Overnight Rate

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

15 hours ago, Simon Suraci said:

These whole day hires described above are less common but I love these and a handful of clients hire me for a whole day from time to time. I charge $1,500 for about 12 hours during the day, ending by/before midnight. That would be comparable to a 12 hr overnight if I charged closer to market for overnights, but I charge a premium $2k for those.

Thank you @Simon Suraci for your insight.  As a client, I would have assumed that 12hrs overnight would be priced the same as or lower than 12hrs daytime because the provider doesn't have to be "on" while the client is asleep.  However, your explanation of interrupted sleep and awkward morning preparations makes sense.

Providers, take note of pricing more for the sessions you don't enjoy, and less for the sessions you enjoy but could use more bookings.  Be sure to mention those price differences in your advertisement; otherwise, potential clients might not think to ask about the sessions you prefer.  "Ask about my special rates for 12 hour daytime sessions concluding before midnight" would peak my interest when perusing advertisements (If that type of language is allowed by the host website).

Edited April 20, 2024 by Vegas_Millennial
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[+ JamesB]

Honestly, I'm not particularly keen on overnight arrangements. I've only engaged in them with two providers with whom I had long-standing relationships. One used to accompany me on travels often, while the other would stay over if he didn't have any more clients for the night. The idea of an overnight with someone I don't know well or have only met a few times doesn't appeal to me. I suppose everyone has their preferences.

[rvwnsd]

On 4/16/2024 at 4:26 PM, nycman said:

...At $500 for an overnight, it’s totally cool if you sleep next to me all night long.
At $2,000? We better be fucking like teenagers for 12 hours straight.

Funny you said that, @nycman. I paid $2K for an overnight w/a guy in SF and we did, indeed, end up fucking like teenagers for 12 hours straight. We had met up previously and our little 60-minute session turned into four and a half hours. (I extended the session to three - the extra 90 minutes was on the house, so to speak).

[JTtorretto]

$2,000 [per 8hr block] 

 

 

[+ DrownedBoy]

1 hour ago, Simon Suraci said:

God knows what this costs to hire a woman for something similar. Count your blessings, boys.

My favorite rant: "I want a $10,000-a-night hooker!!!!"

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HSwyMHvXsuU

[marylander1940]

On 4/18/2024 at 7:18 PM, Vegas_Millennial said:

The most I ever charged for an overnight of sex was $150 ($100, plus $50 for the ride home).  This was pre-pandemic.  I don't advertise to escort, but I'll negotiate a fee when someone approaches me at a bar or pool gathering and I'm not that interested without the money.  Unfortunately, I was too busy studying and working a part-time engineering job during my university years to have time for bars, pools, or other social gatherings; and, I remained a virgin until after graduating from university.

You escort?

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

2 hours ago, marylander1940 said:

You escort?

Your question was answered in the 3rd sentence.

2 hours ago, marylander1940 said:

Vegas_Millennial said:

...I don't advertise to escort, but I'll negotiate a fee when someone approaches me at a bar or pool gathering and I'm not that interested without the money...

 

Edited May 21, 2024 by Vegas_Millennial

[Your Man in Arlington]

6 hours ago, Simon Suraci said:

A client might clutch his wallet at amounts from $1.5k-2k (or more) for an “overnight” lasting around 8hrs-12hrs ish, but the way I think through all the components, I believe the range I quote is a pretty reasonable ask.

From what you described, I think this was a *really* good deal for your client.

[marylander1940]

2 hours ago, Vegas_Millennial said:

Your question was answered in the 3rd sentence.

 

That means that you actually escort but don't openly advertise, I got it, no need to explain it. Maybe you should place an ad in RM 

[+ Pensant]

I’ve done overnights in the past, but only with providers with whom I’ve developed a rapport. I’m easy. After dinner, we have a fuck session. Then some wine to chill out. We’re generally in bed by 11 pm. I recall that 3 providers slept with me, although I usually have them sleep in the other bed if in a hotel or in the guest room at my houses. I value my sleep. Then in the morning, before breakfast and coffee, some play time.

The most I spent was $2,000, and it was worth every cent. That one did want sex in the middle of the night.

As others have said, overnights aren’t a very good deal. I’d rather book two or three hours in the evening. At my place on the island, though, it’s tough for Seattle providers to drive 45 minutes and then take a ferry; therefore, that’s where the overnight makes the most sense.

[Muscleking]

I’ve been quoted $2500 for an overnight, I have considered it but haven’t made that leap yet.

[big-n-tall]

On 5/31/2024 at 3:27 AM, Muscleking said:

I’ve been quoted $2500 for an overnight, I have considered it but haven’t made that leap yet.

Is this for the 5/6 hour time period you mention in the other overnight topic you started?

If so, I think it's not worth it. I mean to each their own. If you have the money and think it's worth it, go for it. If it matters, $2500 for 5/6 is above anything I have been asked for for an overnight.

[aiseeya]

I think i might have overspent at >$2k overnight LOL

[aiseeya]

On 5/31/2024 at 2:27 PM, Muscleking said:

I’ve been quoted $2500 for an overnight, I have considered it but haven’t made that leap yet.

Echoing other poster that $2,5k for 5/6ho is $$$$$. Better be an epic sex for that rate.

[spidir]

I scheduled overnights with first time hookups to gain experience when I was new to the hobby. Now I choose overnights to enjoy the extended time in and out of bed with regulars. I found that the rate goes down and the time goes up when we are both having fun. It's a nice option and a bargain when you develop win-win relationships.

[Muscleking]

5 hours ago, big-n-tall said:

Is this for the 5/6 hour time period you mention in the other overnight topic you started?

If so, I think it's not worth it. I mean to each their own. If you have the money and think it's worth it, go for it. If it matters, $2500 for 5/6 is above anything I have been asked for for an overnight.

Haha yes mate it is, I mean for me the money is ok, the guy is a top notch quality guy, very sexy and very nice to be around so I might consider it. 

[Thelatin]

On 4/19/2024 at 4:56 PM, Simon Suraci said:

I would be more open to negotiating a lower rate if the client had a suite with a separate place to sleep.

This arrangement has worked well for me in the past.  We both get sleep, I cum and go.  
 

I had a regular pre Covid that I swear never slept.  One of those people that always have to have noise in the background, all night. 
 

I used to get a room that had an outside patio.  His friends would come over and good lord, they would yap all night long. 
 

I enjoy that sound in the background.  He would come take care of me, go back to yapping. 

Edited June 2, 2024 by Thelatin

[Chancealot]

Need a refresher here 

What is a fair/reasonable overnight rate for a what I consider to be hot guy ?

[MscleLovr]

If you want useful and accurate advice…

perhaps you would state where you’re based (or where you’ll be hiring) and also exactly what you have in mind

Something along these lines…

• I live in Boston but want an overnight date in LA on a weekday (or a weekend).
• And I want a boyfriend experience, so dinner etc before kissing, making out etc.
• Or I’m versatile and want to flip-flop during the night
• Or I’m a top only, I want to top 2x in the night and I like to be woken up by getting oral in the morning

 

 

[Danny Rossini]

I've become a regular client for a relatively new provider in SF. We get along really well. I've booked him for 1-hour and 2-hour appointments, but I'm interested in trying a longer visit, maybe including dinner or a movie in addition to play time, and eventually, if things keep going well, an overnight. I asked him about his rates for longer appointments and overnights. He laughed and said he hasn't figured that out yet. I told him I would ask people here for their input on this. Clearly, a 10-hour overnight is not going to be 10 times the rate of his 1-hour appointments, but does a provider's hourly rate typically start to drop at, say, a 3-hour dinner+play appointment? In other words, at some point, if it's not going to cost me any more for an overnight, I might as well ask for that.

I've read many of the comments on this topic in this forum, going back several years, and I understand that an overnight is a qualitatively different experience, as it involves sleeping, possibly snoring, decisions about morning activities, alone-time, etc., and that's all fine. The provider and I are both happy to start gradually, adding some BFE to our current get-togethers to see how well that works. It would just be nice to know how some providers structure their rates.

[+ ApexNomad]

19 minutes ago, Danny Rossini said:

I asked him about his rates for longer appointments and overnights. He laughed and said he hasn't figured that out yet.

This is already a bad sign.

[Danny Rossini]

13 minutes ago, ApexNomad said:

This is already a bad sign.

A bad sign ... of what? As I said, he's pretty new, his hourly rate is not exorbitant, and if he settles on an overnight rate that is too high for me, I'll simply decline. I've seen the discussions about clients and providers who haggle over an already-established price, and I would never do that. He's just trying to consider what's fair, what the market is like, and how other providers think about this. I'm curious, too.

[mike carey]

34 minutes ago, ApexNomad said:

This is already a bad sign.

I saw it as a sign too. That he is new to this and honestly hadn't thought about it. I'm not sure every new provider starts with the idea of taking appointments of more than an hour or so, so the idea of an overnight may not be something that occurs to them, or if it does that it's something to think about when someone asks.

[+ ApexNomad]

2 hours ago, Danny Rossini said:

A bad sign ... of what? As I said, he's pretty new, his hourly rate is not exorbitant, and if he settles on an overnight rate that is too high for me, I'll simply decline. I've seen the discussions about clients and providers who haggle over an already-established price, and I would never do that. He's just trying to consider what's fair, what the market is like, and how other providers think about this. I'm curious, too.

You’ve already booked this guy for one- and two-hour appointments. You have a rapport, so it shouldn’t come as a shock to the provider that the next step would be to ask about longer time together. The fact that he laughed and didn’t provide rates is just odd to me. Any provider offering his time professionally should have an idea of what he charges, especially for a client he’s seen before.

Bottom line: Don’t go into business not knowing your worth. He’s essentially telling you, “I have to think about it, I’ll get back to you.” When? How long should I wait for you to decide how to run your business? There may not be a next time. I’ll find someone else. Know your worth. Know what you’re offering. Be prepared. It shows you’re serious.

[Archangel]

On 2/27/2025 at 10:33 PM, Danny Rossini said:

A bad sign ... of what? As I said, he's pretty new, his hourly rate is not exorbitant, and if he settles on an overnight rate that is too high for me, I'll simply decline. I've seen the discussions about clients and providers who haggle over an already-established price, and I would never do that. He's just trying to consider what's fair, what the market is like, and how other providers think about this. I'm curious, too.

I find the lackadaisical approach isn’t going to jive with my personality for an extended visit. That would be a bad sign for me too. Another bad sign is when you have to ask several times for the overnight rate before you get told what it is. Any number of reasons for that reticence runs through my mind, not the least among them a lack of professionalism.