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We started off with a weekend together which was pretty great. We live in different cities, so we have spent one weekend every six weeks together ever since and we speak several times a day. The more I learned about him, the more I liked. He doesn't drink or do drugs, which makes me feel safe. He's extremely emotionally intelligent. He's smart and ambitious and finances were holding him back - he was doing sex work part-time as he was working. He's super-kind and, most of all, honest and authentic. After 2 years, I've never heard him say something he didn't mean. It also made a difference when I learned about his past relationship history, and that his most serious relationships had been with older men - "daddy" is his type. Made me feel like our 20year age difference was okay. I've helped him financially to finish school and get closer to his dreams - always impressed by his hard work - after about nine months of seeing each other sporadically, we made a mutual decision that he didn't need to escort anymore. He also does an incredible job of taking care of me - he's very organized and he's helped me organize/manage many details of my life, as well as helping me take care of myself as I've gone through a tough divorce. I had a medical issue once, and he was absolutely incredible. He loves taking care of people, which I've never really experienced in a partner before. He's also very confident and talented sexually - I've always dreamed of having a Dom - and he loves playing that role for me. He's taught me so much about my own sexuality, and loves being my mentor in that regard. In other ways, he enjoys that I represent emotional and financial stability, emotional maturity, depth and commitment. We laugh about our "Pretty Woman" story but honestly I feel incredibly lucky, as does he.

We just celebrated our 2-year anniversary. He tells me he loves me every day, and I believe him!

still great. Mutual care and love and hot sex.

I fell in love with an escort. We've been together for 18 months.. He stopped escorting. I'm helpng him go back to school. Luckily, I can afford it. I don't doubt that part of his attraction to me is that I have money, but I really believe we have a great sexual chemistry and a real emotional depth in our connection. He's one of the kindest people I've ever met, and I feel like we take care of each other in beautiful ways.

hes so beautiful. At this point, i'm just trying to get him to laugh and respond to me.

Ok but he has to have a price at which i could lick his feet, even if straight as the driven snow. $10,000? $50,000? $100,000? Im not saying I would actually pay that, but I'd be curious what his number would be.

I'm afraid I bit the bullet and paid the $35. He responded to a couple of messages but clearly had no interest in ever meeting. Which is his right but it does seem like a strange way to pass your time. I kept making bigger and bigger offers to him to see if I could get him to meet me or at least respond but he didn't take the bait even when I offered him $2000 just to lick his feet. I'm curious if i could ever him to meet. What if I offered $3000? $10,000?

I have messaged him multiple times, and he just says "sign up for my only fans" So i signed up for his "only fans" and messaged him there and he just responded with one word or two, but doesn't seem at all interested in meeting.. I guess just using a rentmen profile to drive interest in his onlyfans? But not actually escorting?

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I think framing it in terms of "love languages" might be a safer bet than "FIndom" which seems to invite abuse I don't want. Thanks for the thought.

"Spendours and Miseries of the Courtesans" by Balzac is one of my favorite novels!

and by the way just to be clear. I am 55, VGL, stable, happy, friendly guy - I have no trouble dating and having relationships which have nothing to do with money... But this fantasy really appeals to me, and the more real it would get, the hotter. I think. But could I find a trustworthy guy?

I've got a rather unusual problem. I'd love any advice. My hottest fantasy at this stage of my life involves giving money to a dominant lover. It's similar to "FINDOM" but without the heavy humiliation/insulting quality. I"m not into that - or sending money to strangers - no I want to have a lover and shower him with money, let him have my wallet when. we go away together and he controls the credit cards. Maybe I fall in love with this person and we get married and I share all my money with him, but we still retain the master/slave quality in our bedroom interactions. Ive had some experiences with this in different forms, and its incredibly sexy for me in real life, and luckily I have a lot of money, but it feels incredibly perilous, mostly because it's a powerful draw for sociopaths/predators who are sometimes charming. I'm not worried about my money, im more worried about bringing bad people into my life. Is it possible to imagine finding a person who would enjoy playing with this fantasy, who would also be a good person, honest with me, respects limits, maybe even loves me? (In one version) Or should I just brutally suppress this fantasy, which is taking me down dangerous roads?

Is Nicolas Brazilian? He seems very hot to me as well, though I tend to like bigger, beefier guys. He strikes me as intelligent and interesting, which I like also.

Any 411 on this beautiful fellow? Rentmen.com/LUIZ_XXL