Monarchy79

I’m glad you made this point. My first sexual experience with a man was about 17 as well… and the man was 30. We both knew he could get in trouble and (from looking back at the entire scenario of how he even met me) one could say he was a bit “predatory”. However, I was a willing participant and really wanted that experience, and it was one of the best sexual experiences I ever had.

You nailed it. 👍🏾

I’m in full agreement with you. And with the clips you posted, it reminds me of this: most of the sexually “questionable” things I’ve had happen to me in my life has always been in male concentrated environments (sports, locker rooms, even hanging out and getting a little buzzed) with “straight” men.

So now you’ve confirmed dishonesty and manipulation (hence the “coaxing”) too. You’re a true class act.

I’ve never set any “standards” for anyone’s preferences. I set standards for decorum, consideration and respect. Those are the “standards” you have difficulty comprehending and demonstrating. But I understand that your “subconscious drivers”, and your “origin story” will usually lead you in the same direction every time.

Are you telling those Latino men that you have sex with (who are uncut bottoms), that you think their uncut penises are disgusting? Since you’re unabashedly blunt, with no concern for insulting others in these forums in these forums, I wonder if you behave the same way in those scenarios too.

Well….. sharing that you grew up in an all white American small city, and your mind saying “yuck”, to things that weren’t the “standard”, based on your environment, this speaks volumes to your pathology, how you think, and the comments you make in these forums.

I differ with you on many topics. I don’t need to insult you to express that disagreement. The conversation can still be interesting without nastiness and vitriol.

I understand you clearly. I simply disagree with you. let’s be honest here, the term “preferences” started being used in the realm of sex, dating and hookups to as a means to soften what’s really taking place, which is bias, and a plethora of “isms” . It was a way for people to make their prejudices sound less offensive. For example, a guy saying on a hook up app… “no black guys, and no Asians” appears flat out racist….but adding the phrase “just a preference”, gives the false illusion that the person is free from bias…. To give some accurate historical context of the phrase: ”Just a Preference”, became the catch phrase of white men with bias, as a way to excuse the social protest that racial and other minorities made against “no blacks, no asians, not fats, and no fems”, from apps such as Grindr. Now going back to you…. I see nothing “wrong”, with your preference for circumcised penises. And I agree that people shouldn’t be judged for their preferences. But if someone’s preference is rooted in bias, then they aren’t exonerated from being called out for it. And calling the people who address it “judgmental” loses its validity, the moment you call uncut penises “gross”, as that is a judgment too.

In one single post, you stated how one shouldn’t judge others…. Then you did exactly that… judged others. You not liking an uncut penis, doesn’t make that uncut penis “gross”. You just don’t like it.

Those are purposeful acts and adaptations that someone chose to perform and implement: One’s uncircumcised penis is something that they are born with. And one’s circumcised penis is something that they more than likely did not choose. This is why using pejorative terms to the latter is considered offensive and inappropriate. You don’t have to like it, but you don’t need to verbally describe your disgust for it in an insulting manner either.

True, But when your “specifications” veer off so far from the menu, then this speaks more about the mind and intentions of the customer, rather than the restaurant or provider of the service. It seems some of these preferences lean towards sociopathic reflections of control more than anything.

If you’re looking for a bottom, why does the “status” of his foreskin matter?

“Butt Butter Churning”

Agreed. The release of the tension built up from our libido can literally clear the mind and help men in better discernment and making smart decisions. Many mistakes that men make regarding hiring escorts, massage guys, or even hooking up for free are due to sexual urges superseding general common sense.

Most men who pay for these services, do so out of convenience, not out of need. So a “hot” guy who hires, isn’t looking for a discount. He’s looking for a good experience with specific standards & requirements. it’s important that people understand that most people aren’t hiring out of desperation. So when a “hot” guy entertains the idea of hiring a professional, he’s not even thinking about a “discount”.

Given that this is a military medical professional, I wonder if there has been any assessment of why this predatory behavior seems to be to easy to ensnare victims? I have two theories: 1.) From basic training, soldiers are conditioned to follow orders (without question), from those who are in roles of authority. As doctors are considered to be in a role of medical authority, it could make sense to a solider to follow the instructions of a Doctor, even if he’s not comfortable with it, or even if it doesn’t make sense, even allowing him to be touched in ways that makes him uncomfortable. 2.) The conditioning from training solders that strips their overall sense of privacy. They are trained to shower naked in front of each other, sleep and change clothes in open areas, and even bathrooms have toilets with no partitions. Gaining this sense of ambivalence to nudity and lack of personal privacy could leave a solider to not think twice of stripping in front of his doctor, even when his purpose for the visit doesn’t logically require it. It’s almost as if these environments can make people very vulnerable to sexual predators.

I’m much better off now. During COVID, I saved tons of money though not being able to travel, dine out, and lost the need to buy clothing, shoes, accessories for such entertainment. Then I received some work bonuses. Maximized my annual retirement contributions, and padded an IRA. Then with the idle time, I started playing around with penny stocks and cryptocurrencies and made some extra money off of those (yes, Dogecoin and Shiba Inu Coin), and purchased some Bonds too. I just saved and grew money. And once I came back into the “real” world, post-COVID, I maintained some of the habits and have been good ever since. I also started doing more things for myself at home: 1.) No more facials…. I bought a microdermabrasion wand, a facial steamer, and an LED mask and can do that at home, with the same effect. 2.) Manicures, pedicures, and any other grooming treatment? I have the tools and do it myself now. 3.) I don’t even get my shirts laundered anymore. I bought a steam press machine and do that at home too. That saves me hundreds of dollars monthly.

This biggest concern with age should be ensuring that the person is of legal age to engage with. Other than that, people are simply being petty. Young, old, or in-between, either you have it going on, or you don’t.

On a style perspective, I think that the polish and color should go with one’s overall aesthetic for it to “work.” If a guy has the entire rocker look & vibe and has some black polish on a few fingers, it can work. (Think, Lenny Kravitz or Jared Leto) Or a dude with clear, coated, well manicured nails, whose style of dress is just crispy and sharp (very “Phineas Cole”), I can see that too. However, whenever I see these guys out here with bad haircuts, terribly styled bargain bin H&M outfits, busted shoes, with overgrown crayola nail colors, it just cracks me up. a lot of what cracks me up with what I see is not even about the masculine vs. feminine thing…. It’s just that everything’s is so poorly executed. It’s the overall lack of good taste.

It’s not right or wrong. It’s their discretion, just like with any service. 1.) many attorneys require retainers 2.) home contractors for renovations may negotiate a deposit 3.) Many physicians want your co-pay up front. The provider of any service has the right to determine their payment standards. You as the customer have the right to either accept those terms, or decline service and find services from a provider who has payment standards that are in accordance with your standards of business. Life is very simple.

Very Sketchy… Sting Operation-Level Sketchy

You don’t even need that. Just go through the history of comment threads on this site.

Just for fun, look up the details of the following murderers who have been escorts: 1.) Joshua Hunter 2.) Jason Marshall There are many more. guess what none of them were? Latino. Statistically , the likelihood of you getting chopped up and tortured to death is highest with a nice “wholesome” looking white boy who satisfies all of those Cody Fisher twink fantasies so many people seem to have. And further, let’s not get into general hookups. it’s not the Latin “migrant” or the black “hood” guy that’s going to kill ya… it’s that white, bearded leather daddy that’s going to dismember you and eat your parts for Thanksgiving dinner…. The false image of the white male “nice guy” has lead to many naive people ending up dead…. Jeffrey Dahmer, Mark Latunski and Ed Buck can confirm that.

LOL. So MS-13 and the Latin Kings have colluded a major robbery scheme to pose as escorts now? let me guess, any black escort who wears a baseball cap is a “thug” too?