brat escorts, what to do.?

[+ M T]

I recently met someone who looked nice, older than usual twink age, about 33, young looking, exchanged basic info, thought nice for dinner and overnight couple nights vegas. I made the best plans a massage at the high end resort, a facial, etc.. Facy dinners, well over 500.00... Yet when going to do stuff during the day like wandering around, the person literally demands, I want those 600.00 jeans at the versachi store, or else we aren't having fun tonight. again it went on, I only will eat if its at a fine dining 7 course restaurant, and this went on. Acting like a brat of a 20 year old and even if I got a nice vaca and free fine dining, I would never have acted this way. He's in Chicago, maybe the escorts are more like that, Ths is not a post on the experience. it's a post on what would you do.? and chime in if your an escort. Have you had this experience.?

[+ Pensant]

Just send him on his way.

[56harrisond]

1 hour ago, Pensant said:

Just send him on his way.

This is the correct answer. And a reminder that maturity doesn't necessarily come with age. 

[+ KensingtonHomo]

I would have paid whatever fee was agreed to and dismissed him. You're not an ATM. 

[jmichaeliii]

Agree with all above.  It would be a big F-off.

There are so many quality providers that understand how to do things right.  No need to put up with that crap.

[+ BOZO T CLOWN]

2 hours ago, M T said:

I recently met someone who looked nice, older than usual twink age, about 33, young looking, exchanged basic info, thought nice for dinner and overnight couple nights vegas. I made the best plans a massage at the high end resort, a facial, etc.. Facy dinners, well over 500.00... Yet when going to do stuff during the day like wandering around, the person literally demands, I want those 600.00 jeans at the versachi store, or else we aren't having fun tonight. again it went on, I only will eat if its at a fine dining 7 course restaurant, and this went on. Acting like a brat of a 20 year old and even if I got a nice vaca and free fine dining, I would never have acted this way. He's in Chicago, maybe the escorts are more like that, Ths is not a post on the experience. it's a post on what would you do.? and chime in if your an escort. Have you had this experience.?

Bozo would have paid him NOTHING (if he protested, request Hotel security escort him out). Also, purchase this pampered prima donna with an entitlement complex a one-way ticket back to Chicago, preferably with a few long layovers. Bozo would have also paid the 10 bucks extra for each leg on the trip back for an assigned seat in coach, a middle seat, either last row or as close to the lavatory as possible. Also give him a lousy review in whatever site you found him.

BTC
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[maninsoma]

I agree with the above suggestions, should you find yourself in this position again:  Arrange for him to leave as soon as possible, tell him why you are dismissing him early, and then leave a negative review.  If he was just being entitled but not threatening to withhold service that's the basis of your engagement, I would suggest just having a frank discussion.  With someone like this, though, that's just throwing good after bad since I doubt he would perform well once his demands weren't being met.

I'm puzzled that anyone would hire someone he's never met before for a longer than overnight session (and even that is a risk for an unknown escort).  Or, at the very least, it seems like a more detailed discussion regarding expectations needs to happen before the trip is even scheduled.

[+ M T]

Thank you, everyone for your wise advice. I'm learning a lot. 

[acks0104]

Everyone of course has different experiences and expectations, but I would just NEVER do an overnight or book more than a 2 hour session with a guy I haven't met before. There are just too many damn variables, including having no idea what his personality will be like with you, even if he's been around for a while. You might want to consider doing shorter sessions with guys you haven't met before in order to avoid things like this.

[+ purplekow]

It would have been a blunt response.  You want the pants, you may pay for them they are available.  You want fine dining, you will be dining alone.  You won't live up to our sleeping arrangements, you will be sleeping elsewhere. You want to get back to Chicago, I would suggest you start walking.  If you want all these things write a letter to Santa. 

I suggest that you live up to your screen name and say I am MT and so is my wallet.  

[soloyo215]

If that's not your thing (having a guy acting like you are his personal ATM), I agree with the suggestion of others. Paid what you agreed, do what you agreed and end it.

[Nue2thegame]

For whatever reason, it sounds like he was dissing you big time. A reasonable person wouldn’t act like that unless they expected or wanted to be abruptly dismissed. I’ve encountered entitlement before but nothing on this scale and on the one occasion where it was satisfactorily resolved, I had a frank, blunt exchange about the limits of my largesse. I agree with other’s suggestions of not doing overnights with strangers, for this reason. 
Otherwise, how was the sex?

[Danny-Darko]

We've all met them. Move on and don't even look at him again, even if in the same place. He doesn't deserve your attentions or money and you don't need that kind of BS nor leach like him in your life. Only the most pathetic of men put up with opportunist and parasites like him. I've told escorts and hustlers alike, if they want money they have a job to do! "No ticket, no laundry!" I've worked hard for my money and they should too if they want any from me! There are so many more men out there and nice guys too to chose from. Cut all ties and move on!  

[+ PhileasFogg]

16 hours ago, M T said:

I recently met someone who looked nice, older than usual twink age, about 33, young looking, exchanged basic info, thought nice for dinner and overnight couple nights vegas. I made the best plans a massage at the high end resort, a facial, etc.. Facy dinners, well over 500.00... Yet when going to do stuff during the day like wandering around, the person literally demands, I want those 600.00 jeans at the versachi store, or else we aren't having fun tonight. again it went on, I only will eat if its at a fine dining 7 course restaurant, and this went on. Acting like a brat of a 20 year old and even if I got a nice vaca and free fine dining, I would never have acted this way. He's in Chicago, maybe the escorts are more like that, Ths is not a post on the experience. it's a post on what would you do.? and chime in if your an escort. Have you had this experience.?

Was it SkylarDiamond by chance?

but, I’d tell him to F off without excusing my French 

Edited December 9 by PhileasFogg

[aiseeya]

He ought to have a grade 10 🍑/ 🍆 for you to take that abuse.........

A provider once asked for a rolex, I replid with a story where I cut off contact with provider who repeatedly asked for a nike.

[SecretProvider]

I am cringing at the behavior of this provider.  I would never behave this way and I don't know any of my friends that would either. Disgraceful. 

Sorry that happened to you dude - 100% kick this loser to the curb. 

We are supposed to be there to make you feel good, not treat you like this. Makes me mad and gives those of us who take this seriously a bad name. 

[DunwoodyGuy]

On 12/8/2025 at 7:21 AM, M T said:

I recently met someone who looked nice, older than usual twink age, about 33, young looking, exchanged basic info, thought nice for dinner and overnight couple nights vegas.

Pardon my sarcasm, but with this as the set-up, what could POSSIBLY go wrong?

[JB_Studio38]

I thought we were going to discuss bottoming dietary restrictions 🙊 

 

Or maybe you need to prep your brats better

 

Edited Tuesday at 11:30 PM by JB_Studio38

[+ M T]

Everyone is absolutely amazing on this advice. I needed the tough love and wisdom. and yes the above name does come to mind. 

[GentJ]

Plenty of us out there would be super grateful to be taken out to nice places like that! Maybe next time look for providers that have good reviews on here vis-a-vis BFE.

[+ DrownedBoy]

Yup, I've bumped into entitled brats like that.  They get the boot - there's no bigger sexual turn off.

As far as bluntness, I'm pretty vicious. Before I "fired" a former regular, I got an idea of his finances, lack of savings, and debt, and since he was in his 30s and losing attractiveness, I told him what to expect for retirement. If they screw me out of sexual pleasure, I'll get my pleasure by making them squirm.