Am I too old?

[White Daddy Top]

Basically, the headline. I'm 60 and wondering if I'm just too old to be hiring. I do so irregularly, but have noticed that when I provide my stats, prices are high, and the encounters have become less intimate. Maybe that's just the general trend, but am I looking at a time soon (or has it already passed) when I just won't find anyone who will let me hire them?

[marylander1940]

1 minute ago, White Daddy Top said:

Basically, the headline. I'm 60 and wondering if I'm just too old to be hiring. I do so irregularly, but have noticed that when I provide my stats, prices are high, and the encounters have become less intimate. Maybe that's just the general trend, but am I looking at a time soon (or has it already passed) when I just won't find anyone who will let me hire them?

Do you enjoy hiring? 

Maybe you should find someone who really fulfills your expectations. 

I'm sure some escorts would rather having  younger clients but that doesn't happen very often. I don't think you're that old at 60.

[Passionproject]

4 minutes ago, White Daddy Top said:

Basically, the headline. I'm 60 and wondering if I'm just too old to be hiring. I do so irregularly, but have noticed that when I provide my stats, prices are high, and the encounters have become less intimate. Maybe that's just the general trend, but am I looking at a time soon (or has it already passed) when I just won't find anyone who will let me hire them?

I think you’re over thinking it. It’s all about finding the right partner and finding a fulfilling experience. Once you find that person, invest in something recurring. 

[+ ApexNomad]

11 minutes ago, White Daddy Top said:

Basically, the headline. I'm 60 and wondering if I'm just too old to be hiring. I do so irregularly, but have noticed that when I provide my stats, prices are high, and the encounters have become less intimate. Maybe that's just the general trend, but am I looking at a time soon (or has it already passed) when I just won't find anyone who will let me hire them?

Age should not be a barrier to having a fulfilling sexual experience, especially with an escort. If it feels like it is, you haven’t found the right escort. They are out there.

[domdom81]

60 is not old!! There are PLENTY of providers out there who are into older guys, so don't be defeated. Just set expectations with the provider BEFORE your session so you aren't set up for disappointment.

[jmichaeliii]

60 is not old.  I'm 58 and have fantastic encounters with my hires.  Just have to find the right ones!

[CADreamer]

22 minutes ago, White Daddy Top said:

Basically, the headline. I'm 60 and wondering if I'm just too old to be hiring. I do so irregularly, but have noticed that when I provide my stats, prices are high, and the encounters have become less intimate. Maybe that's just the general trend, but am I looking at a time soon (or has it already passed) when I just won't find anyone who will let me hire them?

I'm 64 and overweight.  I hire a couple of times a year, mostly for massage+, but occasionally for something more intimate.  My RM profile is filled out with all my specific details, so if a provider looks at my profile after I have looked at theirs, they know exactly what they are getting.  I have had a few young, muscular, very handsome providers reach out to me after I view their profile, which have led to some great, passionate encounters.  I also look for provider profiles that indicate they are into "Daddy", and when I contact them I describe myself on first contact.   Hang in there.  Not every provider will be into every client, but there are some great ones out there who will be just right for you.

[Wanderoz]

Overthinking overages you.  Go for it as long as you want. 

[Walt]

Are you too old?

No.

[White Daddy Top]

Thanks everyone! I appreciate all the feedback.

[Massageguy99]

The answer is yes and no. 

What I mean is for some providers you will be, but that is more about them. If you are trying to find an 18-22 young person they probably will not be fully into you. 

They will be more transactional than a seasoned professional. I personally no longer higher people in that age bracket because for me they tend to lack the skill set I am looking for. 

If you look for providers who are closer to the 30+ mark I think you will find much better experiences that are less transactional. They tend to be providers who are in it for more than just cash. 

Even if you do find a disappointment in someone in that age bracket don't let it get you down. Providers are like everyone else and can have bad days, and some can just be jerks. 

None of those things speak to you as a person. 

"You are good enough, you are strong enough and doggone it people like you" 

[+ Jamie21]

I’d say no you’re not. Find the right guy to hire and you’ll feel 20 again. If you approach it with the attitude that you’re not suitable then it’s a self fulfilling prophecy. Pretend if you have to, at least initially, because if you believe you’re worthy of hiring then you will be. Some of my clients are 60’s, a few 70+. Some are 20’s. Those who feel sexy are sexy, those who doubt themselves struggle to get into it. I believe it’s all to do with how you think. Go for it. 

[+ PhileasFogg]

6 hours ago, White Daddy Top said:

Basically, the headline. I'm 60 and wondering if I'm just too old to be hiring. I do so irregularly, but have noticed that when I provide my stats, prices are high, and the encounters have become less intimate. Maybe that's just the general trend, but am I looking at a time soon (or has it already passed) when I just won't find anyone who will let me hire them?

I’m a little older than you.  I’d say prices are high because the expectation is that older guys have more discretionary assets.   Also, price negotiations are often a test to see if you can pay.  I had one guy say “I quoted $500 because I wanted to be sure that it wasn’t your rent money and that you could afford it”   When it became regular, the price went down

this is an experiment for me after a divorce and a LTR breakup, men simply offer less drama than the previous women in my life 

Paraphrasing Sally Fields in “Forrest Gump” - “old is as old does.”

Edited December 9, 2024 by PhileasFogg

[pubic_assistance]

6 hours ago, White Daddy Top said:

I'm 60 and wondering if I'm just too old to be hiring.

I would think 60 is exactly when someone WOULD be hiring. Too old to be trawling for sex on Grindr but still young enough to get it up.

Overall..."60" looks different for different people. I have a client who was hiring well into his 70s. I think your choice is an individual one. It's been discussed here on the forum, many times that certain professionals do NOT judge clients on looks but personality. So insecurity about being "too old" to be a sexually active man should not be held.

Edited December 9, 2024 by pubic_assistance
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[sydneyboy]

In the rentboy saunas particularly Thermas in Barcelona the providers don’t see age as any problem. I’m well and truly over 60 and the providers in their early 20’s appear to have no issue with  a gent of my vintage.

[myophile]

I’m 66, and still having amazing, mind-blowing encounters. I do tend to focus on guys with whom I’ve built a connection, but I still “audition” new talent. Sometimes the chemistry is there, and I’ll add a new fuck-buddy; and sometimes it isn’t. I honestly don’t think my age is a huge factor in this process, and in fact it is as much an advantage as a disadvantage. Thank GOD for hot guys with daddy issues!

[marylander1940]

2 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

I would think 60 is exactly when someone WOULD be hiring. Too old to be trawling for sex on Grindr but still young enough to get it up.

Overall..."60" looks different for different people. I have a client who was hiring well into his 70s. I think your choice is an individual one. It's been discussed here on the forum, many times that certain professionals do NOT judge clients on looks but personality. So insecurity about being "too old" to be a sexually active man should not be held.

Edited December 9, 2024 by marylander1940

[Thelatin]

If you take care of yourself a 60 year old guy can be very fit.  Get after those weights.

[Poppie]

I am a senior man. I had the pleasure of meeting a MUCH younger man at a bar one night about a year ago. Picture a 20 something HOT former college jock. I was totally surprised when he suggested we hook up, as I couldn't look any more average. We did get together. The experience was off the charts. We still see each other every once in a while. Each time we meet is crazy insane. Better every time. I stopped trying to figure it out in favor of just enjoying the journey. They ARE out there. You will def find someone to share "special" time with.

[LookingAround]

2 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

Too old to be trawling for sex on Grindr but still young enough to get it up.

 

I have many meetups on Grindr and I'm in my 60's. 
Btw haven't you said the opposite in other posts as I recall?

[Vin Marco]

15 hours ago, White Daddy Top said:

Basically, the headline. I'm 60 and wondering if I'm just too old to be hiring. I do so irregularly, but have noticed that when I provide my stats, prices are high, and the encounters have become less intimate. Maybe that's just the general trend, but am I looking at a time soon (or has it already passed) when I just won't find anyone who will let me hire them?

Have you ever been to Palm Springs California? 😂 A large percentage of people I see are in their 60's,  MANY are in their 70's and quite a few are in their 80's! Short story long, no, you're not too old to do what you find joy and pleasure in. 
 

 

Edited December 9, 2024 by Vin Marco

[ICTJOCK]

Well let me say,  if you choose to hire,  it should be based on your comfort level and desire to do so.    I have many clients in their 60's and I am kept quite busy!       You are not too "old" and if a provider judges one by age,  he's no professional.     Good luck and hope you do.

[marylander1940]

40 minutes ago, Thelatin said:

If you take care of yourself a 60 year old guy can be very fit.  Get after those weights.

Agreed!

 

[Vin Marco]

1 hour ago, myophile said:

I’m 66, and still having amazing, mind-blowing encounters.

And I'm going to take the liberty to say it because he never would... he ( myophile ) has a pretty incredible story and history.. he may be 66 ( hard to believe ) but he's built the physique and has the physical abilities of a MUCH younger man. He continues to inspire me. It's been said that muscle is the organ of longevity and it's been proven to me to be true 😉💪🏽

[DGHou]

You're definitely not too old! I am 65, soon to be 66. I've been hiring since I was in my 30's. Most of the escorts I meet are in their 20's and show me a good time, which is what I am paying them for. Sometimes, however, it is not a good fit.  I am a pretty good reader of character and can usually tell when they are genuinely enjoying themselves, which is a big turn-on for me, and when they are just going thru the motions. Find one (or two) you like and that your gut tells you is a good fit and enjoy!