Archangel

I hire for extended time. So sex isn’t all that it’s about. We often fuck then go do something else. I enjoy when the Provider cums…in me 😈 If I don’t cum during every fuck session, that’s fine; we will have more opportunity when we get back to the room or to my place. The benefits of overnights and weekends over a one-hour session…

It’s not just this hobby that could ruin people. I think of alcohol. I sometimes consume way too much, talk too much to the wrong people, and after I sober up, thank God nothing untoward came of it. Sometimes when I’m ignorant of some new thing I run across on the internet, I stumble upon things that if my browser history became public, I’d be likely ruined. Hell, even legit legal porn in your browser can undo you depending on your line of work. It’s not just escorting that brings with it risk. It is good to be aware though. I tell Providers I’m out with to say that we’re either dating or married. It normally is sufficient if anyone is nosey enough to ask.

That’s what I said I do. 😉

Maime Eisenhower! 🤣 Who’s thought of her in a hot minute?!

I didn’t read any of the topic but I’m jumping in…in good internet form! 🤣 I’m the oldest of three. I have a younger sister and we have a younger brother. Both my siblings are straight. I’ve heard different postulations about birth order and sexuality over the years. Perhaps there’s a statistical correlation, but it well could be circumstantial. Just because something appears doesn’t mean it is.

Let me also say…a lot of Providers, especially the younger guys, seem to forget that they’re in a service profession, that they’re the “servant,” and Clients don’t exist to be their sexual slush funds. Mutual respect and healthy understanding of boundaries is paramount!

I agree with you. It’s good to remember that it’s a business, on both sides. Too many Clients can get personally attached to Providers as well. That’s a bit further along than the opening line of the exchange though. But it’s true. Some Clients seem to forget that, although respect for each other as persons is obvious, it isn’t a friendship or “relationship.” It’s a business, which is a relationship, but not like that. The best Client-Provider relationship is one that can feel like a friendship or “relationship” but maintains the boundaries of business.

It’s these goldies you live for!

Wrinkle: I’ve had Providers ask me what I’m into. And in those instances it’s ME who rolls my eyes and thinks, “I don’t want to detail what turns me on!” So I can appreciate the frustration that a Provider may have with an open-ended “What do you offer.” Answer: I fuck you! 🤣 I’ve figured out how to keep the answer to a Provider asking “economical.” But it still seems like a chore. I find that’s when a call (which I like to do with most first-time overnight Providers anyhow) is more efficient.

What should a client make of such a similar exchange— C – Hi. I saw your ad on RM. I’d like to ask about booking for an overnight. What all does that entail with you and what is your rate? P – Hi I’ve had this happen, perhaps not with that exact opener but something akin to it. On more than one occasion. When it does, I move on. This isn’t going to be a promising exchange, by my estimate.

Even still. By your reasoning, my number is there and showing up as an issue. I don’t have many providers NOT respond. Yet…some don’t. It doesn’t reasonably hold. What seems more reasonable is that some of the providers I contact who don’t reply are not great at responding. If I rarely got a response, Mr. Number issues would make more sense. But I do largely have responses. The few who don’t respond would therefore seem like they’re not serious about consistently providing. Sometimes the issue isn’t the client.

No. I don’t believe I have any reviews on my RM client profile and all my actual bookings have been positive, save two, and one of those the provider afterwards said he had a good time. So a bad review of me, the client, doesn’t make sense. I should say that it’s more likely than not that I get a response. I’m speaking to those times it has happened that I haven’t. And maybe also to those times when the response to the opening text from me is “hi” or “hey whats up” (just like that – including poor grammar). These aren’t the norm, but I do feel they’ve become more frequent, but again, definitely not the majority. There was something else I wanted to say, related but not specific to this, but by now after writing that, I’ve forgotten 😂 chalk it up to age! 🤣

Asking for their rate is perfectly acceptable. And it shouldn’t be a precluding factor for the client. That said, I believe that a lot of providers see asking about rates as a sign a client is “generous.” Again, not for all for providers but for many, they aren’t looking to provide a service first and foremost. They’re looking to get paid for something they could easily get for free in the club or Grindr. They aren’t seeing it as business as much as a side hustle, at best.

Another angle to consider is that some providers aren’t looking for this to be something they’re committed to or tied down to. Some guys see it as a fun way to get paid to do something sexual that they could likely do for free just as easily. It’s not about the money for them. Escorting and massage aren’t the primary sources of income for all these guys. Some are in porn. OF. Some have “regular” jobs. Some are too immature to be reliable communicators. There is a host of possible reasons why a guy doesn’t reply. I’m still not understanding how a provider would know if I’ve reached out to only him or to multiple guys from my opening text(s). That seems like an unfair and possibly false assumption for a provider to make, and if he does care about the work, a sure way to lose real clients.

How do they know how many providers you’re reaching out to? That’s an assumption unless it’s said upfront. And then you’re just stupid. No one knows how many people I’m in communication in general let alone about services.

I’m probably not going out too far on the limb in saying that “[I] would like to get more info about your massage services and rates,” while not a question, is still an inquiry. Does it have to be “What are your massage services and rates?” For my part, I’m curious how that kind of question could potentially be determined “not serious.” That’s terminology that’s thrown around a lot and I feel like it’s a catch-all expression, more for “I don’t want to be bothered.” Which is a prerogative of course, but I always prefer honesty in communication, even if it’s not what you think I want to hear. If I find out I was “lied” to or indirectly given a shadow truth, that would make me angrier than you saying “Eh. I just don’t care.”

Also Orlando, but I’m not sure if he was Aladdin there. He’s been Prince Naveem too, I think. He talks about Aladdin the most though.

He did. Disney Shanghai.

@NewDaddy, I sent a PM.

My issue is the requirement for picture and ID…especially ID. I’ve found age issues are negotiable often.

My first crush was Italian. He messed up my gaydar – as do many Italians! cf. Mateo Lane* on that! *Does he have a thread here? Totally needed if not!

When I see an ad like this, especially with the very last bit, I say, “pass.” Add to that the guy’s 40 according to his ad. At least he’s (likely!) honest.

Interesting. I’ve contacted and share. I have no reason not to. 🤷🏼‍♂️

If I see any again, I’ll be sure to post here ✅

Well, that’s a ringing endorsement!