Your preferred age for a service provider?

[mike carey]

25 minutes ago, NJF said:

Somehow your formula keeps giving me single digit age numbers. What did I miss?

The sequence for calculating this is first (X-Y) then divide by 5 and then add Y (which is 20).

If you're over 20, X-Y and therefore (X-Y)/5 will be positive, so the answer will always be above 20.

[ShortCutie7]

41 minutes ago, NJF said:

Somehow your formula keeps giving me single digit age numbers. What did I miss?

[(X-Y)/5]+Y

Y=20

[(X-20)/5]+20

The answer has to be over 20 since 20 is added (assuming X is over 20)

If X is 30, the answer is 22

If X is 70, the answer is 30

So, basically the poster is saying that his preferred age goes up a year every 5 years.

 

Edited November 21, 2024 by ShortCutie7
Clarifying

[+ SundayZip]

6 hours ago, ShortCutie7 said:

[(X-Y)/5]+Y

Y=20

[(X-20)/5]+20

The answer has to be over 20 since 20 is added (assuming X is over 20)

If X is 30, the answer is 22

If X is 70, the answer is 30

So, basically the poster is saying that his preferred age goes up a year every 5 years.

 

Correct. 

Life would be so much easier if everything could be answered by a formula.  

[MscleLovr]

I’ve always preferred men aged from the early 20s to 40. The triggers for my lust are a handsome face and a fit muscled body. 

My first boyfriend was aged 24 when I was 20. When I was in my 30s, I dated some younger men and some late 30s/early 40s…but even then, I found some older men had an unattractive quality (being inflexible and set in their ways).  
 

When I became single at 50, I was surprised how often younger men came onto me. I was gym-fit and lean but I never bothered to analyze why they were interested. It might have been my confident character (direct and open about what I want) or my intellect. Or it could just have been my big, thick wallet and my willingness to open it.

It was then that I found 23 to be a ‘sweet spot’. At that age, guys were in great shape, had some skills in bed and were willing to experiment further in pleasing a top. I met a muscleboy when he was aged 33 and we were boyfriends for some years. 

When I was 60, I met a highly intelligent 21 year old - he came onto me - and we’ve now been together for over 10 years. 

[pubic_assistance]

8 minutes ago, MscleLovr said:

When I was 60, I met a highly intelligent 21 year old - he came onto me - and we’ve now been together for over 10 years. 

Congratulations. In these days of much selfish behavior, 10 years is quite a success. 

[ShortCutie7]

49 minutes ago, MscleLovr said:

I’ve always preferred men aged from the early 20s to 40. The triggers for my lust are a handsome face and a fit muscled body. 

My first boyfriend was aged 24 when I was 20. When I was in my 30s, I dated some younger men and some late 30s/early 40s…but even then, I found some older men had an unattractive quality (being inflexible and set in their ways).  
 

When I became single at 50, I was surprised how often younger men came onto me. I was gym-fit and lean but I never bothered to analyze why they were interested. It might have been my confident character (direct and open about what I want) or my intellect. Or it could just have been my big, thick wallet and my willingness to open it.

It was then that I found 23 to be a ‘sweet spot’. At that age, guys were in great shape, had some skills in bed and were willing to experiment further in pleasing a top. I met a muscleboy when he was aged 33 and we were boyfriends for some years. 

When I was 60, I met a highly intelligent 21 year old - he came onto me - and we’ve now been together for over 10 years. 

To me, age is just a number and one of the least important factors.  While there is an age that men (to my eyes) are no longer hot, it is different for every guy… I call it the “grandpa effect” when men hit a wall and suddenly start looking elderly.  Otherwise, hot is hot whether a guy is 21 or 65.  When I was in my 20s, I would have 100% hit on a lean/fit 50 year old.  That said, I do think that most men tend to peak between late 20s and mid 30s.

[jeezifonly]

Never boys. But young. 
40 is young.
 

[+ keroscenefire]

I like late 20s and above typically. Just the maturity of guys that age is what does it for me. A lot of younger guys are just a little immature for my tastes.

[+ ApexNomad]

On 11/21/2024 at 7:49 AM, MscleLovr said:

I’ve always preferred men aged from the early 20s to 40. The triggers for my lust are a handsome face and a fit muscled body. 

My first boyfriend was aged 24 when I was 20. When I was in my 30s, I dated some younger men and some late 30s/early 40s…but even then, I found some older men had an unattractive quality (being inflexible and set in their ways).  
 

When I became single at 50, I was surprised how often younger men came onto me. I was gym-fit and lean but I never bothered to analyze why they were interested. It might have been my confident character (direct and open about what I want) or my intellect. Or it could just have been my big, thick wallet and my willingness to open it.

It was then that I found 23 to be a ‘sweet spot’. At that age, guys were in great shape, had some skills in bed and were willing to experiment further in pleasing a top. I met a muscleboy when he was aged 33 and we were boyfriends for some years. 

When I was 60, I met a highly intelligent 21 year old - he came onto me - and we’ve now been together for over 10 years. 

I think there’s definitely an element of attraction between young bottoms and mature older daddy top. There’s the sense of safety, emotional and financial security, physical protection, and even the appeal of intelligence and experience. It creates a dynamic that can be incredibly fulfilling and comforting for both sides.

[Mo Mason]

On 11/17/2024 at 7:43 PM, Luv2play said:

The one constant in your life is that you have mostly always seemed to prefer guys around 30. The one thing that has changed as you are now in your 40s is stretching the range from 30 to 18 . That lower age is quite a change. 

You are absolutely right.  It seems my preference has always been for 30 year-old men, give or take a few years.  

[Rudynate]

I have a broad age range because I'm more interested in a physical type than a man of a particular age.  I really go for hairy muscle men  -  they could be as young as 25 or as old as 55 - it's all good. I'm 72.

Edited March 1 by Rudynate

[+ purplekow]

My favorite age is younger than me.  That would include just about every escort.  Most of the guys I see now are in their 40s to mid 50s.  They are in tremoendous physical condition and they still manage to bring home the lumber.  As I like muscular guys, it usually takes ino at least the mid to late 20s to developed a muscular body.  Now the other day a door to door salesman came to my door, selling solar panels.  He was 6'3 and about 220 and had been a lineman on a college football team.  I invite him in and we talked for about 30 minutes about many things, hardly about solar panels at all.  I must admit, I was just at the point that I was going to suggest that he could earn some money in a different way when he mentioned that he ois a Christian.  At that point, I saw my slim chance of success drop to non existent and though I did offer to take him to dinner, I knew it was going nowhere.  So I guess my age range is 24 and up to more than 60.  

[Nightowl]

If the guy shows that he knows what he’s doing and can still get rock hard, I’m okay with any age. Sure, it’s trial and error but that’s what makes it interesting.

[+ ApexNomad]

35 minutes ago, purplekow said:

My favorite age is younger than me.  That would include just about every escort.  Most of the guys I see now are in their 40s to mid 50s.  They are in tremoendous physical condition and they still manage to bring home the lumber.  As I like muscular guys, it usually takes ino at least the mid to late 20s to developed a muscular body.  Now the other day a door to door salesman came to my door, selling solar panels.  He was 6'3 and about 220 and had been a lineman on a college football team.  I invite him in and we talked for about 30 minutes about many things, hardly about solar panels at all.  I must admit, I was just at the point that I was going to suggest that he could earn some money in a different way when he mentioned that he ois a Christian.  At that point, I saw my slim chance of success drop to non existent and though I did offer to take him to dinner, I knew it was going nowhere.  So I guess my age range is 24 and up to more than 60.  

That sounds like quite the encounter! How did he respond to your dinner offer? Also, how did he casually drop the “I’m a Christian” news? Was it while discussing solar panels, or did he start with the “I’ll pray for your home energy efficiency” pitch? As a fellow Christian, I can assure you that our thoughts are as sinful and unpure as anyone else’s.

[Nightowl]

5 minutes ago, ApexNomad said:

That sounds like quite the encounter! How did he respond to your dinner offer? Also, how did he casually drop the “I’m a Christian” news? Was it while discussing solar panels, or did he start with the “I’ll pray for your home energy efficiency” pitch? As a fellow Christian, I can assure you that our thoughts are as sinful and unpure as anyone else’s.

A horny Christian? Say it isn’t so!

[Nightowl]

On 11/18/2024 at 4:09 PM, TorontoDrew said:

I'm 61 and I usually hire guys between 25 and 45.  Always willing to make an exception.

Have any guys at the lower end of your preferred age ever turned down a second appointment?

[TorontoDrew]

1 hour ago, Nightowl said:

Have any guys at the lower end of your preferred age ever turned down a second appointment?

Never. One I still see monthly.  He was 23 the first time.

[CuriousByNature]

1 hour ago, ApexNomad said:

“I’ll pray for your home energy efficiency” 

Who hasn't heard that pick-up line? LOL

[big-n-tall]

I don't really have a prefered age. Since starting this hobby, I think the youngest person I met was in their late 20s and the oldest early 50s. Most of the guys I've hired repeatedly are within a 5 year (younger/older) age range to my own age.

[+ purplekow]

2 hours ago, ApexNomad said:

That sounds like quite the encounter! How did he respond to your dinner offer? Also, how did he casually drop the “I’m a Christian” news? Was it while discussing solar panels, or did he start with the “I’ll pray for your home energy efficiency” pitch? As a fellow Christian, I can assure you that our thoughts are as sinful and unpure as anyone else’s.

I invited him in to my house and out the patio and gave him a beverage.  I told him that I had just moved in and was not interested in solar panels at this time.  Turns out I have solar panels, which I thought I did but never checked until after he left.   He then started to thank me for inviting him in.  He got quite emotional and thanked me as he was feeling unseen and disrespected by the people he had call upon.  It is door to door sales and rejection is to be expected but he seemed to be taking it hard.  He stood up to leave and I filled his water bottle and gave him a  Powerade and an insulated lunch box with ice and made hm a PBJ sandwich.  As he was starting to leave he asked to use the bathroom and he left the door open while he washed his face and then he started crying.  I talked to him a bit more and at that point he gave me a big bear hug.  I was taken aback by that.  He said he was only here for a few days.  He was from Louisiana, Baton Rouge, and he felt that there were very few people who were at least courteous in their rejection.  He then went to wash his face again.  I gave him a bit of a pep talk and that is when he mentioned that he was a Christin and that he felt as though god was testing him.  I was hoping for a gay confession but none occurred.  At that point I said that if he wanted to have dinner in the next few days he was here to give me a call.  We exchanged numbers.   I  texted him the next morning and he did respond briefly and then at night I texted again and he replied in the morning.  

So as you can see, this did not lead to a porno scene.  He was just a nice good looking muscular kid trying to make a living.  I was not going to add to his tribulations by coming on to him any more strongly than holding that hug a little longer than necessary.   

I know some here will say that I had him on the line and it was just a matter or reeling him in, but sometimes you just do not want to be that guy.  

Edited March 2 by purplekow

[+ ApexNomad]

23 minutes ago, purplekow said:

I invited him in to my house and out the patio and gave him a beverage.  I told him that I had just moved in and was not interested in solar panels at this time.  Turns out I have solar panels, which I thought I did but never checked until after he left.   He then started to thank me for inviting him in.  He got quite emotional and thanked me as he was feeling unseen and disrespected by the people he had call upon.  It is door to door sales and rejection is to be expected but he seemed to be taking it hard.  He stood up to leave and I filled his water bottle and gave him a  Powerade and an insulated lunch box with ice and made hm a PBJ sandwich.  As he was starting to leave he asked to use the bathroom and he left the door open while he washed his face and then he started crying.  I talked to him a bit more and at that point he gave me a big bear hug.  I was taken aback by that.  He said he was only here for a few days.  He was from Louisiana, Baton Rouge, and he felt that there were very few people who were at least courteous in their rejection.  He then went to wash his face again.  I gave him a bit of a pep talk and that is when he mentioned that he was a Christin and that he felt as though god was testing him.  I was hoping for a gay confession but none occurred.  At that point I said that if he wanted to have dinner in the next few days he was here to give me a call.  We exchanged numbers.   I  texted him the next morning and he did respond briefly and then at night I texted again and he replied in the morning.  

So as you can see, this did not lead to a porno scene.  He was just a nice good looking muscular kid trying to make a living.  I was not going to add to his tribulations by coming on to him any more strongly than holding that hug a little longer than necessary.   

I know some here will say that I had him on the line and it was just a matter or reeling him in, but sometimes you just do not want to be that guy.  

I absolutely love this story and desperately need a Part 2. I think you should call him up and ask if he can inspect your existing solar panels—just to make sure they’re in good working order, of course. And while you’re at it, casually drop, “What other services do you provide?” The fact that you made him a PBJ, filled his water bottle, and gifted him a Powerade has hearts written all over it. This is basically the Hallmark version of a door-to-door sales romance. Make it happen, Purplekow. You can do it!

One tiny little thing I would have done differently—two texts in one day? The next day no less? That may have been a bit much. 

[Archangel]

On 11/20/2024 at 6:50 PM, SundayZip said:

The age I find most attractive correlates to the change in my age per the following formula where X equals my current age and Y = 20.  

Most attractive age = (X-Y)/5+Y  

 

[Archangel]

I mean…I’m Christian, quite devout in fact. So let’s not paint with broad brushstrokes here!

[BuffaloKyle]

I'm 38 and my hires are usually 18-35. I'm open to older but honestly I can get older guys for free. No need to hire them.

[Km411]

Mid-50s here and only been at this for 2 years but find I like attractive men of all ages. Attraction for me goes well beyond physical looks; it’s more about connection and intensity. And I get my share of younger and older men for “free” (though is it ever really free 😆); has little to do with decision to hire.