Thelatin

If you were the provider, given the time, the place, what is going on that weekend, would you show up? Good Luck.

I’d be terrified to fall asleep next to that.

Usually I a negotiate a better snow day rate. I kid, I kid! I did miss a date last weekend because of poor road conditions.

Exactly - I’ve got a place rented in Palm Springs. Now my provider is bringing his boyfriend with, why not? Fun for me, free stay for him. Not every decision is financial in the end.

True - but realistically most providers aren’t having multiple dates 7 days a week. And why have 2-3 short dates with perhaps a no show, or a jerk, when I’m a repeat customer and easy to deal with? 1000 bucks is 1/2 the months rent or more if they have roommates. Seems like good money. This site is littered with threads of people complaining about how difficult the process can be. I booked a room and he didn’t show up. I went to a city and got stood up x amount of times. Provider got lost. Client was with family. Someone insisted on face pics. Provider was in seedy hotel. Dog ate my homework. So they can take a for sure thing. Or spend the night sorting through all of the messages they complain about. Maybe they can have lunch with someone for a predate interview.

When someone sends me money via PayPal, and asks me to return it, what are they doing? I’ve had a regular for years that does this on occasion, they pay the fees. Where is this money coming from? They aren’t scamming me. Are they scamming someone?

I think it has to do with just being decent, I don’t demand, always offer to buy dinner, stay in nice places etc.

I was going to make a FB post announcing that no, I’m not on the list

Arg. The worst hangover after a concert, and I all I had was the damn omelette.

Have you tried the hotel tonight ap? Not sure it fixes your check out issue. But I know some providers who use it to find good deals.

I gave a card to one of my long term providers for “emergencies”. Amazing how his definition of an emergency is different than mine lol. He always pays it off on his own, but not great for my credit score. I like to keep it up at 850, which he doesn’t understand.

It typically just morphs into that after a few visits. Unless they are actually booked up for something late at night, why not stay for breakfast?

I’ve never hired for an hour or two, so perhaps my experience is different? I routinely hire an overnight for 1000. They refer to it as a break from the BS. Nice hotel, food, decent company etc. I’ve got 4 full days coming up for 3000. Nice Airbnb, pool, hot tub, dinners etc.

Neigh.

I always say I have a dad body, even though I’ve been working on it and have a pretty decent build. It’s a pleasant surprise when we meet.

Is this actually a thing? I’ll admit I frequent several nice hotels, and I’m certain the front staff know exactly what I’m doing. But it’s never been an issue.

I’ve seen had a few overnights with him. He was just ok, good looking enough, the rate was reasonable. Decent bottom - but could be more interactive after the first few hours.

Also - I’m able to use my fake Twitter account to troll companies I don’t like, or the far right. God it’s funny - all of a sudden they have gay content on their page. I’m just reposting what Twitter allows lol.

Maybe not verbal - but it I’m looking for a long evening of aggressive fun, it’s Elliot. https://rent.men/Elliot_ToyBoy

I had added him to my buddy list - and promptly got blocked.

I actually find the best content on X aka Twitter.

Well - look at his schedule. Palm Springs? Uruguay? Argentina? I don’t see him being in that sort of demand.

I wouldn’t fret over something a year old. As far as mailing things, I don’t think it’s that unusual? Several providers mailed me gifts this year, I have their addresses as well. I guess I’ve known most of mine for quite a few years though.

I have a nice large yard, I don’t mind if people walk on it. I’ve let people use the side lot for parties etc. I think the main concern are people who live in a spot where their lawn becomes a shortcut, so has like consistent foot traffic to school for instance. That kills the grass.

I’m actually getting to be the opposite. I worry that the older ones look at me as a way out of the profession, which I’ve helped with in the past. But that ends up being quite a commitment of time, effort, energy, money. I’m thrilled to have helped. But sometimes I just want to chill.