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Fun fact...he used to be in London and we were chatting on Grindr...he was across the street from me...and alas, it was too late and I had been edging for way too long, so I suggested we meet the next day and then he blocked me. I love knowing I came so close to having fun with him but I hate knowing I came so close to having fun with him. I guess one day we'll find each other again on the apps...lol

For sure it kills the vibe unless the vibe is specifically to have sex with the person, which, in that case, means hire an escort. I agree that the assumption is problematic but I still think the prohibitive pricing is the real issue here. No one is saving lives in a massage and that people are able to charge ridiculous prices and that people are actually paying them is completely outlandish to me. Even if I had that kind of income, there's no way I'm paying someone $300-500 for an hour massage. I agree as well, communication is key especially if you are specifically out for a different experience. Which is why I would prefer that prices would drop back to something normal and then IF someone asks about it, the masseur can decide how high up he wants his pricing to go, or advertise those prices up-front, however discretely he chooses (ie. Erotic massage)

They would do what they've been doing...hiring someone to fuck them. But that wasn't the point of my comment...it was about the pricing in general. Because there is a big difference between: Masseur charges $80/hour for a normal massage and you leave the rest up to fate and the moment, and someone charging $200-300 for an hour and everyone is assuming that these are escort prices but that's what they're charging everyone and you might or might not get an escort experience. The issue is the pricing, not whose buying.

Thanks for explaining that. Well, I know the #s are flagged but I didn't ever see that they flagged it in actual conversations. I've seen it in guys' profiles and I think I express my interest in it in mine but it's not something they allow to be searchable, which is annoying.

That's my thought and experience exactly. So many have resulted in rather surprising ways without any real prior expectation. A few where I might have been hopeful ended up being really great massages but nothing more. At least in that case, I've still gotten something for my money. I also don't find paying for sex all that interesting. I can and do get plenty of great sex with willing partners for free, so why pay for it? At most I have considered that if the stars align in the right way I might consider it with a favorite pornstar just to finally fulfill that fantasy...but it hasn't happened yet.

Sniffies is definitely a weird one. The only scams I've come across aside from the occasional spammy message which I report and block are seeing same guy popping up in multiple places and demanding his OF to be followed. The sad thing is that where I am currently the scam guy is exactly my type and what is always missing in this area (truly hot, hung uncut, but I digress). I've reported them as well...not sure how they can appear in multiple geographic locations, so it must be multiple accounts with the same crop of photos and general profile info. I haven't had too much success with it because guys come and go too quickly, and since it's web-based most people (myself included) are doing other things on their phones at the same time, like Grindr and Scruff (in my case). It's not the best interface for keeping contact with someone...yeah, I've pinned profiles and messages...but if the other guy chooses to delete the thread for any reason you've also lost all the info. I mean, I check it out, because why not? There are definitely a lot of hot guys there but as with any of the apps, you need to be cautious and if it seems way too good to be true it probably is. The gen/g3n thing is new to me. What exactly is that supposed to mean and why is it flagged? As a sidenote...I hate that Grindr and Scruff don't allow #massage #massaging because sometimes people ARE into MT without it being transactional.

Amazing. I have to say, I was never really a multiple cummer the way my bf is...but I discovered some years ago that with the right feeling and level of friction, I could cum twice in a row while fucking. It happened now and again and usually to the pleasant surprise of the bottom. But now, lately, I've been discovering it happening more frequently even when I'm masturbating...to the point that just last night I actually managed to have 5 orgasms in a row. That's the most I've ever managed and even I was ridiculously shocked by it. All I know is...I'm going to keep practicing! haha

My boyfriend always bursts out into laughter when he orgasms...which is, well, cute although not necessarily sexy...and he's a fortunate type that can get aroused again quickly and cum just as much the second time as the first...so he laughs a lot.

I'm not sure a "price list" is really all that useful, but a listed base price for any style of massage would be helpful if mandatory by hosting sites. I guess MF requires it but RM and Rent.Men do not seem to make it obligatory. Personally, I'm not interested in paying for sex. If something sexual happens I assume it's because there is a mutual desire to in the moment. That has always been my experience. Only once did a masseur tag on a HE fee which was ridiculous since I had explicitly stated before the appointment that I wasn't into those...so when things came up at the end I naturally assumed it was our chemistry that did it, and was shocked when he asked to be compensated for it. Not acceptable, IMHO. However, my real issue is that prices have gone absurdly high in most places. There are still some areas where one can get a real, fantastic, legit therapeutic massage for 50-60Eur...and then, if there is a mutual attraction and desire, have at! My longtime go-to guy in Paris eventually was charging me just 70Eur for massages that would run between 90-120 minutes. No, we never ever got sexual, it was never discussed, it never happened by chance, and I never expected it to. I had also understood that he had stopped offering any sort of "extra" in his massages shortly after I started collaborating with him. Yes, I was extremely lucky to have a more than competent and so generous masseur. I'm sad he's moved to a remote part of France. I began using massage as a way to deal with increased muscular tension from travel and exercise instead of always going to chiropractors/osteopaths/kinesiologists, et al. for $/EUR150-200 a session. As much as I love all that body work, it's almost never covered by any insurance and is a steep out of pocket expense. I was working for an extended period in Berlin (2019), and I was having 2 massages per week with all different masseurs who were all charging between 50-75 Eur a session. They were all great, different therapeutic styles, and all except one ended up resulting in fun, and I was never asked to pay anything more. And that seemed to be the standard pricing, at least around Europe, until maybe 2022 and then I noticed, as more and more escorts/porn/OF types were flooding the massage pages, everyone started to increase to double and even triple the prices! I got into massage specifically because it was CHEAPER than going to all those medical professionals. Now, the masseurs are more expensive! In NYC I had a longtime masseur, incredibly sexy, one of the best ever...in 60 minutes he accomplished what most can just barely do for me in 90...he was charging $120 for years. Then he upped to $150 and now he's well over $200. He let me continue to pay our original agreement for a while but then when he said that "next time when you come back" I was going to have to basically pay double for the same service, I was out and never saw him again. That's my issue. The price gouging that has happened over the last 4-5 years internationally. I find it absurd and prohibitive. I don't care how amazing the physique or how XXL he is, I'm not paying $300 for a massage and if I see various Extras offered with tiered pricing I am 99.999999% certain I won't be hiring. Again, no judgement, but me personally, I'm not interested in paying for something I get quite easily for free, whether it's with a masseur or not.

Wow...I wonder what that is about. Does he not like the idea of people looking at his profile and not hiring him? I did try to report it to the site to see if they would reverse it, but I never got a reply.

Same please!

Personal friend of mine...super sweet guy. Sexually not at all what I would go for, but he's a doll. He doesn't know I know he does this, but I can say, since I know him personally, he's probably one of the more honest and genuine out there. I get the feeling he's probably a very sensual person as well.

It's sort of a known fact that many masseurs use fake names, especially if they might have another primary profession, so I think he got weirded out because of that, and might be why the vibe didn't begin in a more easy fashion. I am curious about him...was he nude as well? I've seen his various profiles but no nudes. Is he how I like them? haha

Eduardo was amazing...but a bit crazy. My first session with him was extraordinary...others evidently felt he wasn't trained enough but I remember that he gave me a very legit deep tissue massage, and there was obviously chemistry between us, it turned into a quite a lot of fun, then getting sandwiches and eating them on his rooftop. We stayed in touch and had two other meetings, one without massage, just to enjoy each other directly. Turned into a bit of drama sometime after that when I had reached out again and he's subsequently disappeared, changed numbers, etc. No idea what happened to him and why he so unceremoniously "dumped me", as it were. But I can tell you, he was a dream, and for me an ideal fwb.

He's a dream...although does anyone know if he might actually also be versatile? I'm not so interested in total tops...but I've had instances where guys who listed themselves as top only turned out to be far more vers in reality, which is always a welcome surprise.