, it reminds me of this: most of the sexually “questionable” things I’ve had happen to me in my life has always been in male concentrated environments (sports, locker rooms, even hanging out and getting a little buzzed) with “straight” men.
  9. So now you’ve confirmed dishonesty and manipulation (hence the “coaxing”) too. You’re a true class act.
  10. I’ve never set any “standards” for anyone’s preferences. I set standards for decorum, consideration and respect. Those are the “standards” you have difficulty comprehending and demonstrating. But I understand that your “subconscious drivers”, and your “origin story” will usually lead you in the same direction every time.
  11. Are you telling those Latino men that you have sex with (who are uncut bottoms), that you think their uncut penises are disgusting? Since you’re unabashedly blunt, with no concern for insulting others in these forums in these forums, I wonder if you behave the same way in those scenarios too.
  12. Well….. sharing that you grew up in an all white American small city, and your mind saying “yuck”, to things that weren’t the “standard”, based on your environment, this speaks volumes to your pathology, how you think, and the comments you make in these forums.
  13. I differ with you on many topics. I don’t need to insult you to express that disagreement. The conversation can still be interesting without nastiness and vitriol.
  14. I understand you clearly. I simply disagree with you. let’s be honest here, the term “preferences” started being used in the realm of sex, dating and hookups to as a means to soften what’s really taking place, which is bias, and a plethora of “isms” . It was a way for people to make their prejudices sound less offensive. For example, a guy saying on a hook up app… “no black guys, and no Asians” appears flat out racist….but adding the phrase “just a preference”, gives the false illusion that the person is free from bias…. To give some accurate historical context of the phrase: ”Just a Preference”, became the catch phrase of white men with bias, as a way to excuse the social protest that racial and other minorities made against “no blacks, no asians, not fats, and no fems”, from apps such as Grindr. Now going back to you…. I see nothing “wrong”, with your preference for circumcised penises. And I agree that people shouldn’t be judged for their preferences. But if someone’s preference is rooted in bias, then they aren’t exonerated from being called out for it. And calling the people who address it “judgmental” loses its validity, the moment you call uncut penises “gross”, as that is a judgment too.
  15. In one single post, you stated how one shouldn’t judge others…. Then you did exactly that… judged others. You not liking an uncut penis, doesn’t make that uncut penis “gross”. You just don’t like it.
  16. Those are purposeful acts and adaptations that someone chose to perform and implement: One’s uncircumcised penis is something that they are born with. And one’s circumcised penis is something that they more than likely did not choose. This is why using pejorative terms to the latter is considered offensive and inappropriate. You don’t have to like it, but you don’t need to verbally describe your disgust for it in an insulting manner either.
  17. True, But when your “specifications” veer off so far from the menu, then this speaks more about the mind and intentions of the customer, rather than the restaurant or provider of the service. It seems some of these preferences lean towards sociopathic reflections of control more than anything.
  18. If you’re looking for a bottom, why does the “status” of his foreskin matter?
  19. “Butt Butter Churning”
  20. Agreed. The release of the tension built up from our libido can literally clear the mind and help men in better discernment and making smart decisions. Many mistakes that men make regarding hiring escorts, massage guys, or even hooking up for free are due to sexual urges superseding general common sense.
  21. Most men who pay for these services, do so out of convenience, not out of need. So a “hot” guy who hires, isn’t looking for a discount. He’s looking for a good experience with specific standards & requirements. it’s important that people understand that most people aren’t hiring out of desperation. So when a “hot” guy entertains the idea of hiring a professional, he’s not even thinking about a “discount”.
  22. Given that this is a military medical professional, I wonder if there has been any assessment of why this predatory behavior seems to be to easy to ensnare victims? I have two theories: 1.) From basic training, soldiers are conditioned to follow orders (without question), from those who are in roles of authority. As doctors are considered to be in a role of medical authority, it could make sense to a solider to follow the instructions of a Doctor, even if he’s not comfortable with it, or even if it doesn’t make sense, even allowing him to be touched in ways that makes him uncomfortable. 2.) The conditioning from training solders that strips their overall sense of privacy. They are trained to shower naked in front of each other, sleep and change clothes in open areas, and even bathrooms have toilets with no partitions. Gaining this sense of ambivalence to nudity and lack of personal privacy could leave a solider to not think twice of stripping in front of his doctor, even when his purpose for the visit doesn’t logically require it. It’s almost as if these environments can make people very vulnerable to sexual predators.
  23. I’m much better off now. During COVID, I saved tons of money though not being able to travel, dine out, and lost the need to buy clothing, shoes, accessories for such entertainment. Then I received some work bonuses. Maximized my annual retirement contributions, and padded an IRA. Then with the idle time, I started playing around with penny stocks and cryptocurrencies and made some extra money off of those (yes, Dogecoin and Shiba Inu Coin), and purchased some Bonds too. I just saved and grew money. And once I came back into the “real” world, post-COVID, I maintained some of the habits and have been good ever since. I also started doing more things for myself at home: 1.) No more facials…. I bought a microdermabrasion wand, a facial steamer, and an LED mask and can do that at home, with the same effect. 2.) Manicures, pedicures, and any other grooming treatment? I have the tools and do it myself now. 3.) I don’t even get my shirts laundered anymore. I bought a steam press machine and do that at home too. That saves me hundreds of dollars monthly.
  24. This biggest concern with age should be ensuring that the person is of legal age to engage with. Other than that, people are simply being petty. Young, old, or in-between, either you have it going on, or you don’t.
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