Clients that try to negotiate prices

[+ azdr0710]

30 minutes ago, ProudWhore said:

Is this him?

 

no!!....CC was his stage name!......please delete that picture as this doctor has nothing to do with this topic!!

[MikeBiDude]

8 minutes ago, azdr0710 said:

no!!....CC was his stage name!......please delete that picture as this doctor has nothing to do with this topic!!

Done!

[ProudWhore]

On 12/4/2025 at 8:38 PM, Whoisyourdaddy said:

Proudwhore, older clients should know better than to try to haggle.

I have more sympathy for the potential college client. He may be too young and naive to know the etiquette of hiring.

I'm so tempted to fuck the college student. But he ghosted me and stopped responding after I said the rate he proposed was insulting. He is a very exotic-looking guy. He lives 1 hour away from where I'm staying. 

[ProudWhore]

9 hours ago, MikeBiDude said:

Done!

That picture was from Google. 

[Whoisyourdaddy]

1 hour ago, ProudWhore said:

I'm so tempted to fuck the college student. But he ghosted me and stopped responding after I said the rate he proposed was insulting. He is a very exotic-looking guy. He lives 1 hour away from where I'm staying. 

That's too bad. It sounded potentially hot.

A young client once hit me up about a provider I had seen. He said he had been robbed and assaulted by someone he had met on Grindr, so he found RM to be safer.

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

13 hours ago, ProudWhore said:

I'm so tempted to fuck the college student. But he ghosted me and stopped responding after I said the rate he proposed was insulting. He is a very exotic-looking guy. He lives 1 hour away from where I'm staying. 

Sounds like you're still trying to decide if this is a career or a hobby. 

Your first topics on CofM were that you look "too straight" to be picked up by anyone at gay venues, so you're always going home alone.  Then, that you're "too hot" to sleep with the few men that do approach you at those venues.  Later, you thought about being an escort but requiring client pictures up front to only get paid to accompany good looking men.  Now, you're an escort over age 40, who rarely does anal or give oral, wants to command higher than average NYC rates for full-service well-reviewed providers, tells a customer you're insulted with a low-ball offer, yet are upset because the low-ball offer guy was hot and you would have fucked him for free!

If there's one thing I've learned from the escorts who contribute to this CofM, is that escorting is not a great way to monetize your personal sex life.

Consider going to massage school and learning how to give a proper massage.  A client can hire you for a massage, and then you can decide when you meet the client if you want to fuck him as well.  Apparently, the young hot 20-something had good success booking masseurs doing that very thing (according to the Original Post of this topic), so absolutely he should continue doing what works for him while it does.

Edited Monday at 06:18 PM by Vegas_Millennial
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[GentJ]

On 12/5/2025 at 3:52 PM, jmichaeliii said:

There are so many good providers that have what I consider affordable rates and tend to be more down to earth and fun.

What would you say is your "affordable" price point? (And where do you live?)

[jmichaeliii]

59 minutes ago, GentJ said:

What would you say is your "affordable" price point? (And where do you live?)

I am in the Philadelphia market.  $250-$300 per hour depending on activities.

[Occasional]

On 12/4/2025 at 9:25 PM, acks0104 said:

I think it's tacky to try and talk down a price that a provider sets

 

On 12/4/2025 at 9:39 PM, jmichaeliii said:

either pay what is asked or pick someone else

Fine sentiments.  I agree with them  But - what exactly *is* being asked? When I speak with a new potential hire (London) and ask his rate, I often hear something like "well .. it's .. er .. £250" or even ".. it's usually £250" . That's clearly a rate not fixed in stone. 

On 12/5/2025 at 1:15 AM, Mark_fl said:

I just tell a provider whose rate I feel is too high something like, "thank you. I'm sure you're worth it,  but thats out of my price range."

But i wouldn't want a counter-offer.

That's what I say, and I usually hear "what is your budget?", to which I reply "it's £200, how would that sit with you if we don't f--k?" Usually I get acceptance. And that avoids the session being affected by the provider feeling that he's been "talked down".  And leaves the door open, in the session, to 'upgrade' the session to full-fee if I decide I'd like the missing piece of the jigsaw  to be included.

Works for me, YMMV

 

[hungry4darkmeat]

On 12/4/2025 at 8:15 PM, Mark_fl said:

I just tell a provider whose rate I feel is too high something like, "thank you. I'm sure you're worth it,  but thats out of my price range."

 

I also do this but I have been known to ask if they’re flexible and I often get a discount for asking