Why use rentmasseur when you want sex?

[GregW]

I regularly only use a hung muscle dude in Vancouver who is on RentMasseur and provides all services   I usually have sex and then enjoy a great massage after and obviously I book more than an hour but so worth it!! Sometimes make him start with a massage -all depends on my mood.  

[Onelove1]

That fun have massage and make them horny so it goes to the sex session

[DunwoodyGuy]

10 hours ago, muscmtl said:

Blows my mind that instead of going an escort, you'd rather go for a masseuse hoping it leads to sex.

I guarantee you that no one but no one on this board goes to a masseuse hoping it leads to sex. 

"Masseuse" is the French word for a female massage practitioner. If you mean a male practitioner, the word is "masseur."

Perhaps while you are learning the difference between male and female, you could also endeavor to remove your finger from your sphincter and learn to be less judgmental and condescending.

[pubic_assistance]

13 hours ago, big-n-tall said:

I think a few people do it because they see it as a cheaper way to arrange sex.

If you end up having sex with a masseur, you need to tip an amount that brings the total fee, in-line with what an escort would charge. You don't add 20% to the massage rate, and pretend the sex wasnt an a'la carte item.

[big-n-tall]

18 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

If you end up having sex with a masseur, you need to tip an amount that brings the total fee, in-line with what an escort would charge. You don't add 20% to the massage rate, and pretend the sex wasnt an a'la carte item.

And you shouldn’t assume just because they didn’t ask for additional funds that I didn’t give them any.

[pubic_assistance]

1 minute ago, big-n-tall said:

And you shouldn’t assume just because they didn’t ask for additional funds that I didn’t give them any.

..and I did NOT assume that, because you clearly said "some people"...not "I". My referral to "you", is a case of the English language using you for singular and plural. There is no proper "y'all" in the vocabulary.

[newinATL]

22 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

If you end up having sex with a masseur, you need to tip an amount that brings the total fee, in-line with what an escort would charge. You don't add 20% to the massage rate, and pretend the sex wasnt an a'la carte item.

I'm genuinely curious about this response. I've had several interactions with well-liked and highly reviewed providers (from this site) where my intention wasn't to have sex. Even if I was only booking the 'therapeutic' option, the massage took a turn in another direction based on their advances. I've always gone into every session with YMMV because not every provider will be a match.

Should I still pay for that escort experience?

[pubic_assistance]

6 minutes ago, newinATL said:

Should I still pay for that escort experience?

If you follow through with a professional's advances, then YES you are expected to tip generously enough that you are paying a reasonable escort rate as total. They aren't having sex with you because they're horny and found you to be hot. 

[+ sniper]

It kills me when someone on here insists that a 20 dollar tip on a 60 dollar massage at a rub n tug place that went all the way is in any way adequate.

[+ KensingtonHomo]

31 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

If you follow through with a professional's advances, then YES you are expected to tip generously enough that you are paying a reasonable escort rate as total. They aren't having sex with you because they're horny and found you to be hot. 

And, yet, that's EXACTLY what happened to me last week. I booked a sensual massage with someone I hadn't met before. And 20 minutes in, he started rimming me. Nature took its course, and throughout, he was very verbal and highly specific about what he found attractive about me. I asked him why he doesn't list on Rent.men and he said that he can't fake being turned on. That he's tried but if he's not into a guy, his "dick won't work." He even said in his personal life that he's met up with super hot guys and if there's no connection, it doesn't work out. So being a masseur means he can choose who he wants to go further than MT/HE based on whether or not he finds them attractive. 

[mikeyspark]

1 hour ago, pubic_assistance said:

If you follow through with a professional's advances, then YES you are expected to tip generously enough that you are paying a reasonable escort rate as total. They aren't having sex with you because they're horny and found you to be hot. 

completely disagree. I got a massage the other day and wasn't expecting penetration. The masseur got really turned on by my body, kept complimenting it and eventually said "I need to fuck you". I consented. I'm not going to pay him extra because he wanted to fuck me. He should give me discount! (kidding...maybe).

[pubic_assistance]

So many clients here, who cant differentiate between marketing and actual physical attraction. 🙄

[newinATL]

3 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

If you follow through with a professional's advances, then YES you are expected to tip generously enough that you are paying a reasonable escort rate as total. They aren't having sex with you because they're horny and found you to be hot. 

Why can't 2 things be true? If you decline their advances, then it leads to a very awkward remainder of the session. 

[muscmtl]

13 hours ago, DunwoodyGuy said:

I guarantee you that no one but no one on this board goes to a masseuse hoping it leads to sex. 

"Masseuse" is the French word for a female massage practitioner. If you mean a male practitioner, the word is "masseur."

Perhaps while you are learning the difference between male and female, you could also endeavor to remove your finger from your sphincter and learn to be less judgmental and condescending.

Ahhh look at you. Thinking you matter.. noo

[Typical]

I once gave a large “tip” after a massage went way beyond what was expected and the masseur seemed offended. He handed all the excess back to me and said rather coldly “I don’t do that for money.”

So I just firmly believe people outside the room should withhold comment and do what works best for them and the people they see. I see people who charge $200 and I pay $200, even though things may go well beyond standard service. But I see them multiple times a month and we have a nice relationship., such as it is. 

I’m no Adonis just getting it because. I’m pushing 60. But I am a regular. I show up on time and clean. I don’t push for anything the masseur doesn’t want to give and understand some days will be different from others. We always laugh a lot. There is never any drama. And I’m generally flexible on time - I don’t demand 6pm on Friday. I cheerfully take a slot that might otherwise be empty for them. I also don’t want to be thought of as a rich guy throwing money around just because I can to get exactly what I want. That’s offensive  

It works me and the folks I see and nothing regarding payment needs to be justified to anyone else. So tip away. I would never discourage that. But understand that there may be some other things just as important or perhaps more important in the transaction and don’t judge what other people do. 

[+ KensingtonHomo]

1 hour ago, pubic_assistance said:

So many clients here, who cant differentiate between marketing and actual physical attraction. 🙄

And many who can. I've been having sex for nearly 40 years. I can tell if someone is into me or not. 

[davidosorio]

I go to a provider regularly and they continue to initiate extra services without prompting and you continue to leave a regular size tip, not a tip that covers them going above and beyond what was paid for. Now, that would indicate to me that the provider doesn’t mind going above and beyond bc they are the one who prompts it every time. So it really just depends for me on how things go from session to session.
 

Now if they initiate it the first time and don’t in the future, that would be a good sign they weren’t happy with the tip. But if I’m a regular and they keep starting it, I’m going to assume they don’t feel the need for a tip that matches what they’re offering.

Edited yesterday at 05:38 PM by davidosorio

[FLJock]

6 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

If you end up having sex with a masseur, you need to tip an amount that brings the total fee, in-line with what an escort would charge. You don't add 20% to the massage rate, and pretend the sex wasnt an a'la carte item.

What if you've never hired an escort?

[GregW]

I usually am upfront with what I am looking for exactly and check that they are able to provide it.  If it is a match I book.  If not I respect their boundary and I move on and check with the next one before booking.  Usually it results in a good experience.  But I also tend to stick to one or two guys max in every city I travel to, as I like the safety of the familiarity and trust build-up.  But that guy has to be VERY good haha

[Thelatin]

I honestly see no difference between the sites Rentmen or RentMasseur - I apologize if that’s offensive.  It’s just been my experience and I treat them the same.

Masseurfinder might be a bit different - but mostly the same lol. 

[Nue2thegame]

8 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

There is no proper "y'all" in the vocabulary.

There is in my neck of the woods, but it’s spelled “yall”. 

Edited yesterday at 08:22 PM by Nue2thegame

[ShortCutie7]

When I first started exploring the idea/possibility of seeing a provider, I was looking at masseurs because of my presumptions about safety and legality, so I was really only looking at masseurs who would provide “extras”. I then realized that that was silly, since I had no desire to receive an actual massage.

[pubic_assistance]

1 hour ago, Nue2thegame said:

There is in my neck of the woods, but it’s spelled “yall”. 

• Spelling: The formally accepted and grammatical spelling is y'all. Variants like ya'll are considered incorrect. 

 Dictionary.com 

[pubic_assistance]

42 minutes ago, ShortCutie7 said:

When I first started exploring the idea/possibility of seeing a provider, I was ...........looking at masseurs who would provide “extras”... then realized that that was silly, since I had no desire to receive an actual massage.

😆 Funny.

I actually DO really enjoy a good professional massage. I generally book a mixed session of "therapeutic & erotic" and see where things go. Most often its a happy ending (handjob) but occasionally it goes full deli with oral sex. I have on occasion had a masseur try to actually fuck me during a "nuru" session but I always find that to be very presumptuous since I am NOT a bottom and definitely NOT letting ANYONE fuck me without a condom. So yeah...I do immediately put an end to THAT. In Thailand its not unusual for a young masseur at an m4m Spa to offer to ride your cock. Of ALL of these additional sexual favors...I have never ONCE been so egotistical to assume they were just so taken with my masculine beauty that they just HAD TO have sex with me. I'm not delusional. 

Its a BUSINESS. They are there with you to MAKE MONEY, whether they think you're a nice looking man or not. 

So when ever I DO indulge in extras that are defined as SEX, I always tip significantly. 

 

 

[JayinHKNYC]

Not all treat it "just" as a business. And I am not delusional about marketing vs. attraction. I've known some who have talked openly about such.