*Why use rentmasseur when you want sex?

[+ Jamie21]

11 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

..and I did NOT assume that, because you clearly said "some people"...not "I". My referral to "you", is a case of the English language using you for singular and plural. There is no proper "y'all" in the vocabulary.

One could use ‘one’

[Typical]

I think this topic has run its course. We’ll agree to disagree, just like the long and boring specific tipping thread.

That said, unless you have been elected President of the International Brotherhood of Masseurs, the financial arrangements between a client and a willing, of age therapist is emphatically and without any doubt whatsoever, none of your business at all. You have a right to an opinion. But so do I and every other person on this planet. They generally mean squat. 

Everyone should do their own thing. Therapists can choose to see clients or not. They can offer extras for a stated price, or not. They can choose to not offer any extras at all! Or offer them just to people who appeal for o them. No big deal. It either works for the parties or it does not.

(I am certainly not including any potential human trafficking scenario in Bangkok in my opinion. That is a very different topic altogether. I’m talking about good old USA based grown men, most of whom could probably whip my ass! (Not in a sexual way))

Enjoy. 

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

6 hours ago, KensingtonHomo said:

I've been having sex for nearly 40 years.

Wow 😮

And I thought the Guinness World Record for the longest heterosexual sex lasting 23 hours was impressive!

[Typical]

5 minutes ago, Vegas_Millennial said:

Wow 😮

And I thought the Guinness World Record for the longest heterosexual sex lasting 23 hours was impressive!

I feel like we might circle jerk this one to death over the few days. 🤪

[DunwoodyGuy]

10 hours ago, muscmtl said:

Ahhh look at you. Thinking you matter.. noo

Ah look at you. Responding.

[Vulgarii]

On 7/13/2026 at 11:02 AM, jeezifonly said:

Is non-reciprocal, skilled, sensual masturbation performed on me, while I am already nude and completely relaxed from treatment, actually considered sex? 

 

 

But it's never just a non-reciprocal thing, at least for me. It's always the client asking can I do this, can I do that, and they'll even keep coming and try to push the boundary more and more.

 

I'm sure some people must get off on doing that, and I get off on telling them to F off and blocking their numbers.

[Vulgarii]

On 7/13/2026 at 10:14 AM, sf westcoaster said:

I don't have an factual data, but I think cost is a factor. Masseurs tend to be less costly than escorts.

 

Masseurs are budget prostitutes. When you don't want to pay escort prices and don't want the stigma of having to pay for one, shoot your shot with a masseur, but you better ask him a million questions beforehand.

[+ KensingtonHomo]

1 hour ago, pubic_assistance said:

Its a BUSINESS. They are there with you to MAKE MONEY, whether they think you're a nice looking man or not. 

So when ever I DO indulge in extras that are defined as SEX, I always tip significantly. 

 

This is such a weird flex. Are you trying to impress us by inferring you're well off, you can throw an extra $150 at a provider who lets you pound him? Or that you're so magnanimous that you're willing to pay people who actually want to fuck you? Do you have a tiered system, like $50 head, $100 for anal? I'm so curious 

I don't know why this needs to keep being repeated, but some of us hire almost exclusively for convenience. So if some guy I'm already paying to arouse me or get me off wants to fuck me, why am I paying extra? I didn't even request it. 

You seem convinced every client on here is a troll that lives under a bridge, except you. Girl, that's not the case. Some of us are very sexy. 

[jeezifonly]

9 hours ago, FLJock said:

What if you've never hired an escort?

Try it. You'll like it.

 

[allyouknow]

Good sex is not so simple - I hope you all have good sex that involves more than just the rudimentary options. 

[Thisismrlit]

Tbh, I think it really just depends on the massuer you hire and if there’s chemistry or not. I hired one provider before that provided a strictly therapeutic service with h/e and then the next time I hired him, he was horny and wanted to do a little more. On a site like rentmassuer, you might not go in expecting sex, but I feel like it’s normal to go in expecting more than what you’d get at a traditional massage place. Otherwise, why are you looking on the site to begin with? 

Edited Wednesday at 09:59 AM by Thisismrlit
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[Peter Eater]

Many years ago I went to a masseur for a strictly therapeutic massage, and it was so good I made another appointment for the following week. That second time, midway through, he initiated sex. It was so good I made yet another appointment for the following week, and we again blended therapeutic massage with sex. He’s been my go-to guy ever since.

[Unonymous30xxx]

2 hours ago, Peter Eater said:

Many years ago I went to a masseur for a strictly therapeutic massage, and it was so good I made another appointment for the following week. That second time, midway through, he initiated sex. It was so good I made yet another appointment for the following week, and we again blended therapeutic massage with sex. He’s been my go-to guy ever since.

Living the dream

[Rudynate]

I like uncertainty. I like to hire for a therapeutic massage and see where it goes. Sometimes it really is a therapeutic massage, so I certainly haven't lost out.  But often, it turns into the full monty.

[GayGamer323]

Maybe I'm in the minority, but I don't go into a massage session with any intention of having sex, even if it's listed as sensual. For me, the massage is the most important thing and I don't wish to sacrifice the quality of a good massage for the possibility of having sex.

I typically book therapeutic over sensual, but will opt for sensual if that means the masseur is also naked. I'm a bit of a nudist, so it's always nice when a masseur will also go naked during a sensual massage session. But getting a sensual massage or us both being naked doesn't mean sex. For me, being naked together is what makes the massage sensual and sensual does not need to end with anyone getting off. I've found having a masseur jerk me off to be a bit awkward and, honestly, I feel I can do a better job of that on my own.

Sure, skin on skin contact, or when a masseur's hand (or other body part) briefly glides across your balls/ass/dick is generally exciting and creates anticipation...but that can also ruin the moment for me, which should be focusing on the massage itself. 

I also understand that masseurs have different interpretations of what's involved with sensual massage or what should be classified as erotic. What I described above may sometimes be considered more erotic (though, I see an erotic massage as the gateway towards more sexual activities), so I may opt to book the erotic if that means the masseur will be naked too - however, I will make it clear up front what my expectations are, just so we're both on the same page. 

[San Angelo]

Because some people hiring are just hella cheap. They expect sex for the price of a erotic massage. 

But of course, there are also the ones that prefer hiring masseurs because of the fantasy factor. 

[San Angelo]

13 hours ago, Vulgarii said:

 

Masseurs are budget prostitutes. When you don't want to pay escort prices and don't want the stigma of having to pay for one, shoot your shot with a masseur, but you better ask him a million questions beforehand.

Not all masseurs offer sex. I don't offer that. If I get a very attractive client I'm very into I'm open to do something for an extra charge though. Still this barely happens because I'm a picky asshole (I can probably mention only one time in the last 6 months).  I don't easily find someone worth of sliding it in or letting my dick sucked. One time I let a handsome daddy give me a bj and I regretted it because he didn't even tip me. When I asked for the tip directly he said I didn't cum. I felt insulted and told him I wasn't an escort and that the sexual part wasn't part of it. But of course, at the end it was my fault  because his lips wrapping my dick truly felt delicious and I didn't stop him. I still felt like he took advantage. Never again. 

[GregW]

I just treat rent.men and rentmasseur.com the same.  I found some hotter men on rentmasseur,com but that is just my opinion.  When I reach out I ask them for their rate for a massage with sex and let them know exactly what all I want.  Besides,I also found that most guys on rentmasseur.com, if they are not on rent.men, have less full sex daily and so have bigger loads, are more enthusiastic and horny in sex.  Had some of the best sex with my rentmasseur.com masseur versus tons of rent.men guys

[Mark_fl]

On 7/13/2026 at 11:23 PM, DunwoodyGuy said:

I guarantee you that no one but no one on this board goes to a masseuse hoping it leads to sex

That would be a bet you'd lose.

[CCLA]

52 minutes ago, GregW said:

I just treat rent.men and rentmasseur.com the same.  I found some hotter men on rentmasseur,com but that is just my opinion.  When I reach out I ask them for their rate for a massage with sex and let them know exactly what all I want.  Besides,I also found that most guys on rentmasseur.com, if they are not on rent.men, have less full sex daily and so have bigger loads, are more enthusiastic and horny in sex.  Had some of the best sex with my rentmasseur.com masseur versus tons of rent.men guys

Would a massage with sex be you topping or bottoming? Or either? Or a blowjob or handjob?

[pubic_assistance]

21 hours ago, Jamie21 said:

One could use ‘one’

Only if I were British. 😉

[pubic_assistance]

20 hours ago, Vegas_Millennial said:

Wow 😮

And I thought the Guinness World Record for the longest heterosexual sex lasting 23 hours was impressive!

OK @Vegas_Millennial you are always a gem...but THAT is your best comeback ever. 😆

[pubic_assistance]

2 hours ago, San Angelo said:

When I asked for the tip directly he said I didn't cum. I felt insulted and told him I wasn't an escort and that the sexual part wasn't part of it. But of course, at the end it was my fault  because his lips wrapping my dick truly felt delicious and I didn't stop him. I still felt like he took advantage. Never again. 

Sorry that happened to you. Too many older men have a tough time admitting that they are past their prime and nobody wants them anymore. So they just assume that every sexual adventure with a professional masseur or escort is all about them still being so hot that men just can't resist having them. You need to make it clear to your clients that you are absolutely there for them to make them feel happy and make them feel desirable. But there is a PRICE LIST for such services.

[NipLuvr212]

1 hour ago, GregW said:

I just treat rent.men and rentmasseur.com the same.  I found some hotter men on rentmasseur,com but that is just my opinion.  When I reach out I ask them for their rate for a massage with sex and let them know exactly what all I want.  Besides,I also found that most guys on rentmasseur.com, if they are not on rent.men, have less full sex daily and so have bigger loads, are more enthusiastic and horny in sex.  Had some of the best sex with my rentmasseur.com masseur versus tons of rent.men guys

interesting - and my experience may be somewhat related (not sure and apologies if not...)

there is a masseur from rentmasseur i have been seeing for more than a year, and i am a loyal client as he gives a great masseur and is a really nice guy. there is some play beyond the usual erotic touching (some oral) and that is just fine with me

he just placed an ad on rentmen - so i was curious and asked him about it and he encouraged me to try --

so what happened felt 1) bizarre, 2) annoying, 3) alienating.

for almost double his massage rate, he gave a light massage, he bottomed for me (not very well or comfortably while still on the massage table) and then after this awkwardness, finished with the rest of the massage.

the massage was great like always - the whole experiene was just bizarre - bottom line:  i am not sure if i will ever see him again because now it all just feels "off"

weird.

[GregW]

1 hour ago, CCLA said:

Would a massage with sex be you topping or bottoming? Or either? Or a blowjob or handjob?

All of the above. Again, this was all mentioned prior to my appointment and a rate provided which I agreed to