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I’ve often fantasized about this scenario but never found myself able to pull off the “boyfriend experience” with a provider. I’ll confess to being a bit of a foodie. My husband and I probably ate at 30 or 40 2/3-star restaurants in France in the 80s and 90s. Now, I hate to eat alone in a restaurant. Yet this September I’ll probably go back to Baumanière for his birthday and eat alone. I just can’t really imagine faking it with a provider.

Not necessarily a big deal if you're over 45. You're most likely dead (80%).

I definitely get that. I've found that difficult to find in Toronto.

That tends to be a little variable. He didn't when I met with him but that was some time ago.

Speaking of which, I notice a significant number of $400 dollars cropping up. A bit on the upper edge for Toronto. I suspect a little capitalism at play ...

I'd recommend https://rent.men/DiegoLucca_XL but he appears to have decamped to Montreal - hopefully temporary. Check when you are here, you never know (World cup and all).

One of the sweetest guys you are ever likely to meet ... and incredibly handsome. However, safe only.

I think the "Not for me." is conditioning through unfamiliarity. We all suffer from it to some degree but it can change. I grew up in an entirely white society. No Asians that I can recall, no people of colour (I don't think the "Black and White Minstrel Show" counts). Times change. Environments change. If we let ourselves, we change. The two most beautiful men I've ever seen and had sex with are Roxas Caelum and Caio Veyron. I'll admit to still having prejudices as far as Asian men (theres a kink there) although I regularly have sex with one. I'm sure my tastes will continue to change. PS I do notice that on another topic on the forum ("The Best looking ..") the examples are overwhelmingly white.

From an escort (locally fairly famous) podcast in Brazil: ... But there is no love, okay? Let me make it clear to you if you think you are going to "date" a sex worker, a content creator, or a male escort. Don't fool yourself because I will say it once: once a hustler, always a hustler; once a whore, always a whore. A whore doesn't like men. A whore likes money. Male escorts don't like men, they like money because sex becomes a profession.

That, of course, is the big issue. I've paid the going rate and more than the going rate for a few fairly elite porn stars and been disappointed. Just going through the motions.

Thanks. I did a search on Lucca but obviously the search doesn't work that way.

Anyone know anything about this guy? https://rent.men/DiegoLucca_XL

Sarcasm aside, after decades of conditioning, I'm fine with visual representations of heterosexuals having sex. It basically just washes over me. I can even enjoy heterosexual romance in movies. But in writing ... that for me is a total turn off. I just find it impossible to read.

Elle Kennedy has been an industry in romance fiction (both MM an MF) for over 10 years (with Sarina Bowen). I actually didn't mind the HIM series. I don't think it's at Rachel's level (neither of them can be accused of writing great literature - and Rachel would be the first to admit it) but it was a fun read.

While I agree the the current review system is silly, it is what it is and the fact is that any overall rating other than 5.0 is seen as deficient. This morning I was confronted with this 4-star review: "xxxx was absolutely amazing. He pleased me more than I thought possible. A beautiful man with the tools to really satisfy." which brought the providers accumulated rating down from a 5.0 to a 4.8 and left me none the wiser as to why. Unless you can clearly articulate the non-trivial reason for not giving the provider 5.0 I suggest that you just don't bother.