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I’ve had this same experience several times last year with extremely good looking guys. Thankfully it happened while I was traveling and I’m careful as to what I’m eating and take fiber pills for vacation. Fucking is easier and more enjoyable then massaging in certain instances.

Sometimes not getting exactly what you want might end up being exactly what you need.

I used to do quite a few overnights - they were enjoyable I guess. But if I’m honest with myself, I just as soon cuddle up with a whiskey and pizza after the guy leaves. I’m the morning I love breakfast at a good cafe on my own. I had a great 4 hour date Saturday afternoon. Then went out for an early dinner. Ended up in a great conversation with another single guy. Best day I’ve had in a long time.

Are you wanting to top or bottom? That may affect how to proceed.

Happens to me frequently, I’m just seen as that gullible….because I was.

I’ve started dating several over the years, and regretted it both times. The last one literally nearly did me in I was so depressed. So I would caution against it. I see a masseur currently who for whatever reason loves long make out sessions in the shower with me. I appreciate that he’s into that, enjoy it, and leave it be.

You should be afraid of Kai - only if you’re afraid of a good time. I spent time with him a year back. I would repeat the experience. If we were all the same - wouldn’t life be boring.

I’ve actually found myself in a local Asian place for a decent massage, nothing extra. Some of those older ladies are strong lol.

I’ve had several long texts back and forth that ended up with them asking me to invest with them in crypto. Or they are promoting their OF account.

Ever wonder if some of us are in serious “relationships” with the same provider? I wouldn’t doubt it.

I have a young couple (in their 20’s) that I travel with for a week at a time. It’s a lot of time in the pool, hot tub, drinks, a few clubs etc. They both like me and we all chat weekly. But I understand that they like me as an older friend and customer, nothing further. I enjoy the relationship.

Happy ending lol. I can tell I’ve come full circle. Unless a whole lot of nasty filth is going on, and I’m not bored, and not to tired, and I’m free for the day. No.

I 100% disagree. Anyone engaging in activities should always be honest with the other person.

This was sarcasm of course. I’ve moved on, it was honestly one of the worst experiences of my life.

I had started "dating" a regular last year. By Jan of 2024 he had destroyed the business I helped him start, blamed it all on another guy who he was "in love with" - strangely by March that guy married a different person. I then lent my X (or whatever he was) money to go to treatment, which he of coursed stiffed me for. But luckily for me he wants to get back together. I feel I've grown as a person

I like when they have a partner - and they bring him with 🫣

I prefer they have a partner, it draws a clear line.

I wouldn’t give that arrangement up. I’d just get whiskey dick prior to the meeting.

I don’t really think this is a thing lol.

I recently stopped seeing or speaking to my two longest term providers because of all of the aforementioned comments. Been there done it all, the trips, the emotional connection, the not paying, the paying for extras etc. It’s all too much bs. Spending some serious time thinking about what it is I really want.

If you take care of yourself a 60 year old guy can be very fit. Get after those weights.

He dyed his hair blonde and is looking chubby - odd.

Same I had it there from scraping myself shaving, and then a few other spots, psoriasis. So thankful for the new meds, as I’m clear now.

I had a skin issue that thankfully I managed to take care of. I was always careful to explain it to anyone prior to seeing them. It was just a few spots, but it was best to explain up front.

If I have time to plan I nair my hole 4-5 days prior to bottoming. So it grows back enough as to not be prickly.