Overnight Rate

[GCMan]

What is the most you have ever paid for an overnight?

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

19 hours ago, GCMan said:

What is the most you have ever paid for an overnight?

I've only ever had one overnight so far.  I paid 250 Euros (200 plus 50 tip) for an overnight in Vienna in 2023.

Otherwise, the most I've paid to date is $500 for 2 hours with 2 men (couple) back in 2019.

Edited April 16 by Vegas_Millennial

[+ nycman]

19 hours ago, GCMan said:

What is the most you have ever paid for an overnight?

$800. 

It’s the main reason I only do overnights in Europe.
The rates are MUCH more reasonable than in the US.
At $500 for an overnight, it’s totally cool if you sleep next to me all night long.
At $2,000? We better be fucking like teenagers for 12 hours straight.

[Thique]

May I ask which parts of Europe? Thank you.

[+ nycman]

14 minutes ago, Thique said:

May I ask which parts of Europe? Thank you.

The majority of my overnight hiring has been in London, but I’ve paid similar rates (in fact lower) in Berlin, Prague, Paris, and Barcelona.

My personal opinion is, I don’t care what you pay as long as you’re both happy.

For me "overnight happy" stops at around $1,000…YMMV.

[Luv2play]

Of course I mostly pay in Canadian dollars which are less than US by about 25 percent or so altho it varies but I have paid $2000 a number of times and once $2500 for a 14 hour session. The $2000 was for 10 to 11 hours generally. 
But of course I have done many in the lower ranges which were also satisfactory like $1100 to $1500. 

Edited April 18 by Luv2play

[Luv2play]

The best time I ever had was during the pandemic when I paid $2000 for two nights with the day in between. This guy came 3 times each night and once during the day in the kitchen while I was making lunch. I got a protein shake. 

[MscleLovr]

When I hired, I had a lot of overnight dates. That was over 10 years ago. Back then, I routinely paid $1000 in the US while in Europe (London, Paris, Barcelona) I paid the equivalent of $500; in Argentina and Brazil, I paid less. 

On 4/16/2024 at 4:33 AM, GCMan said:

What is the most you have ever paid for an overnight?

$1500 to a handsome muscleboy, a wannabe in LA with a superb physique, who did everything for me and drained me dry…3x that night. 
 

On 4/17/2024 at 5:22 AM, nycman said:

For me "overnight happy" stops at around $1,000

I very much agree. When the rates asked rose beyond that point, I’d request full-sex late afternoon, pay for dinner, and repeat the sex afterwards. All for the offered $1000. It was just as much fun and I was happy to sleep alone.

[marylander1940]

On 4/17/2024 at 12:04 AM, Thique said:

May I ask which parts of Europe? Thank you.

All over!

If it's legal is cheaper! 

21 minutes ago, MscleLovr said:

When I hired, I had a lot of overnight dates. That was over 10 years ago. Back then, I routinely paid $1000 in the US while in Europe (London, Paris, Barcelona) I paid the equivalent of $500; in Argentina and Brazil, I paid less. 

$1500 to a handsome muscleboy, a wannabe in LA with a superb physique, who did everything for me and drained me dry…3x that night. 
 

I very much agree. When the rates asked rose beyond that point, I’d request full-sex late afternoon, pay for dinner, and repeat the sex afterwards. All for the offered $1000. It was just as much fun and I was happy to sleep alone.

Me too!

I'd rather hiring for 2 hours, even during an overnight that's all the fun you'll get anyways. An overnight to have sex at night and again in the morning for me it's not worth it. 

I also know many escorts who dislike them, and only do it if a client requests it. Many overweight clients snore! 

[Jason76]

When I used to hire, I only do weekends (Friday through Sunday/Monday) which tops out at $2000.  I think full expense where I’m already covering room, board and transportation it is a fair rate, any more is too much for me.  Overnight is not worth it to me, why pay someone to sleep for 6-8 of those hours?

[MscleLovr]

2 hours ago, marylander1940 said:

I also know many escorts who dislike them… only…if a client requests…Many… clients snore! 

2 hours ago, Jason76 said:

Overnight is not worth it to me, why pay someone to sleep for 6-8 of those hours?

Very much agree. And it always pays to discuss and explore how a man feels about a certain type of date.

This reminds me of a beautiful blond muscleboy-bottom (23) I met. He rarely advertised and his hourly fee was high ($400) but we had 3 dates of an evening before I asked him about playing overnight.

He immediately said $2000 minimum. I was shocked but I outlined what I had in mind (sex before and after dinner, 7-8 hours sleep and oral in the morning). It turned out that he’d only once had an overnight date. It was with a fit top aged 30 and they had full sex before talking and napping…but the guy woke him up in the night and topped him 5x in total, so he got very little sleep and he felt worn-out the next day.

So he liked my plans and he adjusted his rate to $800, and we were very compatible. We went onto date for 3-4 years. 

[marylander1940]

6 minutes ago, MscleLovr said:

Very much agree. And it always pays to discuss and explore how a man feels about a certain type of date.

This reminds me of a beautiful blond muscleboy-bottom (23) I met. He rarely advertised and his hourly fee was high ($400) but we had 3 dates of an evening before I asked him about playing overnight.

He immediately said $2000 minimum. I was shocked but I outlined what I had in mind (sex before and after dinner, 7-8 hours sleep and oral in the morning). It turned out that he’d only once had an overnight date. It was with a fit top aged 30 and they had full sex before talking and napping…but the guy woke him up in the night and topped him 5x in total, so he got very little sleep and he felt worn-out the next day.

So he liked my plans and he adjusted his rate to $800, and we were very compatible. We went onto date for 3-4 years. 

 

I remember you sharing with us that same story, certainly a great contribution!

I know of guys who got woken up by a client who wanted sex... not a gentlemanly behavior! 

Folks must talk about expectations! It's implied during an overnight having sex before sleeping but not all guys enjoy sex in the morning and if it's "scheduled" should they jump out of the bed to shower, mouthwash, etc. Communication!

I can't find the thread "my empty bed" about a well-known and highly acclaimed escort being badmouthed because the client assumed they were going to have sex after his shower... and the guy was downstairs having coffee.

 

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

2 hours ago, marylander1940 said:

I know of guys who got woken up by a client who wanted sex... not a gentlemanly behavior! 

That's hot🔥

My most memorable hookups involved being woken in middle of the night to a finger or tongue, prepping me for what came next. 😈

[marylander1940]

27 minutes ago, Vegas_Millennial said:

That's hot🔥

My most memorable hookups involved being woken in middle of the night to a finger or tongue, prepping me for what came next. 😈

Not if you're working and they're clients... 

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

32 minutes ago, marylander1940 said:

Not if you're working and they're clients... 

I don't think anyone likes to be awakened while they are at work.

[marylander1940]

33 minutes ago, Vegas_Millennial said:

I don't think anyone likes to be awakened while they are at work.

Most escorts are not physically attracted to their clients. 

I just want to make sure you don't miss this post.

Obviously, you'd be happy to be woken up 5 times for sex by a 30 y/o. Did you ever think of becoming an escort when you were in college?

4 hours ago, MscleLovr said:

Very much agree. And it always pays to discuss and explore how a man feels about a certain type of date.

This reminds me of a beautiful blond muscleboy-bottom (23) I met. He rarely advertised and his hourly fee was high ($400) but we had 3 dates of an evening before I asked him about playing overnight.

He immediately said $2000 minimum. I was shocked but I outlined what I had in mind (sex before and after dinner, 7-8 hours sleep and oral in the morning). It turned out that he’d only once had an overnight date. It was with a fit top aged 30 and they had full sex before talking and napping…but the guy woke him up in the night and topped him 5x in total, so he got very little sleep and he felt worn-out the next day.

So he liked my plans and he adjusted his rate to $800, and we were very compatible. We went onto date for 3-4 years. 

 

Edited April 18 by marylander1940

[big-n-tall]

If i'm remembering correctly, the most was 1600 for an overnight. The least 500. The average seems to be about 1000-1200.

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

3 hours ago, marylander1940 said:

Did you ever think of becoming an escort when you were in college?

The most I ever charged for an overnight of sex was $150 ($100, plus $50 for the ride home).  This was pre-pandemic.  I don't advertise to escort, but I'll negotiate a fee when someone approaches me at a bar or pool gathering and I'm not that interested without the money.  Unfortunately, I was too busy studying and working a part-time engineering job during my university years to have time for bars, pools, or other social gatherings; and, I remained a virgin until after graduating from university.

Edited April 19 by Vegas_Millennial

[DaltonJ]

The most I was quoted was $4000 for an overnight. He has glowing reviews on this site, so I thought I’d reach out. He seemed very nice. Unfortunately, I could not afford his price. He then offered $3,500. I thanked him, and said that was sadly out of my budget; I would honor if I could. I asked about his hourly rate — I was quoted $500 p/h with a min of 2 hours = $1,000.

[+ DrownedBoy]

In my area, overnights can range from 1000 to 1500, although I've been quoted higher by visitors. 

I don't think it's worth it. Many escorts tell me an overnight is less than 8 hours, or that they wake up at 3 am.

I've tried overnights before, but I wouldn't do it again. Personally,  I need to be very close to someone before I can fall asleep in their arms. And I won't even mention conversation. 

[marylander1940]

9 hours ago, DaltonJ said:

The most I was quoted was $4000 for an overnight. He has glowing reviews on this site, so I thought I’d reach out. He seemed very nice. Unfortunately, I could not afford his price. He then offered $3,500. I thanked him, and said that was sadly out of my budget; I would honor if I could. I asked about his hourly rate — I was quoted $500 p/h with a min of 2 hours = $1,000.

3 minutes ago, DrownedBoy said:

In my area, overnights can range from 1000 to 1500, although I've been quoted higher by visitors. 

I don't think it's worth it. Many escorts tell me an overnight is less than 8 hours, or that they wake up at 3 am.

I've tried overnights before, but I wouldn't do it again. Personally,  I need to be very close to someone before I can fall asleep in their arms. And I won't even mention conversation. 

that's a whole other issue.... some guys can fall asleep being hugged while others just cannot whether they're with a husband, boyfriend, hookup or a client. 

Wake up at 3 AM? I guess it's to catch a flight. 

Edited April 19 by marylander1940

[DaltonJ]

I thought the same. 😂  If he can get it, which it seems he can, good for him.

[Thelatin]

Most of my overnights happen when the provider just decides not to leave.  To be honest I think it’s just that I’m boring - they fall asleep lol. 

[Simon Suraci]

I intentionally overprice my overnights at $2k because I really don’t like doing them. It has to be worth my while to put aside the high value I place on quality restful sleep and time to myself at night to regroup emotionally and mentally.

If I were trying to get clients to book me more frequently for overnights, I might price somewhere more in the neighborhood of $1,500 for roughly twelve hours of my time, maybe a little more time including an earlier evening activity like dinner or a date, depending on what the client wants.

The client wanting an overnight often wants to have sex multiple times all night (which is fine), or otherwise wake me up a lot and I basically don’t sleep much if at all, definitely not anything restful. Plus the client snores, and I snore. It’s annoying for everyone involved.

Then morning sex. Again, that’s fine, but it’s a whole production if I need to bottom in the morning. Topping again after having cum multiple times in the past few hours, it’s more difficult to perform at my best. Also, I am not looking or feeling my best until I shower in the morning, so that has to happen as soon as I wake up. I get pretty crabby otherwise. The level of effort to be “on” and perform for overnights is high, so I charge dearly for it.

I would be more open to negotiating a lower rate if the client had a suite with a separate place to sleep. By sleep I mean actual sleep. The playtime can still happen in the client’s bed, and cuddles and all the rest, but the actual sleeping part is way better when I have some acoustical and physical separation. Plus negotiate based on expectations. For example, is this an all night fuck festival, or are we going to sleep by 2am? Things like that.

TBH I don’t see as much value in overnights. I think you get a much better value hiring me for 5 hours before midnight for $1k. But that’s just me.

[GCMan]

Relative to your true "overnight" rate, what would a provider charge (more or less than a true overnight?) for a "daytime" overnight. Say lunch till ten or eleven at night. Some activities in the day with some fun time thrown in?