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I was in the middle of a massage a while back and he asked me if I would have hired him had he only been on masseurfinder. I said “probably not”. But it’s where his advertisement belongs lol.

In town for a few days is code for, they aren’t in town. It means they are feeling out potential leads. If they don’t get enough hits, they aren’t coming. And neither are you.

A guy I know became a trophy husband. After 30 years of not working. He is now, separated with no money, no work history and very expensive tastes…

I’m sure some providers have things figured out, save for the future, are in school etc. But largely that has not been my experience. It’s sad how many have traveled and worked their tales off for years, with nothing to show for it. I’m not being rude, it’s honestly sad. It’s an extremely hard job, I don’t think I would survive the mental gymnastics.

I met with someone other than my regular provider a while back, and my body wouldn’t participate lol. I’m in trouble now lol.

I've had so many stories from providers over the years that I simply have to choose not to believe them anymore. I'm sure I'm wrong on occasion and they are being perfectly honest. But I have a terrible history of being gullible and giving 2nd, 3rd, 10th chances. I'd forget about it and move on to another person.

My feed is flooded with people talking about this supplement. Anyone using it? Just a gimmick or fad?

I’ve had that happen a few times. Now I’m careful to check more carefully. It helps if you can see them on other social media platforms.

If they are open to it I tell them 2 - 3 hours so it’s flexible.

I mean this in the nicest possible way. Both solutions revolve revolve around taking drugs, G and Ozempic. The gym is so much healthier with so many positive side affects from looking good naked to reducing anxiety etc. The 4-5 hours a week I spend lifting has completely changed my life.

Exactly - I have places I stay they say welcome back Mr. So an So. Same at the steakhouses I’m a regular at. They aren’t stupid lol.

Kyfit and Cubanbd - both wonderful.

Yeah - my chats revolve around what’s for dinner, when yah going to the gym, lately a little politics. As long as neither party is asking for anything I enjoy it.

I have several I chat with all of the time. I make sure to not send messages for a few days at a time to make sure it’s mutual. This past week I’ve chatted everyday with a guy I’ve yet to meet. We haven’t even mentioned when that will happen. I’m enjoying this a lot more then when I was “in love” with my last two long term guys.

Yes - I let them know I have checked out so they come clean the room. If I checkout at say 8:00 a.m - they aren’t waiting until 11 or 1 to clean. They get a head start making the room available.

I always check out via the app, or if they don't have that in person. Why? I like to be able to check in early if a room is available. As a courtesy to the next travel who might want to check in early, house keeping can have the room I left cleaned and ready. One hand washes the other.

I’ve had this same experience several times last year with extremely good looking guys. Thankfully it happened while I was traveling and I’m careful as to what I’m eating and take fiber pills for vacation. Fucking is easier and more enjoyable then massaging in certain instances.

Sometimes not getting exactly what you want might end up being exactly what you need.

I used to do quite a few overnights - they were enjoyable I guess. But if I’m honest with myself, I just as soon cuddle up with a whiskey and pizza after the guy leaves. I’m the morning I love breakfast at a good cafe on my own. I had a great 4 hour date Saturday afternoon. Then went out for an early dinner. Ended up in a great conversation with another single guy. Best day I’ve had in a long time.

Are you wanting to top or bottom? That may affect how to proceed.

Happens to me frequently, I’m just seen as that gullible….because I was.

I’ve started dating several over the years, and regretted it both times. The last one literally nearly did me in I was so depressed. So I would caution against it. I see a masseur currently who for whatever reason loves long make out sessions in the shower with me. I appreciate that he’s into that, enjoy it, and leave it be.

You should be afraid of Kai - only if you’re afraid of a good time. I spent time with him a year back. I would repeat the experience. If we were all the same - wouldn’t life be boring.

I’ve actually found myself in a local Asian place for a decent massage, nothing extra. Some of those older ladies are strong lol.

I’ve had several long texts back and forth that ended up with them asking me to invest with them in crypto. Or they are promoting their OF account.