*Why use rentmasseur when you want sex?

[Rod Hagen]

On 7/13/2026 at 2:33 PM, Jamie21 said:

For many guys sex happens too quickly. Guys rush to penetration, and then it’s over…all too fast. 

Why is it over all too fast after penetration?  Lots of guys can get fucked for hours.  Never really felt there was any such thing as too quickly.  Things can start quickly continue quickly, get slower, get super fast, get medium speed, get slower again, then speed up, then repeat.

In my interactions I've always pushed against this notion that starting fast necessarily signals that the escort wants to get "it" over with.

I was resistant to massage when I started doing it.  I was happy simply escorting and my attitude was that if someone wants sex they should hire an escort.  Lying on the table, hoping the masseur will "do more", is not relaxing. 

As I continued to do massages, I used them primarily as a tactic to get men to come back for escorting, my thing, and it worked.

[+ Jamie21]

46 minutes ago, Rod Hagen said:

Why is it over all too fast after penetration? 

Because they see it as the ‘goal’, and they cum once I penetrate them, then the ‘guilt / realisation’ kicks in and they want to go. I’m dealing with the world as it is rather than as it ought to be.