Anybody else fall for the men they hire?

[Rod Hagen]

19 hours ago, DMonDude said:

Sure, but that doesn't change what i said. For some that isn't the case, and that's ok. It doesn't have to be real to be good. That's part of being good at the job. This isn't a knock or something they need to be defended against.

Saying something does not make it true.  It's how you feel likely because you can't imagine being turned on by an average or god forbid below average client.  That makes sense. Standard tastes are standard because they are held by the majority and most gay men only want hot and skilled guys, so anything else is at best settling, at worse a chore, at the very worst unmanageable. 

Since you live in your own head, like we all do, it's probably hard for you to comprehend that throughout  time lots and lots of prostitutes don't feel that way about appearance or sexual proficiency, which is why we stick with it.  There are lots of Rod Hagens and Benjamin Nichols and Mike Gaites and Calvin Culvers and Dane Scots who do this for years, decades, with a smile.  Do you imagine that we are gluttons for punishment?  Sure on any particular day it may feel like a chore because the escort has other things he's thinking of, life, or maybe he came accidentally earlier in the day and is now trying to muddle through.  Muddling through occasionally is true of any job, even the ones we love. But if you love your job, that's only occasionally.  Many guys love escorting and enjoy their varied clients. 

But I'm the one who brought up longterm escorts which kinda derailed this conversation a bit I suppose.  I only did that because I always want to encourage people to either hire the escorts who are established, or if that's not possible to select the ones with the most reviews (use a proxy server) on Rent men from reviewers that seem to write "real" reviews.  But it that's not possible, then yes of course a lot of those unestablished guys may very well be grinning and bearing it just to get by for a bit to get over a $ slump.  I hope they make you believe it.  But there are lots of guys in the major cities available to you who are not faking. 

Edited 3 hours ago by Rod Hagen

[Rod Hagen]

Just now, Mark_fl said:

Not as much as you think.

And have you ever heard them say "whom" instead of "who" when they answer? I haven't.

That's why I put a smiley face on it.  

[DMonDude]

1 hour ago, Rod Hagen said:

Saying something does not make it true.  It's how you feel likely because you can't imagine being turned on by an average or god forbid below average client.  That makes sense. Standard tastes are standard because they are held by the majority and most gay men only want hot and skilled guys, so anything else is at best settling, at worse a chore, at the very worst unmanageable. 

Since you live in your own head, like we all do, it's probably hard for you to comprehend that throughout  time lots and lots of prostitutes don't feel that way about appearance or sexual proficiency, which is why we stick with it.  There are lots of Rod Hagens and Benjamin Nichols and Mike Gaites and Calvin Culvers and Dane Scots who do this for years, decades, with a smile.  Do you imagine that we are gluttons for punishment?  Sure on any particular day it may feel like a chore because the escort has other things he's thinking of, life, or maybe he came accidentally earlier in the day and is now trying to muddle through.  Muddling through occasionally is true of any job, even the ones we love. But if you love your job, that's only occasionally.  Many guys love escorting and enjoy their varied clients. 

But I'm the one who brought up longterm escorts which kinda derailed this conversation a bit I suppose.  I only did that because I always want to encourage people to either hire the escorts who are established, or if that's not possible to select the ones with the most reviews (use a proxy server) on Rent men from reviewers that seem to write "real" reviews.  But it that's not possible, then yes of course a lot of those unestablished guys may very well be grinning and bearing it just to get by for a bit to get over a $ slump.  I hope they make you believe it.  But there are lots of guys in the major cities available to you who are not faking. 

It's really not this serious, all i said is that those who are doing a performance are still doing good work and the clients who enjoy it aren't misguided. I literally never said others who are having fun or are turned on in their sessions aren't or that no provider ever is genuinely turned on. Nothing i said is a slight to you or the providers you mentioned. You are greatly misreading everything i have said and inserting a ton of intent that isn't there. I was simply defending the art of the "illusion" that another commenter here said is misguided.

Edited 2 hours ago by DMonDude