Monarchy79

Am I the only one who just thinks that much of Andrew Christian underwear is just tacky as hell? 😂 (No offense to those forum members who indulge in the brand…..)

A very reckless advertisement as people are still getting arrested and major investigations and sting operations are STILL occurring in public places by law enforcement. Some uninformed idiot could watch crap like this and just casually have sex in public, not thinking that they can be charged, jailed and placed on the Registered Sex Offender’s list for it.

Are such services appropriate to be linked with “affordability”?

Absolutely not. If someone states their price, respect it and either book them or not. Haggling appears to be an annoyance (and sometimes insulting), to many service providers. Once a guy respond to you with his rate, a simple “Thank You”, is sufficient. Then move on to someone who’s pricing is comparable to your standards of payment.

You forgot to mention your mandatory deposit. 😎😝

The fact that you’re asking this question clearly indicates that you aren’t comfortable. Your instincts are telling you not to move forward with it.

Did you not see where the OP said the guy greeted him at the door naked, guided him into his bedroom and thanked him once he was done? This isn’t an issue of “consent”. This is an issue where someone has found an easy way to make some cash, without providing the expected methods/levels of performance.

That guy knew exactly what he was doing….. 😎

Tipping isn’t exactly “mandatory” in the US. It’s a “pressured norm” in the US.

I wanted to also make another point. I thought of all of the other professional services where a provider would visit a client’s home: Barbers, manicurists, nannies, plumbers, electricians, private chefs. None of them separately ask their clients to arrange them Ubers, or to cover some related transportation cost.

If I were an escort, instead of “nickel & diming” clients, I’d just factor it into my standard rate. The client wouldn’t think about it, I’d have my transportation covered, and we’d both have a seamless, smooth experience.

That feeling in your gut wasn’t indigestion…. listen to your inner voice telling you “no”.

Suggested Solution: Book 60 minute sessions moving forward. The rate will now be a direct match with the service.

At the end of the day, the deposit issue is a bit of a gamble for both the provider and the client. For the provider, the deposit gives a form of “insurance”, increasing the likelihood that the potential client WON’T flake. For the client, the deposit, gives a form of “liability”, increasing the likelihood that the potential provider WILL flake. The provider’s time is precious, and the client’s money is precious, and both are trying to ensure they don’t waste either. However, if a potential client flakes on a provider, that provider can recoup the time wasted by booking someone else, or revising his schedule. if a potential provider flakes on a client, takes his deposit and disappears, his financial loss is pretty much set, and he can’t recoup his loss.

To each his own…. I do believe in procedures to enhance and maintain one’s appearance to make them look and feel better… but I’ve never been a fan of “alterations” (i.e, implants, nose jobs, height surgeries etc.) I feel like people are (for the most part), created in a way where everything fits; And one’s height goes with everything else (shoe size, hand size, head size, shoulder width, etc.) So although someone who will get this surgery will be happier with being taller, someone with a trained eye will easily see that something is a bit “imbalanced” with their entire proportions.

It is…. But it’s a bit different for homosexual men, because dick and ass is always available. Which is why so many gay men flake out on each other… in one scenario, a gay man can be wavering between a hookup on a app, a bar/nightclub, the gym, sex party/orgy, hiring a masseur or an escort, or even public cruising. He’s always flaking for something better, because the likelihood of something better is actually possible. For a straight man, he doesn’t have many easy options for women. And many options can burn his pockets, as your average woman isn’t simply down for easy sex, especially because of the culturally imposed norms regarding a woman’s “virtue”. If he wavers for too long, he can wind up stuck with blue balls, or entertaining a lot lizard/crack whore…. LOL.

Not exactly. The unprofessional behaviors that most people are mentioning are u acceptable for any and every type of body worker…. Professional, licensed or otherwise. Such things as poor hygiene, being incoherently high, and providing sketchy hosting environments is mutually exclusive from one’s level of “certification”, as a professional. This is just universally poor customer service.

There are some genres of music I believe should never be played during a massage… rap music is one of them. Add rock, heavy metal, techno and any form of “club” music to the mix of music “no-nos”

Interruptions. A while back, I had a masseur who kept stopping, going to get the massage product, having to pee, then sipping on water. He didn’t understand that a massage is supposed to be a full flow…..

I should clarify that I’m referring to “free pussy”. it’s value is in the fact that a man will get access to stick his dick in it.

When a straight man gets the opportunity to get some pussy, he’s not going to flake. And if he does, it’s because he has the option of better pussy to get.

I think with setting times for various purposes, people have relied more on over communicating useless information. Instead of texting back & forth on an ETA, like it’s a moving target, Just set a firm time, state that you’ll text them when you either park, or when your Uber drops you off, and you’re done. Easy sensible example: ”Hey let’s hook up.” ” Cool, your place or mine?” “Mine? What time is good?” “10pm” ”ok. Cool. I’ll text you when I park.” 9:50pm…. ”Hey, I just parked” “Cool. Come up around 9:55 and I’ll buzz you in.” Done. Simple & efficient.

You play a significant role in the lack of clarity in confirming an ETA in this scenario. Why not just set an actual time? How was this guy supposed to determine what “whatever it takes me to get dressed and walk 7 blocks”, means in terms of time?

Hello, Bumping this up to see if anyone else has tried this guy out. I’m looking to test the waters this week.

Hard lesson: Never get involved in domestic violence issues. Women need to stop calling their male family members and call the cops.