Anybody else fall for the men they hire?

[+ SirBillybob]

Going the other way, I think I’ve only gone as far as mitigating a stricken look by exclaiming “I luv you … pant pant omg omg gasp gasp … sucking/ fucking/ /pulling/ tweaking /pumping/ pounding /railing exactly the way I like!”  

[SubNick]

I fell in love with an escort. We've been together for 18 months.. He stopped escorting. I'm helpng him go back to school. Luckily, I can afford it. I don't doubt that part of his attraction to me is that I have money, but I really believe we have a great sexual chemistry and a real emotional depth in our connection.  He's one of the kindest people I've ever met, and I feel like we take care of each other in beautiful ways. 

Edited August 10 by SubNick

[The Dude]

I've never been in love with an escort, but I've definitely been in lust with a few.

[Mark_fl]

Late to this party, but definitely got a strong attachment to my escort. I think having him for the weekend and sleeping in the same bed makes it stronger as well. This is the danger of a BFE. He's paid to act as if he loves you. And if he does it well, why wouldn't you love him back? He's sexy, there to please you, and gives you full attention. So if you have some good conversations,  it's easy to convince yourself there is more there.

But I'm not stupid. I've paid for this performance. And I'm glad he's on the other side of the country or I could see myself spending way too much money on this fantasy.

What concerns me though is that he's much younger, and in addition to wanting him in my life romantically,  I feel protective and paternal toward him, which feels creepy to me.

[Danny-Darko]

Caveat emptor! 

[savantsav]

3 hours ago, Danny-Darko said:

Caveat emptor! 

and all I want is that D constantly so what's the problem? Haha

[MassageCommunityMember]

On 8/9/2025 at 10:01 PM, SubNick said:

I fell in love with an escort. We've been together for 18 months.. He stopped escorting. I'm helpng him go back to school. Luckily, I can afford it. I don't doubt that part of his attraction to me is that I have money, but I really believe we have a great sexual chemistry and a real emotional depth in our connection.  He's one of the kindest people I've ever met, and I feel like we take care of each other in beautiful ways. 

How is this going?