Why did you quit?

[Nightowl]

I’ve seen a number of guys on this forum indicate that they no longer hire which makes me wonder why.  If you stopped hiring or stopped massaging/escorting, can you share what led you to that decision?  

Update: just realized this probably belongs under “hiring.” Admins, feel free to move it.

Edited Tuesday at 10:30 PM by Nightowl

[+ poolboy48220]

I can't imagine that I would flat-out quit, but I've definitely slowed down since I started in my mid-20's. Less desire as I get older, a bit more careful about money, and much pickier about finding a guy I would hire.

[marylander1940]

I won't quit... but some might and have because of:

• lack of desire
• cost of living
• economic uncertainty
• changing personal circumstances: relationship, finding fulfilling free sex with other guys, 
• downsizing / rightsizing expenses

[MscleLovr]

I stopped hiring years ago when I met my partner.

He is an intelligent, kind, much younger man. if he were to die or break up with me, I might reconsider.

I have the strong impression, however, that very few providers - who are my ideal type (handsome, young muscle-bottoms) - would want to offer their services to a man in his 70s.

[jeezifonly]

A gifted masseur I repeat-hired a while back was in med school. Once he hit residency, he had offsetting FT income, and no time to do massage. Pity. He had great hands. 

[dcguy20]

I have to be in a very particular mood now to hire, which I noticed is slowing down. This is true even with guys I have had a great time with. 

[marylander1940]

7 hours ago, MscleLovr said:

I stopped hiring years ago when I met my partner.

He is an intelligent, kind, much younger man. if he were to die or break up with me, I might reconsider.

I have the strong impression, however, that very few providers - who are my ideal type (handsome, young muscle-bottoms) - would want to offer their services to a man in his 70s.

MANY clients are your age or older.

Most escorts accept all clients no matter age, size, etc. they simply take into account the client's expectations to make sure they're compatible. 

[Nue2thegame]

8 hours ago, MscleLovr said:

I stopped hiring years ago when I met my partner.

He is an intelligent, kind, much younger man. if he were to die or break up with me, I might reconsider.

I have the strong impression, however, that very few providers - who are my ideal type (handsome, young muscle-bottoms) - would want to offer their services to a man in his 70s.

I’m your age and just getting started. 

[Nightowl]

1 minute ago, Nue2thegame said:

I’m your age and just getting started. 

I’m that age too and only started four years ago.  I’ll keep going until the rejections become too frequent, the funds run out, or my body no longer cooperates.

[MscleLovr]

7 hours ago, marylander1940 said:

Most escorts accept all clients no matter age, size, etc.

I wasn’t making any observations about escorts in general or meaning any disrespect towards sex workers and clients.

I merely observed that my ideal type (handsome young muscle-bottoms) don’t usually want old clients. When such guys think of older tops, they imagine them being 35-55.

I’ve known various escorts socially through the gym. Over the years, I’ve heard several express their views on servicing old clients 70+. Of course, it is a business and most realise that older men with money can make reliable clients.