Questions about initial contact

[jeezifonly]

1 client's perspective:

Specifying day, time, duration and location first eliminates the doubt of initial "available?" Also if provider has more than one ad (masseur v escort) include the site so he knows which svc you want. Read the profile. If it includes 'same day only' and you like to plan ahead, just move on. I personally like 24-48hr planning, which he may reject 1st time. Fine. just Let him offer rate after availability sorted. And remember, a response is neither guaranteed, nor a guarantee of it lining up. Because humans. 

[+ PhileasFogg]

I frequently receive feedback about the thoughtfulness of my initial inquiry.  It says who I am, physical/health characteristics, what I’m inquiring about, what I like, etc.   I hear story after story of providers receiving inquiries like it’s a dating app

Often the response is a reflection of the effort put in to the inquiry.  

[NYXboy]

My first message is always 'hey is this xxxx?' I don't know why but I always get paranoid I put a number wrong or something as I view rentmen on my laptop not my phone. When they confirm I send a who/what/when/where message - stating a bit about me, what I am looking for, when I was looking to schedule, and where my hotel is.  

I have always received pretty good replies and not just one word answers. I think it shows I am legit and perhaps that leads to the responses. I pretty much only hire when I travel so I always reach out a few days earlier.  If I get no reply I would move on another provider the next day or later that evening. 

I must confess I have never sent messages to 3 providers and then decided to rate the replies like the OP has. Surprised me to read people do that.