socurious Posted April 18 Share Posted April 18 Would you rather hire a bi, gay or straight provider? I ask because a lot of clients find the idea of having sex with a straight or bi man more exciting. Most of my clients usually assume I'm straight. Do you think identifying as bi, gay or straight makes a different when trying to find potential clients? JTtorretto, KeepItReal and marylander1940 1 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
socurious Posted April 18 Author Share Posted April 18 Well, someone that has an erection to have sex with another man can't be straight. But this is just my opinion. MikeBiDude, + Vegas_Millennial, Simon Suraci and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DWnyc Posted April 18 Share Posted April 18 13 minutes ago, socurious said: Most of my clients usually assume I'm straight. Why do they assume that? Do you correct them (assuming you don’t identify yourself that way?) socurious 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
seattlebottom Posted April 18 Share Posted April 18 All things being equal I choose a gay provider first. Although I have learned that having a gay provider doesn't guarantee a great time and hiring a straight provider doesn't mean it will be a bad experience. Simon Suraci, SoFlGuy, Your Man in Arlington and 6 others 4 4 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ bashful Posted April 18 Share Posted April 18 My best experiences have been with a guy who advertised as bi, but told me he was mostly straight, another who advertised as bi, and one who advertised as gay. socurious and pubic_assistance 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ augustus Posted April 18 Share Posted April 18 Straight for sure. And for the same reason most people prefer straight go-go dancers. socurious and pubic_assistance 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dbar123 Posted April 18 Share Posted April 18 I prefer either bi providers, or partnered gay providers. I find they have less “baggage” and tend to be less self absorbed. JTtorretto, socurious, pubic_assistance and 1 other 2 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Boaxxx Posted April 18 Share Posted April 18 I prefer gay followed by bi. I just tend to question why a straight man would be on a gay side. Call me old fashioned. 😉 + Pensant, Medin and socurious 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ APPLE1 Posted April 18 Share Posted April 18 Like most every issue/question with a provider, I just prefer honesty. SoFlGuy, socurious, Simon Suraci and 4 others 1 1 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Vegas_Millennial Posted April 18 Share Posted April 18 (edited) 6 hours ago, socurious said: Would you rather hire a bi, gay or straight provider? I ask because a lot of clients find the idea of having sex with a straight or bi man more exciting. Most of my clients usually assume I'm straight. Do you think identifying as bi, gay or straight makes a different when trying to find potential clients? Sexual orientation makes absolutely no difference to me. I've had great and poor paid sexual experiences with all three orientations. I do not sort or screen my providers by their orientation. But like @APPLE1 says, we prefer honesty. If you're lying and say "straight" or "bisexual" when you're really gay, just to try to drum up business, your clients will figure it out and not return. You don't need a good memory or need to be a good actor if you don't lie. Edited April 18 by Vegas_Millennial MikeBiDude, + APPLE1, Your Man in Arlington and 5 others 2 5 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Your Man in Arlington Posted April 18 Share Posted April 18 I'm looking for more of a BFE type experience when I hire (kissing required), so I avoid straight providers. I've had good experiences with both gay and bi guys, and am more concerned about "I am into" than orientation. Simon Suraci, peter831, TruHart1 and 3 others 3 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marylander1940 Posted April 18 Share Posted April 18 11 hours ago, socurious said: Would you rather hire a bi, gay or straight provider? I ask because a lot of clients find the idea of having sex with a straight or bi man more exciting. Most of my clients usually assume I'm straight. Do you think identifying as bi, gay or straight makes a different when trying to find potential clients? well, you don't kiss, maybe that's why they think you're straight. TruHart1, + Vegas_Millennial, Simon Suraci and 4 others 2 1 2 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
viewing ownly Posted April 18 Share Posted April 18 I've found from experience the level of passion with gay providers to be greater. Being with a bisexual provider does provide more sexual body part conversation, but I'm not largely seeing these guys for the purpose of chit-chat. chitownguy and marylander1940 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marylander1940 Posted April 18 Share Posted April 18 (edited) 10 hours ago, APPLE1 said: Like most every issue/question with a provider, I just prefer honesty. me too! 8 hours ago, Vegas_Millennial said: Sexual orientation makes absolutely no difference to me. I've had great and poor paid sexual experiences with all three orientations. I do not sort or screen my providers by their orientation. But like @APPLE1 says, we prefer honesty. If you're lying and say "straight" or "bisexual" when you're really gay, just to try to drum up business, your clients will figure it out and not return. You don't need a good memory or need to be a good actor if you don't lie. Many providers call themselves straight or bi just as a marketing tool to attract more clients. There are also some gay clients who would rather hire guys that would only have sex with men for money. 10 hours ago, Boaxxx said: I prefer gay followed by bi. I just tend to question why a straight man would be on a gay side. Call me old fashioned. 😉 In many cases is simply out of desperation for money after failing in other career paths like modeling, acting, escorting for women, etc. Others are strippers and realize they could make more money in a shorter time escorting. Unfortunately, some gay-for-pay guys are ungrateful with the "gays", many high-profile cases of them committing crimes against their clients. Edited April 18 by marylander1940 dyslexia pubic_assistance, Your Man in Arlington and socurious 1 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BaronArtz Posted April 18 Share Posted April 18 I strongly prefer gay providers. In my experience, they have fewer boundaries and are willing to go further ... There can be no such thing as 'I am straight so my ass is off-limits'. That is not what I am paying for. marylander1940, + nycman, liubit and 3 others 2 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ DynamicUno Posted April 18 Share Posted April 18 (edited) Definately prefer to be with guys that identify as gay or bi. The dynamic of being with a straight guy often feels off and disconnected. Worst case is a guy that has to have straight porn playing during the session. Edited April 18 by DynamicUno Mydavid, Your Man in Arlington, liubit and 3 others 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CuriousByNature Posted April 18 Share Posted April 18 12 hours ago, socurious said: Well, someone that has an erection to have sex with another man can't be straight. But this is just my opinion. My opinion is different than yours. Erections are physiological responses that can have little to do with attraction. For example, those who are abused by another guy may experience the physiological response of an erection during the abuse, even though they have no same-sex attraction. It's part of the reason why many of us who have experienced abuse are left feeling very confused about our orientation. Your Man in Arlington, pubic_assistance, Simon Suraci and 1 other 2 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Vegas_Millennial Posted April 18 Share Posted April 18 (edited) 13 hours ago, socurious said: Well, someone that has an erection to have sex with another man can't be straight. I am not straight or bisexual. Whenever I get my balls and penis waxed, whether by a man or woman, I always get an erection. I also get an erection when disrobed at the doctor's office alone in the room and waiting for the nurse or doctor to come in to examine me, not knowing if the nurse or doctor will be man or woman. I don't want to have sex with these people, yet I get an erection. I'll get an erection when the wind blows and I'm naked, alone, by the pool. Same when I'm close to a water jet in a hot tub. The wind or water jet is neither male nor female, yet it gets me hard! The statement above is akin to saying a gay escort can't get an erection with a client that they are not attracted to. Bologna. Besides, straight men get erections all the time when having sex with their own man hand during masturbation. Edited April 18 by Vegas_Millennial pubic_assistance, Your Man in Arlington, socurious and 1 other 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
caramelsub Posted April 18 Share Posted April 18 (edited) 29 minutes ago, Vegas_Millennial said: I am not straight or bisexual. Whenever I get my balls and penis waxed, whether by a man or woman, I always get an erection. I also get an erection when disrobed at the doctor's office alone in the room and waiting for the nurse or doctor to come in to examine me, not knowing if the nurse or doctor will be man or woman. I don't want to have sex with these people, yet I get an erection. I'll get an erection when the wind blows and I'm naked, alone, by the pool. Same when I'm close to a water jet in a hot tub. The wind or water jet is neither male nor female, yet it gets me hard! The statement above is akin to saying a gay escort can't get an erection with a client that they are not attracted to. Bologna. Besides, straight men get erections all the time when having sex with their own man hand during masturbation. That’s interesting. I don’t think I’ve ever got an erection from a woman doctor examining me down there. Though I’ve only had one female doctor examine my genitals. My dick stays soft even at the idea of a woman touching it. Whereas with male doctors I have to try very hard to not get hard when I am touched down there, regardless of the age, or attractiveness of the male doctor. Even when a male doctor touches or examines my stomach I get at least a semi hard on. I do think some escorts lie about their sexual orientation on rentmen, but it’s ok. Many gay escorts advertise as bisexual. My regular I see identifies as straight and is married to a woman with kids. But he has no trouble getting hard or cumming for me, so I guess he’s more gay for pay, as he has told me he is not interested in men romantically, but only if being paid money is involved. It’s weird because he told me he doesn’t even check out other guys, just women. I guess to him a hole is a hole. Edited April 18 by caramelsub Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Vegas_Millennial Posted April 18 Share Posted April 18 3 minutes ago, caramelsub said: I guess to him a hole is a hole. Yes! And $ is $. + robear, caramelsub, Medin and 6 others 1 3 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MscleLovr Posted April 18 Share Posted April 18 I much prefer a gay man. Or at least a bi-guy. For a while, I dated a personal trainer. He was passionate in bed, bottomed for me and told me how much he enjoyed swallowing my loads. So I was very surprised when he declared he was straight (had a girlfriend and baby). Luv2play, Simon Suraci, Mydavid and 5 others 3 1 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
socurious Posted April 18 Author Share Posted April 18 3 hours ago, marylander1940 said: well, you don't kiss, maybe that's why they think you're straight. Well, not only straight providers don't kiss. My clients usually don't ask for kissing. But that's because they figure out from my profile. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marylander1940 Posted April 18 Share Posted April 18 16 hours ago, socurious said: Well, someone that has an erection to have sex with another man can't be straight. But this is just my opinion. they take Viagra or simply close their eyes and think of 🙀 or 💸💰🤑some might even get aroused with a blow job or the idea of emasculating a guy while getting paid. pubic_assistance 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ KensingtonHomo Posted April 18 Share Posted April 18 I prefer gay or bi (or pan, for that matter). I don't see the point in hiring someone who won't be attracted to me (always a risk) and is likely to be very limited in what they're willing to do. Plus I don't generally like or enjoy the company of straight men. Some of my best hiring experiences have been with bi or pan guys who are just really into sex. Redwine56 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
big-n-tall Posted April 18 Share Posted April 18 I don't really care. If I find the guy attractive and he is an active participant/seems to be enjoying himself (even if it's only acting)... I'm good. + José Soplanucas, + BOZO T CLOWN, MikeBiDude and 7 others 5 3 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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