Monarchy79

I’m not disagreeing with you. My posting was to point out that both men are similar in character. And based on what you just stated, both men are privileged too. One was born with a silver spoon in his mouth, and the other was an inside trading money-hungry (at the expense of the sick and suffering) CEO.

You want to know what I think is even more sociopathic? Creating AI to automatically (and rapidly) deny patient insurance claims, in bulk.

All it takes is one good data breach to leak all of the full IDs and victims identities to be stolen. Then leaking the only fans pages subscribers patronize.

The sad part about this case is that this dude would have never gotten caught if he didn’t take off that mask to flirt with some random woman. It’s the smallest things that will sink a man.

People are self-absorbed, inconsiderate ass-WHOLES, regardless of the political environment. Human nature always supersedes any other factor that is assumed to impact how people behave… which includes politics, economy, and the environment.

Here’s another issue.. A lot of guys who are on gay sites and offer only therapeutic massage, just aren’t that good at it. If they were, they wouldn’t be on those site to net clients because they wouldn’t have to. They’d be right on MASSAGEfinder, with their shirts on. My favorite therapeutic massage therapist is gay, has a major gay following, advertises independently, and doesn’t go near the gay sites. His clients respect his work, because he’s just that good. The hard truth in the massage business is that it has a lot of hustlers. Many of them are hot guys who want the cash, don’t have the skills to give a really good massage, but don’t want to escort either… so they find this “sweet spot” of innuendo, mixed with labeling themselves as therapeutic. What their clients usually end up with are false hopes + muddled expectations + a set of blue balls, which = Getting Snookered.

Big NAY. If a provider is strictly therapeutic, then be on a general site (or create your own site), that generally confirms that the services are therapeutic only. But to be on a site like MasseurFinder, be scantily clothed, with pictures that allude to everything EXCEPT for therapeutic massage is intentionally misleading.

The term musky & musty are used interchangeably, depending on who’s using it. Both imply that the individual has a scent /“pheremone” fetish.

The male physique is a wonder of the world. Seeing a man with a properly proportioned body, with a nice, firm butt (regardless of his sexual position) is a great thing.

It’s the form of sexual “ cognitive dissonance” that a lot of people have. I know a guy who is “allergic”, to condoms and has been barebacking it for years (even before PrEP). During those days, his method of “safe sex” was to be partnered and to be “selective” with who they played with in their open relationship. Then he got on PrEP as soon as it was available. He’s spent years admitting to contracting multiple STDs, casually gets “cured” for them, because they’re treatable, and over the past 8 years, has mad multiple bouts in the hospital with the mumps, shingles, and other infections. His immune system is so jacked up, that his body is fighting against itself and the only thing he can define it as is “lupus”. When the medical industry introduced PrEP to the world, they prescribed it to be used WITH condoms. They also expressed their concern that human behavioral studies predicted that targeted groups (gay men), would ditch the condoms, and other STDs would potentially surge. This is exactly what happened. STDs are not to be trivialized. There are many people who have long term illnesses, are suffering, and who have died, from untreated STDs, and regularly contracting STDs and “curing”, them. At the end of the day, life is about choices, and accepting whatever consequences come with them. Condoms have their benefits and drawbacks, and so does PrEP. Choose wisely, and with common sense.

It wasn’t the pharmaceutical companies that lied to them…. It was probably their sexual partners….. 😎 I volunteered for a gay advocacy group (decades ago) that promoted safe sex (passing out condoms in bars, etc) and conducting support groups. Over 90% of our youngest clients who recently contracted HIV, weren’t sexually reckless or stereotypical “sluts”, they placed their trust in a partner who either lied to them about their status, or didn’t know their status, and lied to them about their monogamy. This was B.P. (Before PrEP) With the emergence of PrEP, what I’ve witnessed are a surge or guys LYING, telling others that they are on PrEP, just for the sake of having easy bareback sex. A naive guy will take their word on that and expose themselves to not only HIV, but other STDs. Being on PrEP requires quarterly testing and (in most places) some form of health insurance. Most of these guys out here live like vikings (wild, reckless and “pillaging” asses and dicks) , and can’t even keep up with teeth cleanings and oil changes, so believing that the masses are taking PrEP as prescribed, and being regularly tested, is a bit naive…. Look at the hook up sites… they are filled with profiles where guys have made up “expired” “tested” dates….😝, all while saying they they are “on PrEP” If you’re going to be sexually active, enjoy yourself, but protect yourself, whichever way you choose (condoms, PrEPs, vaccines, etc), but whatever you do, do NOT trust the “word”, of another man.

You’re absolutely right. Unfortunately , this is when being “right”, means very little. Most of the topics discussed in these forums slide into the grey area of “righteousness”, or the lack thereof. I’m certain many clients are cheating on their partners or crossing some boundary of “rules” in their relationship. Dishonesty is one of the “underbellies” of human nature which is so powerful that neither religion or government can control it.

Michael Sam wanted to use the “first openly gay football player”, as his grift to get into the NFL. The problem was that he just wasn’t that good. Talent must supersede politics when you are of any minority group. He had no fanfare for various reasons: 1.) The NFL didn’t find him to be of any benefit because he just wasn’t athletically good. 2.) The sports community (fans and patrons of football), didn’t care enough about his antics, as he thought they would. 3.) The black gay community found him to be yet another lame snow queen, so they had no interest in him either. All in all, Sam played himself. if he spent more time in the GYM, and PRACTICING, rather than trying to be a C -List celebrity, he could have possibly made something of himself in the NFL.

One more bump.

This will definitely impact the business over the next few years. Much of their customer base didn’t think about this, when they made certain “decisions”. 😎

The client could be looking for you to provide slots for him to adhere to. easy solution: Just give him times you are available and let him pick one.

This man has a really nice, succulent set of nipples.

Another murder linked to a “love triangle”. Crimes of passion, from the unhinged emotions from men in unconventional relationships are definitely on the rise.

I think there are quite a few. this is a site filled with men over a certain age who have discussed their successes with finances in other forums .

There’s a significant difference between hiring someone in their chosen profession and propositioning someone who is economically disadvantaged. Nice try though…..

Masseurs who do anything outside of the massage (the extras), are usually doing this on a case by case, YMMV basis. Some may have bottomed for some guys, doesn’t guarantee that they’ll bottom for the NEXT guy. This is why asking if a specific masseur (kisses, bottoms, tops, eats ass, or gives oral) is somewhat inappropriate. If you want a massage that guarantees a higher probability that the “ending” will result in a sex act, then hire an escort who will start your session with a massage.

Are you looking for an actual Sugar Daddy? Or a Finsub? Major difference between the two, and from your posting (and others) it appears that many of you are looking for the latter.

Ummm No…. Many construction, landscaping and other companies search for day laborers and wind up hiring them for full time work. Some companies even assist them with obtaining citizenship (for those who are undocumented ) Further, individuals who hire them, refer them to others and they build their own independent clientele. Plus, a day laborer is getting cash in-hand, without taxes or the middle-man (employer), talking their cut…..everybody wins. Therefore, this is NOT exploitation. In terms of sexual exploitation, we ALL know good and damned well that you’re not anticipating paying a day laborer the $300 + hourly rate, that you’d be required to pay a confirmed professional escort. That’s what makes your intentions exploitative. Looking for a cheaper means to get your rocks off, assuming that a day laborer is willing to ignore his own values to appease your sexual proclivities. being in a higher socio-economic status than someone else, doesn’t give you the right to dangle cash in their face, in exchange for you to suck their dicks.

In all seriousness, how low must one go, in soliciting others for sex. I’m guessing the next thread will be about cruising the streets for mentally-ill homeless men, seeing how cheap their tricks can be….. 😒

…. Because no one wants to feel like they’ve gotten snookered. This is why people compare the prices that they’ve paid for cars (especially insurance), mechanics, landscapers, etc.,