DrownedBoy

Ask them in person.

If they forgot what you asked the next time you meet, then don't even try to get closer. That's him staying away.

1 hour ago, jmichaeliii said:

It's like a box of chocolates, you can't just sample one!

Unfortunately, guys are more expensive than chocolate.  You can really screw up your finances if you can't control yourself. 

On 5/12/2024 at 1:32 PM, NJF said:

I knew several providers who claimed as bi but never had intimacy with a girl 😂 

Now that's the type of bi I was thinking of 😄

For outcalls, I think the bottled water/mouthwash/clean towels/sheets are sufficient, at least for me.

However, I'm one of those clean freaks who won't have anyone over to their home unless the place at least looks tidy.

3 hours ago, KensingtonHomo said:

One of my current favorite providers is bi. We've had no issues with him being passionate or kissing. I do think you run a bigger risk with bi guys having more limits than a gay guy, but I also agree with others that perhaps you've been unlucky. 

Ditto.

Also - a question for providers - is it common to list yourself as bi even if you're almost completely gay? I've met a lot of people (both in the real world and RM) who seem to do that. I'm guessing it signals more masculinity,

I guess some clients would prefer to keep their providers private and cheap, instead of letting other people realize how good they are. They might decide to raise their rates then.

You're not dating the guy; you're paying him. The Deli would be a good place to talk about him.

10 hours ago, CuriousByNature said:

Flight of the Bumblebee?

Bumble Boogie - the modern version of that song.

5 hours ago, poolboy48220 said:

One more - I was in Charlotte in 2010 & set up an appointment with Devon Hunter, I got a room with a jacuzzi.  Unfortunately I filled the jacuzzi with way too hot water - he couldn't take more than a few minutes in it. 

I did the same with 2 different providers.

Both had to get out after a few minutes....and so did I!

10 hours ago, BonVivant said:

The really exciting days will be when we can have our own custom robots with interchangeable parts!!  Lifelike. And you can change their appearance to suit your mood. 👏👏👏

The perfect escort. Customizable, always available,  and obedient. 

18 hours ago, coriolis888 said:

You must look strong.  Most escorts would start a fight if many of us tried something like that.

An escort would have to be high to try to start a fight with a client,  because they'll lose either way.

EDIT Those who read my past posts know that the only escort who ever assaulted me was on roids.

Although a decent BFE is described above, it's so overused by escorts that there's no guarantee what will happen. Especially with the younger escorts who think they're too sexy for most people. 

Has anyone ever tried to pay, or been paid with, Travelers' Checks? Those are as good as cash too.

Nuts, if this guy was really that height and weight, he'd have a BMI indicating starvation.

Yeah, but I've encountered providers who don't honor that label.

One time, I had to finish a work project, and didn't complete it until like 3 a.m. on a Saturday morning, so I found a young guy marked "Available Now" on RM and texted him. He got huffy with me, claiming I woke him up, and saying he'd only do an overnight with a deposit of several hundred. I blocked him, and haven't tried to hire someone that late again (unless I could schedule it in advance).

1 hour ago, KeepItReal said:

For most service providers of this type, the payer can file a dispute and request a refund, but they will investigate large amounts, request documentation like a sworn statement and if it happens with frequency they may close your account. 

I'm pretty sure Venmo would close your account if they have reasonable evidence that you're using the money illegally, which technically hiring is.

When I'm not seeing anyone, I try to hire twice a month. I actually have a line item in my budget for that.

The past few months, I've been hiring less, simply because I'm spending a lot of time with another guy. Open relationship. I've been meaning to ask if he wants to hire a really muscular guy to join us.

However, on vacations, I can hire a couple a week, as I did about a month ago. I'm still working and spend a lot of time oncall, so finding time to hire can be difficult at times.

22 hours ago, marylander1940 said:

and you tend to fire them if they're late, something that unfortunately happens way too often. 

That's why I have a regular who works 24/7 and arrives within an hour. If somebody is late, they're easily replaced. A lesson in economics 😁

EDIT I actually have 2 or 3 regulars who are available and quick enough to take someone's shift. They get the money that the lazy escorts throw away.

After reading @Simon Suraci I should add that I purposefully avoid seeing any one escort too often, since I like variety. Then again, I don't exactly hire for a BFE.

9 hours ago, Vegas_Millennial said:

thankfully we have enough former and current sex workers in the legislature to keep some of the legal brothers open. 

It's nice to see hard working people in government. 

Lawyers on the other hand....

16 hours ago, NewDaddy said:

Met up with him earlier tonight. One of the best experiences I have had using RM. He’s funny, charming, and in my opinion is better looking in person. He’s also not a time Nazi which is refreshing. Overall a great choice and I highly recommend. I will be seeing him again for sure. 

Did his Aladdin stint come up?

I heard of an client who told the escort, that if he had a heart attack or something, he should just leave.

The escort had no plans to run off, and planned to call 911 and perform first aid as needed.

Some people's idea of privacy or propriety goes way overboard.

3 hours ago, Archangel said:

Maime Eisenhower! 🤣

Who’s thought of her in a hot minute?! 

"Think cold....ice...snow....Eleanor Roosevelt..."

- John Larroquette, as Dan Fielding, Night Court

3 hours ago, NJF said:

Take the cue and move on 😂 

Let's see if I  can remember this one chat dialogue:

Me: Hi <escort name>, I saw your ad on RentMen. Call me <my name>. Are you available this evening for a 1 or 2 hour outcall?

Escort: Hi

Me: Are you working tonight?

Escort: Hey

Me: Never mind....

A regular is someone who knows me personally, who I know personally, knows exactly what I'm into, and someone with whom I have mutual respect.

It's someone that I can text, ask if they're available at x o'clock, and schedule with no fuss.

I'd say I hire a regular at least 4 times a year, while others I hire 10+ times a year. When you have several regulars, you can't see them every month, especially when they travel.

Scammers are not known for their high intelligence.

At least not the ones who get caught.