DrownedBoy

I did, and would not repeat. His body is excellent, and he got me off (hence my 5 star rating), but his personality and professionalism warrant negative 5 stars.

The first time I contacted him, he forgot the appointment; the second time I had to remind him of the appointment. More proof not to give second chances to careless escorts.

His English is almost nonexistent, unless it's memorized phrases that he doesn't seem to know the meaning of. Overall, I found him to be an arrogant and rude brat.

I'll leave it at that here. I limit details to PMs.

6 hours ago, marylander1940 said:

Exactly!

Waiting 10 minutes for an Uber in the middle of the street could be annoying but waiting at home watching TV, chilling, reading emails, is not that bad....

Oh I've had young providers say they're ready for an Uber. Then once it arrives they say they still need 10 minutes. 

The last time someone did thay, I told him if he didn't catch the Uber, the session was cancelled. He got in, then he gave me a shitty attitude because he had a massive ego.

I need more filters on who I hire.

If you're willing to wait 15 minutes, you can always take or administer a swab HIV test at a session.

However, if you're newly infected, you might not test positive for several weeks. That won't help either. Just be safe.

5 hours ago, Vegas_Millennial said:

  There are multiple reasons from discrimination to potential future lawsuits. 

There are still 13 states that require people to reveal their STD status before sex.

Even if it was a federal law, though, I wouldn't trust it.

If by "client attitude " you mean hiring consistency,  then yes, that's the major way to make "discounts." Regulars I have a good relationship with locked me in at pre pandemic prices. I make it up through continual hiring and gifts.

I'm wondering if anyone has found something like this.

I tried candy.io, but it seems very limiting.

Obviously,  ChatGPT has blocked my requests.

I'm significantly younger and skinnier than most clients (or at least the clients who hire my regulars).

Nobody has ever offered me a discount for that reason alone.

My RM premium account already has my stats on it, as well as what I'm into, etc.

You'd be surprised how few new providers bother reading a client's profile.

On 3/2/2024 at 2:09 PM, south_king said:

Imagine being grossed-out by a natural penis that hasn’t been mutilated… some of you are so weird.

Well here's one guy who's definitely not Jewish.

8 hours ago, SirBillybob said:

My sense is that an earring was at first incongruous with stereotypical masculinity

Man, when I was a kid, they made such a big deal about that in my neighborhood.  There was only one socially acceptable way to wear an earring. I remember hearing this often enough:

"You got got the wrong ear pierced! It looks like you got mugged by a bunch of f@ggots!"

4 hours ago, DWnyc said:

As an aside - when I’ve seen pics of spouses of providers … they’ve often been surprisingly “normal” . Including obese.

Many providers chose partners/spouses based on financial reasons, so that doesn't surprise me much.

Then there's providers who end up with other providers. I don't have data on how long those relationships last after their escorting careers are over, but they definitely look good together.

There's no substitute for taking escorts out for a test spin, and if you make this your hobby, expect to waste some money and time doing that. Unfortunate reality of the marketplace.

Like @APPLE1 said, I've seen escorts that I couldn't wait to try out, only to find out their personalities didn't match their looks.

On the other hand, when I started hiring, there was this really hot, muscular guy I waited a year or 2 before hiring, because I was intimidated by him. I first hired him 7 years ago; he's my longest-term regular.

The biggest problem I have is finding providers who I'd want as a new regular. 

Younger escorts don't seem to realize how valuable regulars are, and I've had potential regulars blow me off, even after several meetings. Idiots.

As long as the nail polish goes with the rest of the guy. Red nails on an otherwise masculine- dressed guy would be incongruous. 

However, a goth guy with black nail polish (and, even better, long black hair) would look excellent in it.

Accessories are the key

1 hour ago, Rod Hagen said:

 lots of cheap Asian and Latin 

Oh...you meant the food....

Some people (ahem) like to roleplay that.

You can rent your own dungeon in Logan Square, Chicago.  And they do have a sling!

11 hours ago, BaronArtz said:

I had an escort tell me he dislikes working with younger, attractive clients.  They expect more and therefore are more work for him.  In his opinion, older clients are easier, expect less and tip better.

There are two (or more) sides to everything,

Benjamin Franklin, Advice to a Young Man on the Choice of a Mistress (1745)

On 3/5/2024 at 7:38 AM, soloyo215 said:

I graduated from NYU last year at... not 22 anymore.

And that's practically the only age at which you might sleep with a provider for free. But I'm talking pre-apps here.

It takes practice, to figure out the right words, timing, and tone to take when contacting people.  Keep working at it and you'll get there.

Several times, I had new providers tell me that the moment they read my initial text, they knew I was both serious and a good client.

To write those texts: Always politely ask if they're taking customers, make sure you read their ad in full, give them a name to call you by, use full sentences (with correct grammar and spelling), and call them by their assumed name.

5 hours ago, Monarchy79 said:

Just for fun, 

look up the details of the following murderers who have been escorts:

1.) Joshua Hunter

2.) Jason Marshall

There are many more. 
guess what none of them were? Latino.

Statistically , the likelihood of you getting chopped up and tortured to death is highest with a nice “wholesome” looking white boy who satisfies all of those Cody Fisher twink fantasies so many people seem to have. And further, let’s not get into general hookups. it’s not the Latin “migrant” or the black “hood” guy that’s going to kill ya… it’s that white, bearded leather daddy that’s going to dismember you and eat your parts for Thanksgiving dinner…. 
 

The false image of the white male “nice guy” has lead to many naive people ending up dead…. Jeffrey Dahmer, Mark Latunski and Ed Buck can confirm that. 

 

Don't forget Andrew Cunanan, that really well-educated prep school boy.

Whenever I hear people talk about the power of Chicago street gangs like Kings and Disciples, I realize they haven't paid attention to Chicago since 2000. Those days are over.

23 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

You don't seem to understand how a liquor license works.

"Cops" would have nothing to do with it.

Ah. The same as Chicago.  Gotcha.

6 hours ago, myophile said:

Frankly, the odometer mileage is, for me, one of his more attractive features. His life experience and range of interests contribute to his appeal — I feel like I’m with a man, not a boy.

Yeah, and some of us literally went from boy to man during his 15 year career 😜

3 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

I wonder who's getting paid to look the other way ?

Sexual activity in the open at a bar can cause them to lose their liquor license.

I figured cops in NYC wouldn't dare enforce that laws on large amount of gays. I'd imagine you'd get accused if homophobia if you tried enforcing the same law that triggered Stonewall.

He's changed in the near-decade since I met him.