Playing with Escort

[sky]

For those that hire how many of you like playing with the escort without reciprocation, just having them lay nude while you stroke them, maybe edge them and finger them.  While I like reciprication at times I also like to take control of the escort, staying dressed myself and pleasuring the escort.  I've always seen escorts more as an object since I am paying.  

[nomad]

Curious if this includes only the provider climaxing?  Since ur staying dressed.  

[jonasfoleson]

sometimes. but they are there to pleasure me, but it makes a nice change of pace.

[SecretProvider]

You are not alone - there are a lot of people who get pleasure by giving pleasure. 

I can only speak for myself - but it is a really nice change of pace when I get a client who wants to flip those dynamics and focus on giving pleasure.

[nomad]

I am feeling a little selfish then.  🤣  That has never occurred to me.  

[jmichaeliii]

Do it all the time.  I love that part!

[nomad]

Shouldn't it be all about me?  Oops, I mean Eve! 😝

[Mark_fl]

I really want the provider to have a good time and get off, so I will ask what they like and don't like, if there are any restrictions, etc. I don't want to make them uncomfortable...but I do want reciprocation, so I'll always want my turn;)

[Whoisyourdaddy]

This is me. I'm extremely shy, but promiscuous. (Ironically, I have always tried to maintain a decent BMI.)

I love giving oral, though. If the script changes in any way, I lose all interest. 

Recently, I had an Asian provider insist that I get naked. He claimed it was a cultural requirement. After getting naked, I couldn't suck him to save my life. I think I was just too distracted.

[+ Jamie21]

I find most clients want to interact in some way. Of course my focus is on them, and whilst I’m ostensibly in charge of the session I’m constantly trying to discover what the client likes or wants (because they’ll rarely be able to state this before we start - they find it easier to say what they don’t want but not so much what they do want), so in reality they are leading the session.

Thinking of clients I saw last week they all wanted to interact with me, and most of them were keen for me to cum. I think clients enjoy it more if it’s clear that I’m also turned on and it’s a great positive feedback loop because the client enjoying themselves is a big turn on for me. 

[jmichaeliii]

I have two providers I see often that have a submissive side I didn't originally know about until I made a move and they went along with it.  Was sooo hot!

[+ ApexNomad]

1 hour ago, Jamie21 said:

I think clients enjoy it more if it’s clear that I’m also turned on and it’s a great positive feedback loop because the client enjoying themselves is a big turn on for me. 

I think every client enjoys it more when the provider is turned on too. 

[BigK]

What’s with all this talk of providers. The term seems very woke to me. They are escorts!! Working Men! I think of the best of them as entrepreneurs and businessmen.  I will often complement an escort on their entrepreneurial skills when they’ve exhibited great communication skills and marketing abilities. Just basic things like letting me know when they’re going to be in town. Remembering what I like.
 

Providers just strikes me as a weak ass name. Sort of like sissies.  Personally, I won’t use the term but go ahead if you feel you must.