Thelatin

This. I've met some super attractive guys who also have great personalities. Finding a long term sugar daddy must be easier said then done. And if you do find it, how much freedom are you going to have.

You know...having spent the first 47 year of my life afraid of how friends, family, the church, society etc. perceived me - I eventually ran out of fucks to give. I'm in decent shape, I have some money. If I want to prance through the desert with a two 20 year old Latin Twinks on either arm, I will. The husbands look at me judgmentally, the wives wish they could come with lol.

When that day comes lol - a portion will be going towards that too

I'm doing the thumb in my ear, pinky by my mouth hand gesture. He can figure it out from there.

It just struck me that you are broke and on a webpage that deals with a fairly expensive pass time. Are you spending money on providers too?

I have only ever speculated on a few individual stocks over the years, and one REIT. All with equally poor results lol. Thankfully I've most just used Vanguard Index funds and have done well. I'm not quite on board with Dave Ramsey, as I think people need to start investing in order to get excited about saving money. When it starts compounding and you get that first 50 or 100 grand built up, the idea of paying interest becomes less appealing. Some people never start as they are always stuck on baby steps. I would liquidate and pay of the debt. Stop borrowing against your 401K - and invest what you do have in boring index funds. It's not exciting - but I sleep well.

I enjoy a nice hotel as I take advantage of the pool, fitness center, bar, restaurant etc. I frequent a few where they know be by name - they always upgrade me etc. I like chatting with other guests etc. If I’ve known someone a while I’ll host at my house, also nice. I make sure to have a variety of drinks and food available. I’ve noticed quite a few complaints about extra costs, and how much time the provider spend on and off the clock etc. I honestly have a lot of luck with being a bit generous. Hey - feel free to use the hotel amenities, charge the room etc. It ends up being mutually beneficial.

I honestly don’t recall the last time I asked about a price - or that they’ve even told me a rate lol.

I honestly see no difference between the sites Rentmen or RentMasseur - I apologize if that’s offensive. It’s just been my experience and I treat them the same. Masseurfinder might be a bit different - but mostly the same lol.

Well, oral sex is generally riskier (sti wise) then a hand job. So yes, you are asking for quite a bit more. Also, unless you have a nice looking unit they are attracted to, there's a big difference between a handy and oral lol.

My house is littered with odd empty plastic containers and tiny silver spoons lol. If I look in the trash it’s needles full of testosterone.

I would have him send you a face picture before hiring.

I feel fortunate - I think if I lived in a larger city I'd be broke lol.

One other thought I had is if a provider is really extremely turned off by me, I'd rather not see them. I at least want to be considered average lol.

I must be living on the edge - my profile picture is on my text message and or whatapp. I always scope out who I'm hiring for quite sometime, so I don't worry about it.

I highly encourage diet and exercise. It makes everything better. You feel better, people are nicer, the long term costs of health care etc. So glad I interested in fitness a few years ago - it becomes an addiction if you let it.

Resilience is key. Reviews happen in every line of work. I’ve been trolled by the worst on google reviews. Yelp - oh my goodness those poor restaurants. A person can only be the best they can be and ignore the bs.

I think it's very reasonable, I'd also ask if they have a punch card, 10th visit for free.

He just needs a bit of experience and a guiding hand. I feel I'm up to this challenge. He Hot.

I met him once, first time I'd ever been catfished. He then blew up my phone wanting to see me constantly, I had no interest and had to block him. I have no clue as to how he gets positive reviews.

I've learned over the years that I'm often attracted to providers that others here find "difficult" lol. If someone is labeled a bit odd, quirky, a jerk, overtly religious or political it peaks my interest. So I read most reviews with a grain of salt. Now if the clients complain about old photos, a funny smell, or that it's just a light rub and tug - I'll probably research a bit more.

I’m 55 - in shape and willing to travel. Woo me.

Oops, I missed that. Perhaps they have a similar business across the pond.

I would call Vanguard and get an advisor to help you invest it. They will help you define your risk tolerance, what your future plans for the monies are etc. My Vanguard plan isn't complex, mostly index funds, but there is a comfort level knowing that a professional person has eyes on it as well. Part of it quite frankley is they encourage me to spend a some of it while I'm younger.

Providers can be very very good. I have a thing for fit Latinos as well. I’ve yet to meet one that hasn’t instantly offered to be a travel companion, Puerto Vallarta, Palm Springs, Colombia etc. All super sweet guys, all very tempting. Genuinely nice people that I enjoy and chat with routinely on and off. It’s also their job.