Anybody else fall for the men they hire?

[+ SirBillybob]

Going the other way, I think I’ve only gone as far as mitigating a stricken look by exclaiming “I luv you … pant pant omg omg gasp gasp … sucking/ fucking/ /pulling/ tweaking /pumping/ pounding /railing exactly the way I like!”  

[SubNick]

I fell in love with an escort. We've been together for 18 months.. He stopped escorting. I'm helpng him go back to school. Luckily, I can afford it. I don't doubt that part of his attraction to me is that I have money, but I really believe we have a great sexual chemistry and a real emotional depth in our connection.  He's one of the kindest people I've ever met, and I feel like we take care of each other in beautiful ways. 

Edited August 10 by SubNick

[The Dude]

I've never been in love with an escort, but I've definitely been in lust with a few.

[Mark_fl]

Late to this party, but definitely got a strong attachment to my escort. I think having him for the weekend and sleeping in the same bed makes it stronger as well. This is the danger of a BFE. He's paid to act as if he loves you. And if he does it well, why wouldn't you love him back? He's sexy, there to please you, and gives you full attention. So if you have some good conversations,  it's easy to convince yourself there is more there.

But I'm not stupid. I've paid for this performance. And I'm glad he's on the other side of the country or I could see myself spending way too much money on this fantasy.

What concerns me though is that he's much younger, and in addition to wanting him in my life romantically,  I feel protective and paternal toward him, which feels creepy to me.

[Danny-Darko]

Caveat emptor! 

[savantsav]

3 hours ago, Danny-Darko said:

Caveat emptor! 

and all I want is that D constantly so what's the problem? Haha

[MassageCommunityMember]

On 8/9/2025 at 10:01 PM, SubNick said:

I fell in love with an escort. We've been together for 18 months.. He stopped escorting. I'm helpng him go back to school. Luckily, I can afford it. I don't doubt that part of his attraction to me is that I have money, but I really believe we have a great sexual chemistry and a real emotional depth in our connection.  He's one of the kindest people I've ever met, and I feel like we take care of each other in beautiful ways. 

How is this going? 

[SubNick]

On 11/17/2025 at 12:57 PM, MassageCommunityMember said:

How is this going? 

still great. Mutual care and love and hot sex. 

[Rudynate]

I just wrapped up a  weird situation with an escort.  This guy approached me on A4A - a very attractive guy, 28 yo.  Initially, he didn't identify himself as a pro, but when I expressed interest, he revealed that he was a pro.   I didn't like the deception, but,  I thought, "I don't like it, but I can live with it."  We started interacting by text to get better acquainted, and to talk about cost.  But his initial pretense remained an issue for me, even though I didn't say anything.  And then he kept doing little deceptive things, that I didn't like.  Another thing that I didn't like is that he wanted full payment up front, no cash.  But paying him turned out to be this huge chore because the payment apps kept refusing the transaction.  Every time one of these things happened, I would think, "This just doesn't smell right," and I would bail.  But he would plead with me not to bail, and I would change my mind, because he was "just my type." Finally, he told me he would take payment in gift cards, which solved the problem of paying him and we, finally, made an appointment. But my instinct was telling me that this guy was bad news, and I needed to walk away and I decided, "OK, I'm walking and I won't change my mind." I texted him to say that I was done, and of course, he tried to talk me out of it. I told him "I'm a bad client for you. You don't want a client that is as suspicious of you as I am."  That did the trick.  But I'm not sure that I have seen the last of him.  You couldn't really say that he was an escort more like a con.  It's a jungle out there.

 

Edited 35 minutes ago by Rudynate
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