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My goodness, it seems like you overlooked The Listmaker. (He shows up in the hot spaces to take notes on everything he sees for a crime drama he's writing, set in a spa, not a bathhouse) 🥵🤣

This looks interesting. Two of my favorite actors.

I wonder if there is any difference for folks in states that require ID verification to view explicit materials vs those that do not. I am in CA where verification is not required. I suppose using VPN set to a location with more permissive laws would circumvent the issue altogether. For those not using a VPN to view rent.men, I wonder if explicit pics are visible, where normally they would not be visible. I’m tired of RentMen and RentMasseur dictating what pics are visible. I’m over them putting pics behind a paywall for their own profit, at the expense of clients not viewing me when I want them to. I pay to advertise. Let me advertise.

I've chatted with him a bit. He's a really nice guy. We traded some newbies tips. Seems like we have quite a bit in common. We started this within a week of one another. I've decided he's my escort brother 🤠 So be nice to him.

It's one of the things I love most about Irish towns and cities. You can just walk into a pub, and listen to that kind of beautiful music from beautiful men and women for as long as you like. Leave, and go to another. Two strong actors. I look forward to this movie.

It depends on how specific these scenarios are. If it’s simple mechanics: you want to get DP’d while getting face fucked, that’s simple enough. If you’re looking for more of a role play situation, you probably need to articulate them fairly well.

Hi Jon - thank you for posting this and welcome to this message board. I hope this will be a fun and rewarding activity for you. I wish you the best of luck!

Well his post is 3 hours old, and as a new member his first post(s) had to get approved by a moderator. So just timing.

I don’t have much experience setting up group sessions, but one thing I’ve learned is that it’s crucial to lay out clear ground rules for both, what you want to happen and what you don’t. At the end of the day, you’re the client, so it’s in your best interest to make your expectations crystal clear from the start.

Poor guy... Yeah you definitely gotta help break him out of that. I definitely understand the rest. I've found myself intimidated by providers before just from the physicality difference and not want to cause conflict in their presence, but I'm ABSOLUTELY writing that negative review when i get home lol. Even if Karma on it's face of how it is supposed to work was real (sorry, not trying to start that debate without anyone lol). Leaving a negative review for someone that provided bad service to you is not something that would get you bad karma. The negative review is the bad karma that provider gets for giving poor service.

Hi all, I'm the provider. This thread is so full of tall-tales that it's cracking me up! 🤣 I'm vers, maybe even more top. All my clients so far have been bottoms and we've had a lot of fun 😀. I am financially independent; I'm not coming away from some previous "sugar daddy" arrangement, lol; I wasn't "put out on the curb," by a recent breakup (that suggestion had me floored! 🤣). I haven't had any "open house" events, for prospective "sugar daddies" (lol🤣) but something like an "open house" for anyone interested in meeting me sounds like a fun idea if enough guys are interested 😃. I say that I don't want to meet guys who are in exclusive relationships because I would feel like I'm hurting their partner. As an empath, that wouldn't feel right. My images are up-to-date and from modeling gigs in over the past year. I dabbled in escorting in college years ago but I haven't been active in the industry since then. I'm doing this, frankly, because I enjoy giving intimacy, and it's fun to earn income from something that I enjoy.

Well, I went against the prior feedback and gave Roman a try. I am so glad I did. Although he may be newer at this he knows EXACTLY what hes doing. One of the nicest, and sweetest human beings on earth. Just adorable. Pictures dont do him justice. He is massive. 6’1 230 totally, ALL measurements and I mean all, are accurate. Had a special experience I wanted he listened to every detail. Did not watch the clock, was early but willing to wait if needed, communicated often, and even stayed a bit to chit chat afterwards. Smart, sexy, sweet, everything was just amazing. Zero and I mean ZERO attitude, engaging, just perfect. Probably in my top 5. Totally will be seeing this handsome man again.

Uhh... wouldn't that early indoctrination also convince you that some of your other activities would send you south as well? (take "south" to mean hell or Florida... same shit, different name)

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I was in Montreal for the Labor Day weekend. Not only is the Stock Bar out of talent, but it was packed with women from bachelorette parties, I mean, wall to wall. There were no hot guys; they were average at best. They didn't walk around; only a few of them danced on the main stage, and I never saw them again. Friday, I went back to Stock for a few drinks, but I didn't see anyone working the room. After about 15 minutes, I saw this non-binary person dancing on the pole, so I left immediately. On Friday and Saturday, the campus was packed with dancers and customers. I had a few dances, but each time we had to wait. The booths were full, so in the end... I decided to spend all my money on Zayne, the blond guy with no tattoos. Sometimes he goes by Zane. He's just so perfect: beautiful and such a nice guy. He was so busy that he didn't even get halfway out of the lap dance area before someone grabbed him and pulled him back in. I don't know how many of you follow LPSG, but I found out that he (Zayne) did both straight and gay porn for a while, so it was pretty hot to dance with him. .

I couldn't care less what some uptight doorman thinks of me.

The day before the bank balance hits zero.

In my experience with men of this ilk (of all sexualities), the younger paramour is a hedge against their own aging. It’s a kind of arrested development. They don’t want someone to age with as a peer. I also consider it bad form to have a younger man with you for 10-15 years and then toss him out with no resources. I dated a wealthy man 12 years my senior when I was 21. He was gorgeous - like a refined Harry Connick Jr, great lover, generous, and quite chivalrous. But when he talked about his college boyfriend, he was horrified that his ex had aged. I saw a photo of them in college (when the ex was a dead ringer for me - slim, twinky ginger with wavy hair and green eyes) and a current photo which showed a man in his 30s who was handsome and fit with a receding hairline. Though we saw each for a few more months, I knew in that moment that my value to him had an expiration date. I had no interest in becoming dependent or even used to a life that would inevitably be taken from me. He’s in his 60s now and seems to have never married.🤷🏻

I initially texted other guys on rentmasseur but they weren’t available, and since I’m only here in Seattle for a few days, might as well try some “locals”. This guy named Taka (as per reviews on rentmasseur) responded quickly. Side note: I am writing this review here and not on rentmasseur because I think it needs to be heard. In rentmasseur, most of his reviews are positive which I don’t know why. There are several who made some honest reviews but he’s quick to like clap back at them. His photos are headless torsos and in his thongs so I was like taking a gamble with him. It also looks like he’s a bottom in those pics. When I arrived at the place, there were no spots left on the street so I have to pay 20 bucks for the parking. His location is at capitol hill which I think is the lgbt neighborhood in seattle. He went downstairs to fetch me, and as he opened the door, I saw his facial reaction, like he lost a bet or kinda disgusted by my presence. I know I’m not handsome and a little chub, you just had to rub it in right? Anyway, the feeling is kinda mutual, because you know why his photos on rentmasseur are headless? Well yeah, I’ll just leave it at that. Dunno why clients said he’s a good looking guy tho. Anyway, so I took a chance. Anyway, just to take note, his profile says sensual, or mutual touch with release. Ok, let’s keep that in mind. His place really is in an old building, and his apartment really looks a bit run down, which is ok as long as you’re clean. His place tho had a lot of stuff and furniture and portraits of art or like naked guys or girls and some other trinkets which btw, screams bottom. Nothing wrong with that, I had a bottom masseur before that was really nice and his place is immaculate. So anyway, his english I think is limited so we had difficulty communicating. He allowed me to strip and laid on his massage bed that is huge btw, face down. He started massaging me with the use of an oil that seems to be either really drying or he’s just too stingy when applying. It made the gliding and stroking of his arms and elbows non sensual. Like he meant for it that way, which btw, some negative reviews commented. His techniques are basic elbow shiatsu stuff with a decent amount of pressure, but he never initiated anything sensual in between my as* cheeks and thighs or groin area which I always get from any sensual massage. After that “routine” he asked me to turn over. Of course I wouldn’t be aroused with that routine so I was disappointed. He then started some lame moves to try to get me going (which was very lame I’d rather not describe) but I was checking his facial reactions, and again, he’s looking away looking like he’s completely disgusted. He never incorporated some other sensual stuff like n**ple pl*y or playing with the as* cr*ck whatsoever which is fine, but what I hated is that it feels like he’s deliberately doing some de-h*rnyfying moves. He started the “release” portion with the attitude of let’s get it over with. I tried the mutual touching part but he kept on budging and moving away. Ok, so I guess it’s only for certain clients and we know which clients are those, until I finished. And you know the first thing he did, went straight to the bathroom, swung the door open which made a whack sound and started washing his hands. It really made me feel so bad about myself. Afterwards, he brought a really small, barely damp towel and 1 piece of wipes and handed it to me, which to my understanding, clean yourself up. Ok, I was laying there, shocked, like I had the worst customer service ever, and so I wiped myself while he hurriedly dressed himself. And as soon as he did that, I started dressing to, like he’s saying b*tch what are you still doing here. And so I asked him if I could go to the bathroom, and composed myself before I came out and gave him the payment with tip. I shouldn’t have tipped him tho lol kidding. He offered water so kudos to that. And he was quiet the whole time so after putting my shoes on, I said my good bye, and walked myself down to their front door. Moral of the story: find a masseur that doesn’t discriminate based on the client’s appearance. Again, that’s why I prefer straight masseurs rather than having diva’s live waving at your face. I think also moving forward, to my japanese sister, please just ask photos of your clients before accepting them, so in that way, you would grab clients that is to your liking. Idk why that should make sense because that is rentmasseur and not grindr or sniffies. anyway I just need to delete that memory in my mind now. Asianmassage - Male Massage & Bodywork in Seattle, WA | RentMasseur RENTMASSEUR.COM Gay Masseur Asianmassage in Seattle, WA offering a wide range of massages ⭐ experienced in therapeutic, sensual...

I couldn’t finish reading the article. Typical NPR garbage. We’re all queer now… can’t say Gay.

I reached out to him but decided not to hire, he seemed fine but there were things that gave me some pause. I'd recommend reaching out to clients that left him a review for their feedback, including the ones who didn't leave 5 stars.

Fortuitously for a forum like this, that's what is known as a hard conversion from metric to imperial. A hard conversion is when you take the measurement in one system (often not a precise measure, say 'he's 6' tall') and convert it to the precise one of two decimal places. A soft conversion is when you round the converted number to something that wouldn't sound weird in conversation. No one (or not most people) would describe someone's dick any more accurately than the nearest inch or half inch, no one who normally speaks metric would go closer than the nearest centimetre. RM, it seems, uses a hard conversion from metric to imperial, although I never see dick sizes listed other than whole centimetres, no decimal points.

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From reading this thread and other threads about provider / client relationships, something tells me that many clients don't communicate with the provider. Is it intimidation ? Are clients intimidated by the gorgeous muscle guy on the other end of the phone and afraid to speak up and let them know what they are hiring him for ? (Maybe the provider is using his looks / body purposely to distract or intimidate and take over the dynamics of the arrangement ?) Is it assumption? Do most clients 'assume' the provider knows what is expected of him during the appointment ? Is it inexperience? Are most clients not experienced in doing business one-on-one and speaking up for what you need ? (And I mean one-on-one with any guy in business for himself: providers, trainers, housepainters, landscapers, etc.) Remember - you are the one with cash in your hands, and they're the ones providing a service which you want. All and any of the above can be overcome, so you take control of any situation.

I’d say your expectations are completely reasonable. If you’re paying for companionship, you’re not being picky in wanting to actually spend time together on the trip. Everyone needs personal time, but disappearing for half the day, especially on a short weekend, sounds more like he’s maximizing his own vacation rather than prioritizing you. Communication is key. You’ve already done a few trips together, so this really should have been addressed the first time around, not several trips in. This is exactly why you need to be clear about expectations up front. No provider should be telling you on a trip you’re paying top dollar for, “I need my personal time.” That kind of comment is a big turn-off. At the end of the day, you’re paying for a fantasy, not their reality. So approach it directly but calmly: tell him mornings matter to you and ask if he can adjust so the time feels balanced. If he pushes back or minimizes it in anyway, that’s your red flag. Honestly, that alone tells you what you need to know, you’re not getting what you’re paying for, and it may be best to move on. You’re a repeat customer and deserve better.