DrownedBoy

Good hire. That's all.

Yeah, I noticed that too. He disappeared from RM right after our first session, so I just emailed him saying I'd like to start up again, now that he's back.

No response yet, though. Like I said, he's very hard to get a hold of.

It is not a common practice. I have been hiring now for about 30 years, in three different countries. I have never been asked for a deposit. If I were asked for a deposit, I would move to another provider.

Same here. Although I've been hiring for only 4-5 years (usually twice a month), I only met 2 escorts who wanted a deposit.

With the first, we had already agreed to the session and the hourly fee. However, several hours later (shortly before the session was scheduled for), he asked for the deposit. That set off red lights. So did the fact he has only one review. Also, he's been coming and going on RM. I cancelled the session immediately.

This escort posted on M4M forums 3 years ago, usually asking how he could get more customers. This might be what's holding him back...

The second escort was new to the field, and had no reviews. I just turned him down - he didn't have enough reviews for me to take seriously.

In context, if someone is high profile and has a lot of reviews, I wouldn't mind a deposit. And when scheduling a longer session (like overnight), a deposit would be appropriate.

I’ve encountered a few escorts who had specific stipulations about what they would or would not do because they had deals with their boyfriends/girlfriends/husband/wives about their escorting work.

I met with him, and although I'm not going into details on his private life, this theory is a decent approximation.

Talk about dodging a bullet. I was just about to schedule that guy. Then I read this thread.

The most attractive pic, to me, is the first one, with it's bulging muscles. But it appears to be a fake, although I couldn't find anything with Google image search.

He has 31 reviews, but about 5 of them were negative.

I know him personally, super nice and caring person, smiles a lot. His muscle looks way better in real, very big. Also dick size is real, a true 9.5 inch, and stay rock hard during the whole session. I would recommend him without hesitation.

I agree; I met with him too. I was also real surprised at the African accent he spoke with.

https://rent.men/Medallophysique/#platinum

Has anyone ever met or been with this guy? I didn't find this name on the forums. He's Columbian and a bodybuilder (which I'm into).

One weird little item. He lists himself as "bisexual," but also says this in the ad:

***Sorry I do not see women or trans

Now, the second part doesn't bother me, but it seems weird that a bi guy would be unwilling to escort a women.

I still don’t really understand what it is about a recession that is bad to the regular general public, besides job layoffs.

Dean Taylor wouldn't travel 10 miles, even when I offered to send an Uber, so I dropped him from my list. If he has bad hygiene, it was no loss.

There is certainly going to be a recession within 2 years (probably sooner). And that's just according to the financial firm I work at. When I worry about my job, I build up my savings. And unfortunately, the money I budget for RM is a luxury, not a necessity.

I know for a fact that I won't be hiring anyone who needs more than 300 in donations in a recession, and that includes Uber transportation.

During a recession, I get fewer (if any) bonuses or raises. I see no reason why escorts should be immune to supply and demand. It's already competitive enough.

Does anyone remember anything from the previous recession (2008)? Did clients cut back hiring, or did escorts drop their rates?

Spoke to him. His rates are 300 in, 350+Uber out. If his muscles bulge as much as they do in his 32nd photo, he's probably worth it.

Some of the pics are on Iceman in Dublin's RM ad

 

https://rent.men/Theiceman

Yes they are, although Wows does have 4 positive reviews.

Recent name change. I remember a discussion on the remark in the "About me" area stating: "I’m gay but not fem " I've placed several searches on the forum since yesterday, but can't seem to find the previous discussion.

Found the discussion. His previous name was Robert Walls.

https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/411-on-robert-walls-visiting-dc-im-gay-but-not-fem.150978/

https://rent.men/RobertWows

Has anyone met him?

Drownedboy, love your avatar. If that's you, I might ask, do you do more than massage?!!!!!!

Sorry, this is the kind of guy I'm after...

Hey, I had a question in regards to using RentMasseur.

Suppose there's a guy there you want as an escort for, say, BFE or fetishes, not as a masseuse. What's the best way to relay that to a RentMasseur?

I noticed they post low rates, since it's technically a massage site, but I'd be willing to pay more if they go beyond a massage.

I believe he's gotten mixed reviews before:

 

https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/411-on-exoticflavor.131181/

I should probably clarify the mixed reviews from this thread, since I was on it.

I think highly of ExoticFlavor, and he has been one of my regulars for 2-and-a-half years. The dates he uploaded his RM pics are accurate as to the date he uploaded them, so his first 9 photos would be within 2 years. His muscles and physique are excellent IMO.

However, he has his downsides. One is that he dislikes getting into text conversations with people who haven't hired him yet. I believe that's pretty common among escorts due to flakey texters. If he thinks someone is wasting his time, he will stop them.

The second is that he can come across as "rude." As his RM photos indicate, he's not the type of person who smiles much. He's the same in person, very straightforward. If you wanted to hire someone who would provide an emotional experience, I wouldn't go with him (unless, perhaps, you ask him beforehand).

Now, I personally like escorts who have a professional, non-emotional disposition. This is probably because I keep my dating life and my escort life separate - I only hire escorts to satisfy my fetishes. But that's just me; I can't speak for anyone else.

Well @Mocha - this isn’t “pay to play”....it sounds like “pay to plan to play.” I wish you luck. But, in a competitive market place, under the guiding principles of economics, the market usually sets the expectation. I don’t think you’re going to find success or happiness in this approach unless your goal is a low volume, low income, highly structured day. But good luck. It will be an interesting experiment.

Agreed. As a client, I'm not a serial texter; I like to get to the point. Just today, an escort I hadn't met before demanded a deposit to prove I'm "safe." I've never been asked for a deposit before.

So, I just dropped him from my list. There are enough RM in Chicago, including my regulars, for me to find someone else. Supply and demand.

PT-141 works a little strange on me. It does give a long erection.

However, in my mind, I wasn't aroused at all. It was like morning wood.

Only challenge I have is asking providers if they accept Venmo which is my preferred way. It's not usually in RM profiles so I have to ask each time along with all the other questions. Usually this is a deal breaker for me. I do have partial cash which I think its helpful and does not put the whole amount on the alternative payment. I have heard from providers that payments system sometime block or suspend them be because of the frequency or amount of these transactions.

Ron, from your experience, how many escorts accept an alternate payment?

Can you use SA to just find escorts? There's a lot of local boys who I'd like to hire on a regular basis, but I don't have any desire to get into a relationship or anything.

Prolonged erections can be fun until they are not. Priapism, painful prolonged erections can lead to loss of sexual ability. Proceed at your own risk.

The FDA looks like they're about to approve it....

....for women.

Yes, you are aroused. But its a be careful what you wish for sort of thing. I soon discovered that non-stop sexual arousal is pretty exhausting. To illustrate what I mean, I point out that I have had an unused vial of the stuff for a couple of years.

 

If it were the stuff of paradise, don't you think I would have used it in two years?

I don't believe it retains its potency after 2 years, even if kept in crystalline form and frozen.

And I've learned that the time that it takes to "kick in" varies widely (for me, from 4 to 8 hours). That makes it very difficult to use, unless you want to risk popping one in public. If you concentrate/meditate, you can calm down, but that's tiring in itself.

I'd like to know too. I keep thinking someone gave negative feedback in this forum, but he has a new username so I can't find that old thread.

Has anyone else here used PT-141 (bremelanotide)?

You have to order it from overseas (apparently, it's legal in Europe, but not the U.S) and inject it subcutaneously.

I tried it, and while neither Viagra or Cialis gets me "horny" by itself, PT-141 does. It takes 4 hours to kick in, but when it dead, I was had a constant, hard erection for several hours (at least four). Even if you orgasm, it only takes about 10 minutes for the hard-on to return.