Women at gay men's strip clubs

[+ sync]

16 hours ago, azdr0710 said:

 

for those wondering........

 

Woman found dead in her cubicle 4 days after last clocking in - ABC News

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Police in Tempe, Arizona are investigating after a Wells Fargo employee was found dead in her cubicle four days after she last scanned into the building.

 

Holy moly, talk about a dead-end job.   😦

[pubic_assistance]

19 hours ago, Buff Daddy said:

Four Days?.  Im I reading that right?. 

You'd think the smell alone might catch someone's notice by the second day.....

[+ sniper]

Really depends on the layout. There are spots in my company's office where I could see something like this happening especially with many people wfh most of the time.

[+ azdr0710]

the article says she was in a little-visited part of the office and I presume the cubicle walls were somewhat high.......the smell did alert the other officer workers, but that must've been after the weekend

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

On 8/14/2024 at 8:42 AM, viewing ownly said:

Not until around 10-ish years ago have there been the "invading" of the fun of the crowd-goers for strippers who are intentionally geared for an audience of a specific sex. While "men are welcome" to strip shows like "The Men of Playgirl", "Thunder from Down Under", etc., the intended target of the entertainment is just for women. 

Now, I'm seeing the reverse with women essentially just by being in the crowd, turning gay men away from wanting to go to places like Stock Bar to see men dancing for what used to be only men. 

In the past, there were ZERO men at Chippendale's shows, and ZERO women at Bodybuilder Jams. The crowd had a great time, and each sex didn't think twice about "wanting to be there, too - that's not fair!" Now, I can't even go to a male thong swimwear event that's been going on for many, many years since all of a sudden there's women crying foul that it's sexist and unacceptable, blah blah. 

Nowadays, you'll see babies in strollers in bars, and non guide dogs inhaling casino smoke next to their evil owners. Now I'm the one crying about what I find unacceptable in public these days!

Preach! 🙌 

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

On 9/3/2024 at 12:02 PM, pubic_assistance said:

You'd think the smell alone might catch someone's notice by the second day.....

The notorious smell of women is one of the many things I'm glad I've not had to experience as a Platinum Star Gay 

[+ José Soplanucas]

1 hour ago, Vegas_Millennial said:

The notorious smell of women is one of the many things I'm glad I've not had to experience as a Platinum Star Gay 

Is that a joke or an unexpected attack of sincerity? Are you ok?

[+ Lucky]

I am late to the thread, but feel strongly that women should not be allowed into gay sex events. At the Gaiety back in the day, women started coming. The dancers ignored the gay guys until they realized that these women expected sex for free. Their screeching bothered everybody.

Some cities have trains (Rio, for example) of which only women can ride. It recognizes the fact that some men are pigs and will cop a feel or more when they think they can get away with it. Men should have their own spaces to be pigs, such as strip bars! Gay bar, gay clientele.

[gn233]

Campus in MTL has a womens bathroom upstairs, however none of the women want to go up there. So they made the only tiny bathroom on the main floor for both sexes. Women were just going in there anyways, but now they have actually updated the signage to both sexes. 

There is only one stall and 3 urinals. So there is always a line of 3-4 women watching you take a leak at the urinals. It's a really weird vibe.

Also I don't get why Campus and Stock both still have ladies night, when now every night is actually ladies night. What they need is a men only night. 

[Buff Daddy]

Yes a Mens only night!. That's what we do at Buffdaddys  twice a month in NYC.  I get quite a number of ladies now looking to come. And the younger gay generation always asking if there female friends can come. No no I tell them. BUFFDADDYS has a all Male staff as well.  Can we please have a  Damm night for ourselves!. 

 

[Venbon1s]

I remember the first time I visited a gay strip club in Hongdae, and I was really struck by how different the vibe was compared to what I was used to. It was all about the energy of the men for the men, and I thought that was pretty unique. Now, I’ve heard some places are struggling with this “everyone’s welcome” mentality, and I can’t help but feel like it changes the experience.

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

On 8/15/2024 at 4:35 PM, pubic_assistance said:

So you guys think all women are the same as your mom ? She's going to shame you for letting loose with some sexy men ? 🤔

 

My birth mother was/is a slut. I don't want to see her in a men's locker room while I'm trying to blow the coach, lest she intervenes and takes the coach away for herself

Edited January 27 by Vegas_Millennial

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

Good news!

At Johnson's Ft Lauderdale last week, cover charge on Friday and Saturday nights after 8pm was $10 for men and $20 for women and other.

Compared to my previous annual visits, the crowd, the quality of dancers, and level of fun onstage and in the VIP area was a big improvement over previous years where cover charges were the same for both sexes.  The floor was still packed with customers, but this year the split was about 99/1 men/women, compared to about 90/10 men/women in years past.  One dancer told me the crowd tips more now. 

 

[Venbon1s]

On 1/27/2025 at 4:11 PM, Venbon1s said:

I remember the first time I visited a gay strip club in Hongdae, and I was really struck by how different the vibe was compared to what I was used to. It was all about the energy of the men for the men, and I thought that was pretty unique. Now, I’ve heard some places are struggling with this “everyone’s welcome” mentality, and I can’t help but feel like it changes the experience.

I think there’s something special about spaces that are specifically for one crowd—like how 신촌셔츠 in the shirt room has this unspoken rule about who the energy is meant for. It’s not about exclusion, just about preserving a certain dynamic. Does anyone else feel like some of these changes are making things feel less authentic?

[jeezifonly]

As a log time fan of strippers and the men who tip them, I love the idea of gay sex imagery (including extreme porn being everywhere) inside a male strip club aimed at a gay male audience.
Plus…
1. Hard rule: No groups larger than 3 persons. (Men rarely travel in packs)

2. No extra fee for entry, but a charge to use the one restroom that gets cleaned. 

3. Male customers are not to touch the female patrons, but are free to point, laugh, and make fun of their clothes and hair and get a free drink for apt comparisons to Dorothy Zbornak or Laura Ingraham. 

Make them feel out of place, old and so skeeved out that they want to leave. They can’t sue for not having fun. (It’s no different than being a sissy in phys ed class…)

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

Last night at Buff Daddy's Red Eye in NYC there was one woman in the crowd.  I was in the back room getting a dance, and the DANCER said to me "Ugh, I can hear the screeching of that woman all the way back here".  So apparently it's not just us customers that find woman annoying in a gay man's strip club.

[+ José Soplanucas]

1 hour ago, Vegas_Millennial said:

Last night at Buff Daddy's Red Eye in NYC there was one woman in the crowd.  I was in the back room getting a dance, and the DANCER said to me "Ugh, I can hear the screeching of that woman all the way back here".  So apparently it's not just us customers that find woman annoying in a gay man's strip club.

Would you welcome those women if they quietly monopolize your dancers' attention?

[Poppie]

15 hours ago, José Soplanucas said:

Would you welcome those women if they quietly monopolize your dancers' attention?

How do we view your new blog, everything in English?

[+ José Soplanucas]

52 minutes ago, Poppie said:

How do we view your new blog, everything in English?

The links are below with my signature (gracias moderators). The old blog is no longer accessible, I am transferring some of that content to Substack and slowly starting to create new posts. It is not fully in English. Depending on the topics, some posts will be only in SPA, some only in ENG, and some will be in both languages. Thank you for reading it.

[+ purplekow]

It seems to me that many men go to a gay strip club to get entertained, enjoy the view, and get horny.  

Many women go to a gay strip bar on a lark to get drunk and get rowdy.  

That is not a great combination.  

As the majority of customers are men, it would seem prudent to have a gay men's area and a separate anyone goes area.  Those gays who wish to go stag have a place that is woman free and those who wish to go drag, may stay with their friends in the mixed area.  

I do not condone being rude to women at a gay strip club or anywhere else for that matter,  but I do not think management should condone women or men being rude to the majority of the clientele by boorish and inappropriate behavior.   I have not been to many gay strip clubs, but in my limited experience, the only whooping was done my clearly drunk women.

[Phlmuscle]

When there are several woman in the crowd I leave.. Can't stand their screaming voices. Same at bodybuilding shows..