What level of restaurant and hotel do you go with providers?

[+ PhileasFogg]

As nice as I want to experience myself

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

14 hours ago, PhileasFogg said:

As nice as I want to experience myself

This is exactly the right answer.

That said, my best clients make most time we share together a conversation, not a dictation.

If they are foodies or are curious about high-end dining, I have that experience to steer them.

[+ BOZO T CLOWN]

On 4/15/2025 at 10:48 AM, Dingdi said:

Planning to have a lunch with an escort for the first time. A little bit hesitant when it comes to choosing restaurant. 

When you dine out with providers, what level of restaurant do you go?.

Taco Bell.
If Bozo is in a generous mood and feels like splurging, then we head off to Chipotle.

BTC
🤡
 

[rvwnsd]

42 minutes ago, BOZO T CLOWN said:

Taco Bell...

 

Wise choice. An all-in-one meal and colonic cleanse. Saves time on the cleanout.

[+ BOZO T CLOWN]

20 hours ago, rvwnsd said:

Wise choice. An all-in-one meal and colonic cleanse. Saves time on the cleanout.

Exactly!
And every one of the choices in their Cantina menu is delicious. Bozo spares no expense when it comes to dining out with a $300-an-hour escort.

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The food here is just as tasty as in some high-falutin, fancy-schmantzy restaurant!

BTC
🤡

Edited April 26, 2025 by BOZO T CLOWN

[+ PhileasFogg]

6 hours ago, BenjaminNicholas said:

This is exactly the right answer.

That said, my best clients make most time we share together a conversation, not a dictation.

If they are foodies or are curious about high-end dining, I have that experience to steer them.

Me too. I’m not engaging a man servant.  I’m engaging a companion whom I want to feel like is getting something they want out of the trip too.

But that also means I have to choose someone who knows how to act in these kinds of places 

Edited April 25, 2025 by PhileasFogg

[borgerback]

Usually when I actually meet in LA, I'm meeting gents who are from out of town.  I have an affinity for introducing them to places that I consider 'old school' and good to great to excellent.  For the latter, I'll say Dan Tana's on Santa Monica; for the 'good' (when I couldn't get us into Dan Tana's) I took my 'date' to Lawry's on La Cienega.  

One travel buddy talked me into Cipriani's in Vegas at the Wynn; apparently there's one in Beverly Hills I've never eaten at.  it was smashingly good.  

But like Simon, the focus is on local-ish places they probably would not have tried or known about themselves as out of town visitors.  And for those of you 'in' on LA more than me, don't mock me for my choices . . . 

After all, even the Pantry closed down after almost 100 years.  

[Luv2play]

8 hours ago, Simon Suraci said:

Agree. Bingo!

I’ve arranged reservations for my clients at high end restaurants because I know their taste, but also done the same to introduce them to some good modestly priced local eats that they never would have otherwise considered and they thanked me for bringing me there.

One of my overnight clients prefers no meals together, just a late night start time and an early morning departure. For him, I bring a few pastries and his favorite morning beverage: diet Dr Pepper. Not everyone’s cup of tea. Most would prefer coffee, but neither he nor I drink coffee. Personally I shudder at the thought of a diet soda beverage at any time, but especially first thing in the morning. But hey, he still wants caffeine, and this is what he likes. I know my clients well and I cater to them, however sophisticated or not-so-sophisticated their tastes and preferences may be.

There is no standard answer. A good escort adapts to his client’s preferences and places no judgment on him for selecting something modest or fancy. Clients pay us for our time. Time together over a meal (of any kind), is time well spent. Whether he tips or how much he tips has no bearing on what he is spending on dining. Our compensation is $, not food, beverages, gifts, or experiences. None of those pay our bills. $ does.

Clients - you don’t need to impress us. Nor be embarrassed about spending modestly on dining either. We are here for you, to be good company and give you an experience you won’t soon forget. 

I agree that the compensation is the fee agreed on between the client and provider. Other benefits are just that, icing on the cake.

When I do an overnight I generally pay for a nice dinner and a nice breakfast. The providers are often not in their hometown. So providing two out of the three meals required daily by most people means they are saving on expenses of dining out.

I hire tops and on an overnight they work up a good appetite, as I do. I like big guys with large appetites and they usually appreciate a good meal. If I spend about $150 to $200 on their share of the meals, it’s a benefit but the fee is still the fee they are looking forward to, which I understand. That’s what pays the rent or the car payments. 

[Luv2play]

On 4/15/2025 at 3:56 PM, Jamie21 said:

I’ve been taken to Annabel’s in Berkeley Square (private high end London club  for those not familiar) by a client, and to a chain coffee shop for a coffee and cake. It really doesn’t matter (although it did feel special at the club…the toilets are astonishing!) it’s the company that matters most. That said, I prefer an out call at a quality hotel rather than a lower end chain hotel. It just somehow feels a bit downbeat at those chain hotels. The walls are thin too. 

How long has Annabel’s been going? I have friends who named their daughter after that club and that was 50 years ago. 

[+ Jamie21]

4 hours ago, Luv2play said:

How long has Annabel’s been going? I have friends who named their daughter after that club and that was 50 years ago. 

Since the early 60’s I think. It’s not especially old (in London terms). 

[Gerhardjack]

On 4/20/2025 at 4:22 AM, Whippoorwill said:

I had a young fellow I used to see in Puerto Vallarta, and all he ever wanted to eat was pizza and coke. That's one of the clues I got that I should be going out with slightly older guys. 

yeah, your are right must most be adult now you have to look for a girl and have a great mature time with her. 

[arnie]

Just go with a place that you would have a nice meal in for yourself and a hotel room that you would normally book for yourself.  Since I found a good rate/place on dayuse.com, I have not hosted in a local bathhouse (I'm in Vegas) but the escorts I mentioned that to were cool with that. 

[RALLX]

This might not be the right thread to ask. If I book a hotel (mid-range) for a provider when visiting my city, say for a week long, is there such a thing as spending a night with him without payment?

[aiseeya]

1 hour ago, RALLX said:

This might not be the right thread to ask. If I book a hotel (mid-range) for a provider when visiting my city, say for a week long, is there such a thing as spending a night with him without payment?

I reckon this should be discussed upfront with said provider. I have had lunch/ dinner with my regulars without charge, all at their offer. But they are all my regular who I have built a good rapport with. 

As a client I would never ask provider's time for free (sexual or not). Paying for their accomodation is not equal to paying for their time. 

Rather than paying for his 1-week long accomodation, why not hire him for an overnight? Most if not all providers will prefer cash I reckon.

[DunwoodyGuy]

2 hours ago, RALLX said:

This might not be the right thread to ask. If I book a hotel (mid-range) for a provider when visiting my city, say for a week long, is there such a thing as spending a night with him without payment?

I understand the impulse--I often develop a kind of crush on a provider while setting up an appointment and think "We're clicking so well, maybe he'd like to have dinner/go to a show/spend the night with me without charging me extra!"

Don't go there.

Unless the provider explicitly suggests that himself, always remember this is his job, and he owes you no more than what you agreed for the time involved. If you want to have a meal with him or spend the night, you should arrange that in advance, for an appropriate fee.

The idea that you'll "vibe" so well that he'll want to be your friend or fuckbuddy is tempting--a lot of us like to feel that kind of connection and affinity with the providers we choose--but always remember it's just a fantasy. 

[nomad]

3 hours ago, RALLX said:

This might not be the right thread to ask. If I book a hotel (mid-range) for a provider when visiting my city, say for a week long, is there such a thing as spending a night with him without payment?

You should discuss that with him upfront.  Don't assume. It never ends well.  Bridges will be burned. If it's someone you know well, they might suggest it.  But it is up to their discretion.  If they don't invite you, don't assume anything.  

[nomad]

It doesn't mean it doesn't happen. It has with a few guys for me that I've gotten to know really well.  But it always been at their suggestion. 

[mtaabq]

On 4/26/2025 at 8:30 PM, arnie said:

I have not hosted in a local bathhouse

I don't mean to veer off-topic, but I once had 2 providers (they hired out as a couple) suggest that we have our scene at a bathhouse (this would be in Phoenix) and it was one of the best experiences I've ever had. 

[mtaabq]

Getting back on topic, I have to agree with others that it rather depends upon how my provider is clothed and what we negotiated and/or agreed to in our scene. I had a couple of providers in Las Vegas ask me to take them out to eat after our session; when I asked both how much more in fees they would charge me they both said, "I'm only asking you to provide me with dinner." One guy wanted In & Out Burger; I happily paid for that and got him a gift card as well. The other guy wanted Pho Kim Long over on Spring Mountain; we had a nice dinner (we were the only non-Asian customers in there at the time) and I got him another dinner to take away. Every scenario is different. 

[nomad]

I usually ask what type of food they enjoy or where they enjoy going to eat.  It saves a ton of time.  Better to go with them to somewhere they feel comfortable and it not be awkward.  Ranges from Panda Express to a 3 star Michelin restaurant.  The latter I picked up the tab for a comp'd 3sm with a duo that wanted to that food experience.  I'm all for fair trade.  👏

[b2bf]

I’ve often fantasized about this scenario but never found myself able to pull off the “boyfriend experience” with a provider. I’ll confess to being a bit of a foodie. My husband and I probably ate at 30 or 40 2/3-star restaurants in France in the 80s and 90s. Now, I hate to eat alone in a restaurant. Yet this September I’ll probably go back to Baumanière for his birthday and eat alone. I just can’t really imagine faking it with a provider. 

[SecretProvider]

I have been taken to 3 Michelin star restaurants and I have been taken to Applebbes. 

If you have the ability to go somewhere nice, the provider will for sure appreciate it.  

Is it required? No. 

[Nue2thegame]

5 hours ago, RALLX said:

This might not be the right thread to ask. If I book a hotel (mid-range) for a provider when visiting my city, say for a week long, is there such a thing as spending a night with him without payment?

If you book the room for a week, you will be responsible for any problems that subsequently arise with the room. While you may know the provider, you’re unlikely to know who his visitors will be. I can’t imagine a good reason to do this.