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Last night at Buff Daddy's Red Eye in NYC there was one woman in the crowd. I was in the back room getting a dance, and the DANCER said to me "Ugh, I can hear the screeching of that woman all the way back here". So apparently it's not just us customers that find woman annoying in a gay man's strip club.

I wasn't looking for masseurs. Craigslist was where I found escorts, though most of them weren't professionals. Rather they were young guys who escorted occasionally to supplement their day job earnings or student stipends. Nothing against the people I hire from rent.men these days, but I liked those young guys' innocence, if you can apply that word to a sex worker. Seeking may be the closest thing these days to the old Craigslist m4m, though Seeking is filled with young men with ridiculous expectations that I never ran into on Craigslist.

I got my start there in 2007!!

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Please don’t get sidetracked about tattoos! Any info or feedback about Mixedleo?

Well, first of all, there's a significant difference between masseuse and masseur.........

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There was far more variety on craigslist than we have now on RM. CL ads were anonymous, free, easy to create, and easy to delete. A guy looking for extra cash could post an ad, meet up with a customer, and delete his ad the same day without looking back. It was just an odd job, like mowing lawns. That must still be going on, but I don't know where they advertise.

When I see "straight", it's a no go. Not throwing shade, just my personal caution.

You hired a masseur and was disappointed that he brought his table? If you wanted a BFE why didn't you hire an escort?

Does a masseuse need a strap-on to escort?

Too many people trying to get pictures for pleasure and not for business reasons. Just my guess.

My guess is that RM is indeed full of “clients” who wish to jack off to provider’s pictures without actually paying to meet- as well as actual scammers who make client profiles. A provider who declined my request at first told me exactly that. A premium account is a possible sign that you aren’t a time waster/ you’re possibly actually interested in meeting them.

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It depends on the site. Rent.men locked all the fun pictures whereas you can still see them on rentmen.eu

I saw The Wizard of Oz at the Sphere and absolutely loved it. It was a truly immersive, one-of-a-kind experience. The color. The sound. The crispness. A lot has been said about the number of cuts made to the film, and while that’s true, I didn’t think it affected the story at all. In fact, there were plenty of nice surprises (without giving anything away). The tornado sequence, especially, is jaw-dropping. This feels like the start of a new wave of cinematic storytelling. I can imagine so many modern films that have already pioneered themselves in the special effects space (Avatar, The Matrix, etc.) working brilliantly in this format.

Ugh. Again with the "privilege" b.s. You people are insufferable with your whining about inequality. Its a fucking RESTAURANT that sells NOSTALGIA. LGBTQXYZ is NOT part of anyone's fond memories in backwater Tennessee . Give it a break. Theres NO reason a redneck family can't sit down to a meal of fried chicken and tater-tots without someone lecturing them on Lesbian transgender equality. THEY DON'T CARE. They also don't have any plans to steal your human rights unless you keep trying to indoctrinate their children.

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And another edgy logo that the Cracker Barrel BOD may consider..... But ONLY if/when they open up new franchises in: WeHo, Boys Town. the Tenderloin Dsitrict, Chelsea, and Wilton Manors: BTC 🤡

Cooking! This was an all-day smoked pork shoulder 😁

He sounds like a celebrity who protects his brand on his terms. He did nothing wrong. so WHY would he "apologize" ?

+1 Likewise "PNP."

I would like you to stop with the fear-mongering. Its unproductive and distracting from the real world. But you ARE certainly free to post your opinions as long as you accept other here disagreeing with them. When you start with ridiculous political rants we can NOT officially respond without breaking the rules. So keep them to yourself and I will keep mine private too. MY personal opinion about your recent rant about Cracker Barrel was that you feel NO obligation to consider mainstream Middle America customers in your viewpoint. You seem to think that by them enjoying a bit of nostalgia for simpler times when NONE of this stuff was shoved down their throats, that we are all immediately homophobic. I am personally happy to enjoy my mashed potatoes without a drag show. I dont NEED a restaurant to tell me "I am loved" in spite of my sexuality I need them to make sure my cutlery is clean, my steak is medium-rare and my wait-person is friendly. Leave the rest of this nonsense for your next gay pride parade. The righteous indignation over a restaurant choosing to NOT have a rainbow flag section on their website is tiresome and your anger misplaced.

This was my first Buff Daddy event. I enjoyed it. I've been to a dozen strip clubs, but never before have the dancers been completely nude all the time including while walking the room. What a great evening At the Sunday Buff Daddy event at Red Eye, there was a bar. Drinks were typical Manhattan prices.

I was in line at the TKTS booth in Lincoln Center for last minute theater tickets on Saturday. The guy ahead of me requested 2 tickets to Cabaret. The box office attendant said "So you know, Billy Porter isn't performing tonight". The man replied, "I know that. I would not be purchasing tickets for tonight if he was".

I would say definitely ask! My body hair situation for sure varies. And sometimes if the current situation isn't your preference, you just have to wait a week. Similarly, my haircut regularly varies, as does my facial hair. It's not unusual for my appearance around these things to vary slightly within a limited range. This is why I'll always send out recent selfies before a first meeting. If you have strong preferences in these areas, always best to just ask. I've postponed trimming my beard or my chest hair based on a client's preference. Or I've specifically trimmed to meet a client's preference. Upshot: if you have strong preferences about these details, just ask. Very often your provider can accommodate.

There is no chic like victim chic.

No, that would be him looking down on my head 😂

I had a personal trainer who did something similar with me. He recommended that, as much as possble, I should walk through the streets of the city shirtless and drive around shirtless as well.

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This is true for me, as well! I default to rent.men on which I cannot see them; when I go to rentmen.eu and log in separately, I can see them!

Tell me he's real, and I'll:

Or they could just Google an abuse hotline and have a 100% correct result come up at the very top. ChatGPT is terrible for anything that is actually important like this.

I went with the Glinda the Good Witch package, which was $300. I almost booked through Vibee since I was staying at the Venetian, but their premium option would have put me in section 206 (Wicked Witch package), the closest centered tier. Having never been, I was worried about neck-craning that close, but honestly, it would have been fine. The best way I can describe the layout is like a Broadway theater: Sections 204–208 = orchestra Sections 305–307 = front mezzanine Sections 405–407 = balcony I was in section 306, and for me it was perfect. Being further back and in the center gave me a better view of the whole production without needing to rely on peripheral vision or turning my head too much. The far sides are closed off (smart move), since I don’t think those would have had the same effect. Premium packages, besides location, come with early access and food/beverage credit. There’s also a separate lounge for the VIP packages. There’s a merch store too. Drinks are served in souvenir cups. Truthfully, with the sections they make available, I don’t think there’s a bad seat in the house. It’s immersive no matter where you sit. I’m older and had worried about twisting and turning, but section 306 worked out great.

I promise - we can debate shades of blond but his 🍆 is exactly as described